{"id":419797,"date":"2026-10-06T02:22:20","date_gmt":"2026-10-06T02:22:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/419797\/"},"modified":"2026-10-06T02:22:20","modified_gmt":"2026-10-06T02:22:20","slug":"obituary-merle-weiss-south-beach-socialite-gay-rights-ally","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-fl\/419797\/","title":{"rendered":"Obituary: Merle Weiss, South Beach socialite, gay rights ally"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"In<\/p>\n

In a file photo from Aug. 9, 2002, Merle Weiss, center left, and Danny Weiss, right, are seen celebrating their birthdays at the former Jimmy\u2019z at The Forge. The couple were party fixtures from the first stirrings of the scene in the 1990s. From left to right, Merle gets a hug from a well-wisher, drag queen Elaine Lancaster, and Danny.<\/p>\n

Barbara P. Hernandez<\/p>\n

Miami Herald File<\/p>\n

South Beach socialite, arts and gay rights activist, businesswoman, volunteer and visionary Merle Rosenbaum Weiss was the Dolly Parton of the local Miami community.<\/p>\n

Sure, that\u2019s a lofty reach. Dolly was universally singular<\/a>. But with Weiss\u2019 platinum hair, flair for fashion and, most of all, her beatific demeanor and embrace of everyone, Weiss shared qualities with the late country-pop music queen.<\/p>\n

Weiss died Sunday at 88 after battling lung cancer, her husband Daniel Weiss said. Her family and friends turned to social media to share memories and expressions of love. That\u2019s fitting. Weiss was the epitome of social.<\/p>\n

Merle\u2019s mark on Miami \"In In this file photo from Sept. 12, 2006, Merle Weiss is seen hosting a surprise party for South Beach pioneer Louis Canales at Talula’s restaurant. Marice Cohn Band Miami Herald File <\/p>\n

In the late 1980s and beyond, if you went to a nightclub, a restaurant, a benefit for anything and everything from Save-Dade to the Miami Book Fair, you ran into Merle Weiss. If you saw a movie presented by the Miami Film Festival, thank Merle. She was a Film Society board member.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe magic that sparked the Miami Film Festival in the \u201880s,\u201d co-founding director Nat Chediak said on Facebook.<\/p>\n

If you attended Art Basel bashes when the visual arts fair first landed in Miami Beach a quarter-century ago, you saw Merle and Danny Weiss looking fabulous and upstaging the art.<\/p>\n

\u201cMerle was a rare bird,\u201d her husband said in an email to the Miami Herald. \u201cRemarkable was Merle\u2019s what-you-see-is what-you-get persona. Upon first encounter \u2014 and every thereafter \u2014 Merle told you how she felt and what she thought. This radiant facet of character endeared Merle to most. It served both Merle and the community well in all Merle\u2019s professional and volunteer and social endeavors. It made Merle particularly lovable and memorable.\u201d<\/p>\n

Chances are she greeted you with her usual, \u201cHello, Gorgeous!\u201d If you dressed for any of these occasions in one of her outfits you bought at her posh Lincoln Road consignment shop, Merle\u2019s Closet, you wouldn\u2019t be remiss if you called Merle and Danny \u201cThe Adam and Eve of South Beach.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"Former Former Ocean Drive magazine editor Glenn Albin shared a photo on Facebook on Oct. 4, 2026, of his friends Merle and Danny Weiss when they \u201cre-wed\u201d at Groove Jet, a popular nightclub that was at 323 23rd St. from late 1994 to 2001. Courtesy Glenn Albin <\/p>\n

That\u2019s what editor Glenn Albin of the former social chronicler magazine Ocean Drive pronounced the couple in a 2002 Miami Herald story.<\/p>\n

\u201cOutrageous by suburban standards, but entirely cherished on South Beach. They were on the front line when there were no more than 50 pioneers getting together night after night dreaming about South Beach getting noticed,\u201d he said at the time.<\/p>\n

On a Facebook post, Albin remembered those days when South Beach was emerging from a decades-long slumber after TV\u2019s \u201cMiami Vice<\/a>\u201d reminded the world the island community once had color and pizzazz.<\/p>\n

\u201cJerry Powers, my publisher at Ocean Drive, often pulled me aside and pleaded, \u2018Why is Merle in every issue?\u2019 And I remember saying to him at least once, \u2018Jerry, she\u2019s the reason that we\u2019re all here.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

Albin shared their last text communication from Saturday afternoon.<\/p>\n

\u201cGlenn, so beautiful. Love you madly. How wonderful that we were all thinking of one another at the same time. Love still makes the world go \u2018round.\u201d<\/p>\n

A move to Miami Beach \"Danny Danny and Merle Weiss share a smooch at The Collection party at the Murano Grande in this file photo from Sept. 20, 2003. Manny Hernandez Miami Herald File <\/p>\n

Born in Philadelphia, on July 30, 1938, Merle Weiss moved to Miami in the late 1960s where she would later meet husband Danny, a University of Miami grad and attorney, and her life partner of 55 years. The couple moved to Miami Beach in 1985. Her three sons from a previous marriage were grown.<\/p>\n

\u201cI mean, I\u2019m really lucky,\u201d she told the Herald in 2002 as she reflected on life as one half of SoBe\u2019s top party pair. \u201cThis is a man who doesn\u2019t watch sports on television and loves to go shopping. He\u2019s perfect.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"Merle Merle Weiss at her thrift shop Merle’s Closet on Miami Beach\u2019s Lincoln Road on the year it opened in 1992 in this file photo from Nov. 22, 1992. Miami Herald File <\/p>\n

