{"id":177992,"date":"2026-03-28T03:55:35","date_gmt":"2026-03-28T03:55:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/177992\/"},"modified":"2026-03-28T03:55:35","modified_gmt":"2026-03-28T03:55:35","slug":"kew-gardens-queens-bar-shooting-father-of-29-year-old-innocent-bystander-grieves-murdered-son","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/177992\/","title":{"rendered":"Kew Gardens, Queens bar shooting: Father of 29-year-old innocent bystander grieves murdered son"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao MvWXB TjIXL aGjvy ebVHC \">HOLLIS, Queens (WABC) &#8212; A grieving father is breaking his silence after his <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/abc7ny.com\/post\/nypd-searching-gunman-man-shot-killed-inside-kew-gardens-queens-bar\/18762171\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">son was killed by a stray bullet<\/a> when gunfire broke out in a Queens bar on Tuesday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">The 29-year-old innocent bystander, Demitri McKay Jr., was shot in the left arm inside the restaurant and bar, Hangar 11, on Metropolitan Avenue.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">The bullet went through his arm and struck his heart, killing him.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;Son. I wish it was me instead of you. They got the wrong Demitri. They got the wrong Demitri. I wish it was me so my son could live and raise his son,&#8221; said the victim&#8217;s father, Demitri McKay Sr.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">The words from McKay Sr. describe an emotional pain so unimaginable that it stabs you in the heart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;I keep thinking he&#8217;s going to come out the room. I keep thinking he&#8217;s going to say, &#8216;hey pop, hi pop,'&#8221; McKay Sr. said. &#8220;And my wife and I we keep going in there and sitting in his bed and we&#8217;ll lay on his bed, smelling his clothes. Oh god. Oh god.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">McKay Sr. says he and his wife can barely breathe inside their home. Their 29-year-old son, Demitri McKay Jr., with his radiant smile, was <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/abc7ny.com\/post\/nypd-searching-gunman-man-shot-killed-inside-kew-gardens-queens-bar\/18762171\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">killed by a stray bullet<\/a> meant for someone else.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Police say it happened around 1:30 a.m. on Tuesday, inside a bar in Kew Gardens, Queens.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">McKay Jr. was an MTA bus driver. His bus route passes by the Mt. Olivet Baptist Church of Hollis, where his father is a deacon and chair of the trustee board.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Jr. grew up in the church and served as an usher.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;When he was young, he&#8217;d come down here and I&#8217;m in the trustee room and we&#8217;re doing business, and he&#8217;d come knock on the door and he&#8217;d say, &#8216;oh dad, mom wants you,&#8217; and I&#8217;d say, &#8216;I&#8217;m busy son,'&#8221; McKay Sr. said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Police are <a class=\"zZygg UbGlr iFzkS qdXbA WCDhQ DbOXS tqUtK GpWVU iJYzE \" data-testid=\"prism-linkbase\" href=\"https:\/\/abc7ny.com\/post\/kew-gardens-bar-shooting-new-video-shows-suspects-before-gunfire-rang-inside-killing-1-man\/18774548\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">looking for the two suspects<\/a> seen in a surveillance video.<\/p>\n<p>CeFaan Kim has the latest on the shooting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">Investigators say they fired multiple shots into a crowd.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">McKay&#8217;s father says his son was a peacemaker full of love.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">He leaves behind an 8-year-old son.<\/p>\n<p class=\"EkqkG IGXmU nlgHS yuUao lqtkC TjIXL aGjvy \">&#8220;I feel sorry for those assailants who killed my son because if they would&#8217;ve took the time to know him, they would&#8217;ve loved them too and I just want to say to those people who killed my son. I forgive you. 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