He may only be 25, but Joseph LaPointe III – known to those who meet him behind the bar at Tepeyolot Cerveceria simply as Joe – lives his life with a clarity and optimism that only a life-changing experience can bring.
That clarity and optimism stem from a harrowing motorcycle accident he survived last April and the ensuing, arduous road to recovery: One day last April, Joe had no memory of the events leading up to the moment he woke up with a concussion and broken fibula on the side of the Butler Boulevard on-ramp, where he’d lain unconscious for two hours.
When he next woke, he found himself surrounded by family, laid up in a hospital bed, where he promptly learned that his insurance had lapsed one month earlier. Faced with impending surgery and physical therapy, Joe knew the road to recovery would be a challenging one, but the people in his life let him know he wouldn’t have to do it alone.
His mother, Jessica, who works with him at Tepey’s, started a GoFundMe to help offset medical costs, transportation, and living expenses so Joe could focus solely on himself. His work family at Tepey’s rallied behind him as well, with the restaurant hosting a share night to raise funds for their friend. Other local businesses like Bar Crew Jax and Tommy Gunns Tattoo Shop also pitched in with fundraising and events.
Joe recovering from his accident
Joe is a Jacksonville native.
Joe and his mother, Jessica.
Joe said he has never been comfortable taking charity from others without doing something in return, but was immensely thankful for the outpouring of support he received from his friends and coworkers.
“I never expected it, but the community came together. People I hadn’t seen in years donated what they could,” Joe recounted.
The months ahead were difficult, especially after his first procedure resulted in complications. Joe endured two surgeries, resulting in 15 screws in his leg, and had to wear a boot for nine months before emerging on the other side of his ordeal. This life lesson, which started with a springtime motorcycle ride, has taught him that you can get through anything.
“There’s always a light at the end of the tunnel,” Joe said. “You might not see it, but it’s there. You just gotta have perseverance.”
Joe and Brett
Joe with his family growing up
Joe and his younger brother Brett
Joe might not be able to run or sprint like he used to, but he says he is just thankful to be here. The experience has profoundly shaped his outlook on life.
“What’s the point of complaining or being negative all the time?” Joe said, shrugging. “You never know which day will be your last.”
Though he did not consider himself to be a particularly religious person before, the accident also caused Joe to find God and discover his faith.
“I felt that I was kept here for a reason, given a second chance,” he explained. “There are a lot of people that don’t get that chance.”
Since the accident, he has spent more time with his family, which is now easier than ever because his younger brother recently joined Joe and his mom at Tepey’s. A Jacksonville native and former Boy Scout with Troop 5 in Arlington, he also enjoys spending time outside. He is particularly fond of shooting hoops at Bruce Park, where he played basketball as a kid.
For too many of us, the idea of seizing the day or living each day as if it were our last is an inspiring motto, but one that is difficult to embody in the rat race of daily life. But after all he has been through, Joe needs no encouragement or reminder to enjoy life’s simple pleasures, live each day with gratitude, and stay positive.