Her Merle\u2019s Closet thrift shop, tucked near the South Florida Arts Center on Lincoln Road, opened in 1992. For three years, it served as an oasis for the community\u2019s colorful characters like the drag queens who gave South Beach\u2019s Ocean Drive and Washington Avenue hotspots like Warsaw Ballroom, Palace Bar & Restaurant and Twist its flair and flash back in the day.<\/p>\n

\u201cWho didn\u2019t love Merle and Danny? They were everywhere tirelessly supporting the causes and people they believed in and cherished,\u201d said Lisa Cole, Hilton\u2019s director of Americas Communications.<\/p>\n

A hip couple<\/p>\n

The Miami Herald dubbed Danny and Merle Weiss \u201cthe hippest straight couple on the party circuit.\u201d<\/p>\n

She was a hoot, with her spotlight-catching hair, svelte figure and high heels dotting indentations on red carpets.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe first time we went to Warsaw,\u201d Merle told the Herald in 2002 about the famous gay dance palace on Washington, \u201cwe saw people dancing nude and simulating sex on stage. We loved it! We started inviting other couples who were our friends. They were horrified. But we had the greatest time.\u201d<\/p>\n

Long timers may recall Irene Williams<\/a>, \u201ca tiny woman who walked Lincoln Road every day in bright, head-to-toe color-coordinated (Purple! Red! Green! Orange! Pink!) outfits she made herself, out of towels, fuzzy toilet seat covers, vinyl, and the like,\u201d the blog Culture View MIA posted in 2017.<\/p>\n

Naturally, there was a friendly connection between Williams and the Adam and Eve of South Beach.<\/p>\n

The Jewish Museum of Florida-FIU hosted the show \u201cIrene Williams: Queen of Lincoln Road\u201d that featured her outfits. Merle, dressed for the opening in matching pink Pucci dress and shoes and Danny in a pink seersucker suit, served as show sponsors.<\/p>\n

\"Dan Dan and Merle Weiss with Michael Toomey, Gay & Lesbian Film Festival Chairman, at The Hotel Nash on April 26, 2006. They were part of the Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. Steve Rothaus Miami Herald File Supporting causes<\/p>\n

The Miami Beach Commission for Women presented Weiss with its Women Worth Knowing award in 2007 for her work on behalf of numerous arts organizations, the Winter Party and the Miami Beach Gay and Lesbian Film Festival.<\/p>\n

\u201cI reminded people how important it is that gays and lesbians have the same rights as everyone else,\u201d Weiss said as she accepted the honor.<\/p>\n

\u201cThe world is markedly less fabulous without Merle Weiss click-clacking through it on the high heels she wore until her last days,\u201d said Miami attorney Elizabeth Schwartz. \u201cMerle was the earliest and best definition of an LGBTQ+ ally, opening her arms and the doors to her Lincoln Road store to welcome those on the margins. Merle had a knack for bringing people together \u2014 LGBTQ+ and straight; the socially prominent and the club kids. She excluded no one.\u201d<\/p>\n

Merle\u2019s Closet, and its founder\u2019s brio, defined an era of the Beach. But her shop closed in 1995, hit by skyrocketing rents as the neighborhood revitalized into a tropical East Village that drew celebs like Madonna, Cher, Prince, Sean Penn and Sylvester Stallone to town and into Miami Beach nightclubs like Liquid, Shadow Lounge, Bash, Bar None, Glam Slam, Crobar and Groove Jet.<\/p>\n

\u201cShe was one of the most memorable personalities on the Beach. Her presence was always luminescent and she and her husband Danny attended and supported a myriad of causes helping better all things,\u201d said director and writer Richard Jay-Alexander. \u201cShe was fun, but a serious thinker and a kind and generous human being. And then there were the clothes. Every time she went out, any affair would turn into an event.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"Merle Merle Weiss and director Richard Jay-Alexander at an accidental \u201cbump into\u201d in New York City, when he directed a Robert DeNiro tribute at the Chaplin Awards at Lincoln Center in 2017. \u201cI was surprised and overjoyed to see both she and Danny there. Merle was a force and will be sorely missed. A true South Beach pioneer,\u201d he said. Courtesy Richard Jay-Alexander <\/p>\n

Weiss\u2019 life lessons extended to her family.<\/p>\n

Said son Matthew Telepman: \u201cThrough her compassion for all people, no matter their color, race, religion, gender ethnicity or sexual orientation, I learned to not judge people on what I could visually see, but about what is in their heart and soul. That helped me to try to be a person who treated people how I want to be treated.\u201d<\/p>\n

Survivors and services<\/p>\n

Weiss\u2019 survivors include her sons, Matthew, Douglas and James Telepman; grandchildren Jakob, Gabriela, Blair, Zachary, and Josh Telepman; and husband Daniel Weiss.<\/p>\n

Funeral services will be at 11 a.m. Wednesday, Oct. 7, at Riverside Gordon Memorial Chapels at Mt. Nebo Kendall, 5900 SW 77th Ave. in Miami-Dade.<\/p>\n

\"Merle Merle Weiss, Israel Sands and Iran Issa Khan party at the former North One 10 restaurant on Biscayne Boulevard in this file photo from July 12, 2004. Manny Hernandez Miami Herald File \"Danny Danny and Merle Weiss circa 1988. Tara Solomon Miami Herald File <\/p>\n

This story was originally published October 5, 2026 at 4:53 PM.<\/p>\n

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