{"id":359264,"date":"2026-06-13T12:59:25","date_gmt":"2026-06-13T12:59:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/359264\/"},"modified":"2026-06-13T12:59:25","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T12:59:25","slug":"i-cant-afford-a-home-in-san-francisco-even-though-i-make-a-lot","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/359264\/","title":{"rendered":"I Can&#8217;t Afford a Home in San Francisco Even Though I Make a Lot"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Alexandria Belton, 33, who is in the market for a home in the Bay Area. She&#8217;s been priced out mainly due to the AI boom. The following has been edited for length and clarity.<\/p>\n<p>My fianc\u00e9 and I started looking to buy a home around October 2025.<\/p>\n<p>A lot of people opt for a condo just because, A, single-family homes are very expensive, and B, people like city life, and you can sometimes get a little bit more of it with a condo.<\/p>\n<p>But for me, my apartment already serves that purpose, and if I&#8217;m going to buy something, I&#8217;d like to buy a single-family home with a yard and be suburb-adjacent.<\/p>\n<p>Also, with the condos, the return on investment is not very great. We&#8217;ve noticed <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/san-francisco-housing-market-real-estate-home-prices-ai-boom-2026-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">in this market<\/a> that all the condos are selling at or below list price, whereas everything else is selling well above list price. If we&#8217;re going to invest in something in the Bay Area, we want to have a good return on investment.<\/p>\n<p>I currently live in a two-bedroom, two-bath in the Marina District, a pretty sought-after, expensive neighborhood, and I moved here in 2020 when I learned that rents were dropping.<\/p>\n<p>At the time, it was priced at $3,695. In fall 2025, they sent us a letter saying that they were going to retroactively raise the rent. Now it&#8217;s $4,378.<\/p>\n<p>My fianc\u00e9 is in construction, so we like the idea of a heavy fixer-upper. We started our <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/median-usa-home-could-cost-1-million-by-2050-2026-6\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">budget at around $1.2 million<\/a>; it&#8217;s kind of unattainable in the city, which we were aware of \u2014 even before <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/san-francisco-real-estate-prices-ai-boom-openai-anthropic-ipo-2026-5\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">the AI boom<\/a> or whatever&#8217;s going on right now. But we did our research and saw that, within the last year, there were a lot of fixers on the market.<\/p>\n<p>                    <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6a2876fcb19390180e4cebe9&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1197,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1561}}\" alt=\"A woman posing with an espresso martini at a restaurant.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Belton has been looking for a fixer-upper, and still can&#8217;t find an affordable option.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>                    Courtesy of Alexandria Belton<\/p>\n<p>We thought that would be a good strategy for us, but we looked at some fixers, and the last fixer we saw was our final straw. We decided to expand out of the city, and found a fixer listed for around $700,000 or $800,000. <\/p>\n<p>It was only 800 square feet, and it looked horrible, but we saw the vision. It sold for $1.3 million or so, and that was before any work was done.<\/p>\n<p>We were shocked by that, since that was not reflective of what we saw happening last year.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve expanded my budget, and it&#8217;s still not enough<\/p>\n<p>Basically, we learned very quickly not to trust the list price. At minimum, it would go for $300,000 over asking. We&#8217;ve seen a house sell for over $1 million over the asking price.<\/p>\n<p>So we adjusted our search accordingly, and that&#8217;s how our budget slowly crept up because we realized that $1.2 million wasn&#8217;t going to get us anything, even if it was a fixer.<\/p>\n<p>Now we&#8217;re at $1.5 million, and that&#8217;s after expanding our search outside the city. We started looking at an area called Marin, which is north of the Bay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s still the Bay Area, about a 15-minute drive from the city, but it has its own charm. It has nice downtown restaurants and shops, which was our same goal: not to be too far away from stuff like that when we were in the &#8220;suburbs.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>We got a new agent who was more experienced in Marin, and we told her our experience in San Francisco, and she&#8217;s like, &#8220;Oh yeah, you&#8217;re not going to see that here in Marin. Things usually go for about asking, sometimes even below.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>She said we weren&#8217;t going to experience this craziness we&#8217;ve been seeing, and then, immediately, the first house we put a bid on was listed for I think $1.1 million and sold for $1.9 million. I think it was only 1,200 square feet and needed a lot of work done.<\/p>\n<p>                    <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6a2876fca74097c573988704&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1194,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2106}}\" alt=\"A woman posing on a couch.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Belton expanded her search outside San Francisco, but prices are high all over the Bay Area.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>                    Courtesy of Alexandria Belton<\/p>\n<p>Our agent was like, &#8220;Unfortunately, now we are starting to see the things that are happening in the city as people are probably having the same idea as you to expand their search.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I have spoken to people who&#8217;ve said they experienced something similar to <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/sf-home-is-accepting-payment-in-anthropic-or-openai-stock-2026-5\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">the AI boom<\/a>, and eventually it bursts. Whether it&#8217;s the tech boom or the AI boom, home buyers are able to spend an insane amount of money because they have to live in the city.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t really know what to make of it. It feels like it came out of nowhere. Still, I&#8217;m hopeful that there&#8217;s an end in sight. I hope it&#8217;s a phase.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m hoping this all blows over soon<\/p>\n<p>I think we&#8217;ve put in like 10 bids at this point, and we did get close on a house in Marin, but in our gut, it already felt like we were overpaying for what the house was on paper. We didn&#8217;t want to make an irresponsible decision just to get the house.<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, we&#8217;ve crunched so many numbers and spent a lot of time trying to figure out what budget makes sense for us, where we&#8217;re not going to feel house poor, and where we&#8217;re able to still do other stuff in life.<\/p>\n<p>                    <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/6a2876fc59f798e5451f540e&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1196,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:1590}}\" alt=\"A woman taking a selfie in a mirror.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Belton plans on holding tight to her budget and hopes the housing market corrects itself soon.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>                    Courtesy of Alexandria Belton<\/p>\n<p>Funny enough, we used AI to help us with that, but $1.5 million is the maximum. We can&#8217;t just add another $50,000. That&#8217;s another couple of hundred dollars to the mortgage when we&#8217;re already at our absolute most.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s definitely exhausting mentally and very discouraging. I feel like on paper, we both make really good money. We can afford the 20% down payment, and we have all of our ducks in a row.<\/p>\n<p>The competition feels unfair. It feels like we don&#8217;t really stand a chance. I do think we definitely missed the boat.<\/p>\n<p>Still, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s over for me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Alexandria Belton, 33, who is in the market for&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":359265,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[30],"tags":[146226,184,2076,146225,68616,146227,1073,9172,5180,1741,1450,5990,592,101,103,102,1089,104,106,105],"class_list":["post-359264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-san-francisco","tag-ai-boom","tag-bay-area","tag-budget","tag-city-life","tag-condo","tag-fixer","tag-home","tag-house","tag-investment","tag-lot","tag-marin","tag-market","tag-people","tag-san-francisco","tag-san-francisco-headlines","tag-san-francisco-news","tag-search","tag-sf","tag-sf-headlines","tag-sf-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=359264"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/359264\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/359265"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=359264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=359264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ca\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=359264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}