{"id":225983,"date":"2026-04-10T07:29:18","date_gmt":"2026-04-10T07:29:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/225983\/"},"modified":"2026-04-10T07:29:18","modified_gmt":"2026-04-10T07:29:18","slug":"stop-treating-womens-sports-like-theyre-fragile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/225983\/","title":{"rendered":"Stop treating women&#8217;s sports like they&#8217;re fragile"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Running off at the typewriter. \u2026<\/p>\n<p>I was reminded recently that we don\u2019t just watch men\u2019s and women\u2019s sports differently; we judge them differently.<\/p>\n<p>And not always in the way people think.<\/p>\n<p>More than two decades ago, when<a href=\"https:\/\/www.orlandosentinel.com\/author\/mike-bianchi\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> I first got to Orlando<\/a>, the city still had a WNBA team called the Orlando Miracle. I covered one of their losses during a disappointing season in 2001. There were a zillion turnovers, defensive breakdowns, blown opportunities; the kind of performance that, in most men\u2019s sports cities, would have triggered boos raining down from the rafters.<\/p>\n<p>But that didn\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, as the Miracle left the court, the fans stood and applauded.<\/p>\n<p>Not polite clapping. A full-on standing ovation.<\/p>\n<p>No catcalls. No \u201cfire the coach.\u201d No angry sports talk radio fodder waiting to explode the next morning. Just appreciation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBoo our own team?\u201d one fan asked incredulously. \u201cWhy would we want to do that?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>At the time, I wrote about how strange \u2014 and frankly refreshing \u2014 it was. These fans weren\u2019t cynical. They weren\u2019t entitled. They weren\u2019t treating the team like a product that failed to meet expectations. They were loyal, supportive, almost \u2026 protective.<\/p>\n<p>But over the years, I\u2019ve started to wonder:<\/p>\n<p>Is that really a compliment?<\/p>\n<p>Or is it a different kind of double standard?<\/p>\n<p>In men\u2019s sports, fandom comes with much more of an edge. If you play poorly, you hear about it. Loudly. Fans boo because they care. They demand excellence because they expect it. It\u2019s harsh, yes, and sometimes unfair, but it\u2019s rooted in the idea that these athletes are competing at the highest level and should be held accountable.<\/p>\n<p>In women\u2019s sports, the tone is often different. More respectful. More supportive. Less critical.<\/p>\n<p>Again, that sounds like a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>Until you realize it can also come with lower expectations.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t boo, because maybe \u2014 subconsciously \u2014 we\u2019re not demanding the same level of performance.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t criticize as harshly, because maybe we\u2019re still treating women\u2019s sports as something to be nurtured rather than fully scrutinized.<\/p>\n<p>And that brings me to the legendary UConn women\u2019s basketball coach Geno Auriemma.<\/p>\n<p>When <a href=\"https:\/\/www.orlandosentinel.com\/2026\/04\/03\/south-carolina-smothers-uconn-62-48-to-advance-to-ncaa-title-game-snaps-huskies-54-game-win-streak\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">UConn was upset by South Carolina<\/a> in the Final Four, Auriemma had a heated postgame exchange with Dawn Staley. It wasn\u2019t a great look. He admitted that himself \u2014 twice. Two apologies in four days, saying he \u201clost himself\u201d and that \u201cwomen\u2019s basketball deserved better.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Fair enough.<\/p>\n<p>But here\u2019s the question: If that exact same moment happened in a men\u2019s Final Four game, how would we react?<\/p>\n<p>Would we demand multiple apologies? Would we frame it as a stain on the sport? Would we call the coach a bully or a tyrant?<\/p>\n<p>Or would we just shrug and say: \u201cThose guys are COMPETITORS!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Because we\u2019ve seen it before. Men\u2019s coaches yelling, jawing, getting in each other\u2019s faces. And the reaction is usually some version of admiration: passion, fire, will to win.<\/p>\n<p>In the women\u2019s game, the same behavior is deemed unacceptable.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p>Do we expect women\u2019s sports to be more civil? More respectful? More composed?<\/p>\n<p>And if so, isn\u2019t that its own form of inequality?<\/p>\n<p>We say we want women\u2019s sports to be taken as seriously as men\u2019s sports. But seriousness comes with scrutiny, criticism, uncomfortable moments and emotional outbursts.