SACRAMENTO, Calif. \u2014 On a summer Tuesday evening, a group of 18 young women gathered at Alma Wine Bar in downtown Sacramento \u2014 most of them complete strangers to one another.<\/p>\n
By the end of the evening, fueled by a few glasses of wine and a handful of casual board games, new friendships were forged and potentially long-lasting connections made. That\u2019s exactly what Carly Grider, the organizer who hosted the evening hangout event, hoped for.<\/p>\n
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