{"id":205616,"date":"2026-04-22T02:16:27","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T02:16:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/205616\/"},"modified":"2026-04-22T02:16:27","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T02:16:27","slug":"finding-your-people-in-college-a-qa-with-a-first-year-first-gen-student","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/205616\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding Your People in College: A Q&#038;A with a First-Year, First-Gen Student"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\">Wondering how you\u2019ll find your people on campus? It\u2019s a question almost every student has before arriving. Will I fit in? Will I actually feel like I belong here?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Annamaria Garcia, a first-year, first-generation college student, came to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">St. John\u2019s University <\/a>with those same thoughts in mind. As someone who considered herself more introverted, stepping into her first semester felt uncertain at first.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But over time, she found her place. By getting involved, showing up, and staying open to new experiences, Annamaria built a strong sense of community and grew more confident along the way.<\/p>\n<p>In this Q&amp;A, she reflects on her journey and shares honest advice for students who are still figuring out where they belong.Can you introduce yourself?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I am a first-year student at St. John\u2019s, majoring in psychology. I am involved in several areas on campus. I am a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/who-we-are\/faith-mission-ministry\/campus-ministry\/leadership-and-development\/catholic-scholars\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Catholic Scholar<\/a>, a member of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/who-we-are\/faith-mission-ministry\/institute-vincentian-impact\/vincentian-service-and-social-justice\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">St. Vincent de Paul Society<\/a>, the first-year student representative for the Hispanic Ministry, and a member of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/life-st-johns\/new-york-locations\/queens-residential-campus\/queens-campus-life\/student-organizations\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sensaci\u00f3n<\/a> dance team. I am also a student worker in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/who-we-are\/faith-mission-ministry\/campus-ministry\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Campus Ministry<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>As a first-generation college student, did you feel nervous starting your first semester?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Definitely. None of my siblings made it through college, so to say I am almost done with my first year feels amazing. I feel like I am on cloud nine.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">At the same time, I do feel that pressure. My family has high expectations for me. They want me to succeed and \u201cbreak the cycle\u201d so I can have a better life than they did.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It can feel like a lot, but it also motivates me. It reminds me why I am here and why I need to keep going.<\/p>\n<p>What helped you take that first step to getting involved on campus?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">At first, I was not planning to get involved. I had the same mindset in high school. I was just going to class and going home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But my Catholic Scholars moderator encouraged us to make the most of everything here. Join something, explore, and use the resources. I really took that to heart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Then, people from Campus Ministry started reaching out about events, which made it easier. I did not feel like I had to figure everything out on my own. I slowly started going to things, meeting people, and easing into it.<\/p>\n<p>Which campus experiences have made you feel most connected?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The St. Vincent de Paul Society definitely stands out. When we do service, such as going on a M<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/who-we-are\/faith-and-mission\/institute-vincentian-impact\/service\/midnight-run\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">idnight Run<\/a>, it really changes our perspective.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I did not have expectations going into it, but afterward, I felt so grateful. It made me reflect on how fortunate I am to be in college and to have these opportunities.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Sensaci\u00f3n has been another big one for me. In high school, I was very shy. I was the type to sit quietly in a corner and only talk if I had to.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Joining the dance team pushed me out of that. Everyone is so supportive. If I do not get something right away, they go over it with me again and again. They encourage me, celebrate small wins, and remind me that it is okay to ask questions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It really feels like having a built-in support system.<\/p>\n<p>How has working on campus shaped your experience and sense of community?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Working in Campus Ministry has really shown me how St. John&#8217;s University opens doors for you. You start to find your flow over time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">At the beginning, I felt like a \u201cnew fish in a pond.\u201d It was another community I didn\u2019t even know existed until I became a part of it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The experience has truly helped me learn from others, especially the graduate assistants in the office who have already gone through what I\u2019m experiencing now. I can always go to them with questions about classes, professors, or just about anything.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">A lot of them are Catholic Scholars too, so I also ask them about service and getting involved. They are always there for me. It really feels like having big brothers and sisters to lean on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Everyone in the office is so welcoming. It genuinely feels like a family.<\/p>\n<p>How has getting involved changed you personally?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I have definitely opened up a lot more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Before, I was very \u201cto and from.\u201d I did not stay after school or do anything extra. Now, I actually have the time and space to be involved. Joining clubs and organizations at St. John\u2019s gave me a reason to stay, talk to people, and build connections. I feel more confident, more social, and more willing to try new things instead of staying in my comfort zone.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back on your first year, what is something you have learned that others might underestimate?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Time is a big one. People underestimate how much you can do with your time here. Every second counts. There are so many opportunities, and each one can open another door.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">For example, becoming a student worker in Campus Ministry introduced me to a community I did not even know existed. I get to learn from older students, ask questions, and get advice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It really feels like a family, and it has helped me grow in ways I did not expect.<\/p>\n<p>What would you say to someone worried about finding their place in college?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I think everyone will find their place eventually, but you have to take that first step.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">People can reach out to you, but you have to open the door. If you stay closed off, people will respect that, but you might miss out.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Even going to one meeting or event can make a difference. You might recognize someone, start small conversations, and build from there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It does not happen all at once\u2014but if you give yourself the chance, you will feel it.<\/p>\n<p>Start Exploring Your Future at St. John\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">From your first campus event to the communities that shape your college experience, see how students create a sense of belonging at St. John\u2019s.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p6\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.stjohns.edu\/life-st-johns\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Explore Student Life at St. John\u2019s<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Wondering how you\u2019ll find your people on campus? It\u2019s a question almost every student has before arriving. 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