Q: I am 71, native to Miami Beach, hardly have any gray hair and felt so left out of the article on dating. What about us older folks like myself that actually still wear a bikini to the beach, no kids, etc., and young @ heart vs. an old lady? Where do we find a group to get together and have a glass of wine and chips for us older folks who still rock ‘n’ roll like we are 40? I am healthy-minded and like to party like it’s 1980! — Susan Schaffel, Fort Lauderdale
A: Susan, you are so right, the story I wrote about the decline of dating apps and how to meet people IRL (In Real Life) did not include activities targeted to the 70-plus set. This was not an intentional slight; it was just that most of the events I was seeing were aimed at younger age groups.
After I got your question, I began searching for Fort Lauderdale-area social gatherings for the older set and found lots of ways singles who like to party can meet up, including through the city’s vibrant bar scene. Here are a few ideas.
• The Young At Heart Ladies Social Group: This group offers Wine Down Wednesday, described as “Wine, Small Bites & Fun!” Their next event, on Sept. 23 at The Vintage on Harrison in Hollywood, already has a wait list. Check out their info at meetup.com.
• Speed Dating, age 60-plus: Sips & Sparks, which organizes dating events across the country, is hosting three upcoming speed-dating evenings. One is at 7 p.m. Sept. 17 at Harat’s by the Sea,100 Commercial Blvd., Lauderdale-by-the-Sea. Cost is $47.87 for men and $46.93 for women. Go to eventbrite.com.
Another is at 7 p.m. Oct. 16 at ChainBridge Distillery, 3500 NE 11th Ave., Oakland Park. Cost is $46.93 for men and women; RSVP at eventbrite.com/e/speed-dating.
And then there’s Cougar Speed Dating: Geared toward women over 50 interested in men younger than 50, this Sips & Sparks event is set for 7 p.m. Sept. 16 at The Lobby FTL, 510 SE Fifth Ave., Fort Lauderdale. Organizers say there’s “no awkwardness, no explanations needed. Just two groups of people who know exactly what they are looking for, coming together for a genuinely wonderful evening.” Cost: $37.87 for women (sold out for men!). RSVP at eventbrite.com.
Additionally, here are some eastside bars that online chat groups have mentioned as friendly and comfortable for older adults.
• The Wilder, 701 E. Broward Blvd., Fort Lauderdale; intothewilder.com
• Roxanne’s Liquor Bar & Kitchen, 823 N. Federal Highway, Fort Lauderdale; roxannesftl.com
• Kim’s Alley Bar, 920 NE 19th Ave., Fort Lauderdale; Instagram.com/kimsalleybar
• The Mis-Cue Lounge, 975 NE 44th St., Oakland Park; mis-cuelounge.com
• YOLO Restaurant, 333 E. Las Olas Blvd., Fort Lauderdale; yolorestaurant.com
• Moxies Restaurant, 201 E. Las Olas Blvd., Unit B1, Fort Lauderdale; moxies.com/restaurants/fort-lauderdale
• Boathouse at the Riverside, 620 SE Fourth St., Fort Lauderdale; boathouseriverside.com
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