<\/p>\n<p>And, yes \u2014 Miracle of miracles \u2014 it even comes with boos. \u2026<\/p>\n<p>SHORT STUFF: Did you see where mad scientist Bryson DeChambeau is once again going outside the box at this year\u2019s Masters by playing with a 5-iron that he fabricated himself with a 3D printer? If something goes wrong, DeChambeau won\u2019t consult his swing coach; he\u2019ll call IT support. \u2026 Great point from Sentinel colleague <a href=\"https:\/\/www.orlandosentinel.com\/2026\/04\/08\/pam-bondi-ousted-matt-gaetz\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Scott Maxwell, who noted earlier this week<\/a> that the NFL is not backing down amid Florida attorney general James Uthmeier\u2019s threats to challenge the Rooney Rule \u2014 the NFL\u2019s longstanding effort to ensure minority candidates get interviewed for head-coaching jobs. Uthmeier \u2014 a former campaign manager for Ron DeSantis whom the governor promoted and appointed as the state\u2019s attorney general \u2014 is threatening legal action against the league. Maxwell rightfully points out that Uthmeier got his job via political connections, but he now is somehow worried about other hirings that might not be based on \u201cmerit.\u201d \u2026<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.orlandosentinel.com\/2026\/04\/08\/orlando-magic-minnesota-timberwolves-wolves-paolo-banchero-franz-wagner-desmond-bane-joe-ingles-nba-game-recap-kia-center-jamahl-mosley\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Orlando Magic survived a scare Wednesday<\/a> night when Franz Wagner, who has already missed 48 games due to a left high ankle sprain, went down during a game against Minnesota and immediately grabbed his left knee. Because of the Magic\u2019s injury history, everybody expected the worst, but, thankfully, Franz was able to walk off the court on his own power and returned to action late in the third quarter. Hey, in Orlando, walking it off and reentering the game is reason enough for a standing ovation. \u2026 Orlando City has been outscored 23-5 this season. I\u2019m not saying the Lions have a bad defense, but their goalkeepers are starting to request hazard pay. \u2026 Prosecutors are seeking Tiger Woods \u2018 prescription drug records from a pharmacy, after his vehicle crashed in Florida on March 27 and he pleaded not guilty to charges of driving under the influence. During Masters week, it used to be Tiger\u2019s golf clubs in the spotlight, but now it\u2019s his medicine cabinet. \u2026<\/p>\n<p>A moment of silence, please. Buddy, the largest alligator in Gatorland\u2019s history, has gone to That Big All-You-Can-Eat Swamp in the Sky. Buddy, who measured about 13 feet, 8 inches long and weighed nearly half a ton, was about 70 when he took his last breath. In other words, Buddy was so old he had to put in his dentures before eating his lunch of pre-chewed chicken and applesauce. \u2026 The Chicago Bulls fired their entire front office two days ago and now say the new head of basketball operations has one major requirement \u2014 retaining Billy Donovan as head coach. Who would have ever thought Billy D would go from college basketball legend to NBA last man standing? \u2026 Did you see where Colin Kaepernick is writing his memoirs? Working title: \u201cStill Waiting By the Phone.\u201d \u2026\u00a0 Less than 12 hours after college basketball\u2019s transfer portal opened up earlier this week, more than 1,000 players were already in it. Translation: College basketball is no longer a sport; it\u2019s an Airbnbs. \u2026<\/p>\n<p>LAST WORD: \u00a0A happy belated National Beer Day to everyone out there, and let us never forget the wise words attributed to the great hophead himself Ben Franklin: \u201cBeer is proof that God loves us and wants us to be happy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Email me at mbianchi@orlandosentinel.com. Hit me up on social media @BianchiWrites and listen to my radio show \u201cGame On\u201d every weekday from 3 to 6 p.m. on FM 96.9, AM 740 and 969TheGame.com\/listen<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Running off at the typewriter. \u2026 I was reminded recently that we don\u2019t just watch men\u2019s and women\u2019s&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":225984,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[101892,27005,139,141,140,31007,9656,22053],"class_list":{"0":"post-225983","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-orlando","8":"tag-double-standard","9":"tag-geno-auriemma","10":"tag-orlando","11":"tag-orlando-headlines","12":"tag-orlando-news","13":"tag-uconn","14":"tag-wnba","15":"tag-womens-sports"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/225983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=225983"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/225983\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/225984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=225983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=225983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=225983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}