{"id":220431,"date":"2026-05-05T09:40:19","date_gmt":"2026-05-05T09:40:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/220431\/"},"modified":"2026-05-05T09:40:19","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T09:40:19","slug":"sari-botton-on-aging-writing-and-success-with-oldster","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/220431\/","title":{"rendered":"Sari Botton on aging, writing and success with Oldster"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img alt=\"Sari Botton at home in Kingston on April 10, 2026. Botton, who runs two popular Substack publications, is hitting new heights in a long and distinguished career in publishing.\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:1 \/ 1\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-gray200 mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Sari Botton at home in Kingston on April 10, 2026. Botton, who runs two popular Substack publications, is hitting new heights in a long and distinguished career in publishing.<\/p>\n<p>Barbara Reina\/For the Times Union<\/p>\n<p>At a time in life when most might be considering retirement, author, editor and teacher <a href=\"https:\/\/www.saribotton.com\/about-me\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Sari Botton<\/a> is having an unexpected career renaissance.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-channels-pixel.ex.co\/events\/0012000001fxZm9AAE?integrationType=DEFAULT&amp;template=design%2Farticle%2Fplatypus_two_column.tpl\" alt=\"\" class=\"x1px y1px vh abs\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Working from her home in midtown Kingston, Botton, 60, is the editor of the very successful Substack magazine,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/oldster.substack.com\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Oldster<\/a>, which has 85,000 subscribers and counting. She was\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2026\/03\/03\/style\/oldster-substack-sari-botton-aging.html\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">recently profiled in the New York Times<\/a>. And an Oldster anthology is slated for release in 2027.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere are a lot of possibilities when you get older,\u201d she said. \u201cEven in a competitive, slightly daunting field, you can thrive later in life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Not that Botton had no success before recently. She has published an essayistic memoir, \u201cAnd You May Find Yourself\u2026\u201d and edited two anthologies of writers writing about New York: \u201cGoodbye to All That,\u201d about loving and leaving the city, and \u201cNever Can Say Goodbye,\u201d where writers extol their unshakeable love for the city. And she has long taught writing at various levels, including leading an essay workshop last month at the\u00a0Southern Vermont Writers\u2019 Conference.<\/p>\n<p>A self-proclaimed \u201cGen X weirdo\u201d and \u201cpioneer gentrifier,\u201d Botton and her husband, Brian, moved to the Hudson Valley 21 years ago after high rents squeezed them out of their Manhattan loft apartment. Since then, Botton has boosted the local creative community as a writer-in-residence and mentor. She believes everyone has the ability to write and stories to tell. Often, they just need the assurance of a skilled guide.<\/p>\n<p>Make the Times Union a Preferred Source on Google to see more of our journalism when you search.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/preferences\/source?q=timesunion.com\" data-link=\"native\" role=\"button\" aria-label=\"Add Preferred Source\" class=\"td300 cp f aic jcc disabled:cd wsn px24 y40px px16 py8 buttonSm fs13 xs:fs16 xs:buttonLg bg-primaryAccessible hover:o80 c-white disabled:bg-gray300 disabled:c-gray600 border bn tac br2\"><\/p>\n<p>Add Preferred Source<\/p>\n<p><\/a><\/p>\n<p>In this conversation, Botton talks about her surprising career surge, the Hudson Valley creative community, and the discovery of her own ancestral roots in Kingston. This interview has been lightly edited and condensed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Is this time in your life somehow different, or is it what you expected?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not at all what I expected. It\u2019s way better. I was very afraid of turning 60; I thought my life was not going to line up with what\u2019s expected of people in their 60s. I think, as someone who didn\u2019t have kids, I\u2019m not on the same track as everyone else; my peers are having grandchildren now. But it\u2019s just not for me.<\/p>\n<p>I also didn\u2019t know that this was going to be the best time in my career because, in 2020, when I left Longreads, where I was an editor, I found I couldn\u2019t get a job. I thought it was all over, and now I\u2019m having this renaissance.<\/p>\n<p>People who contribute to Oldster or comment at Oldster keep telling me that their lives improved later, after 60, after 70, even after 80, and now I believe that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>You call yourself \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/and-you-may-find-yourself-sari-botton\/2cc6f59ef3542bc0?ean=9781942762997&amp;next=t&amp;next=t\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">a late-blooming, Gen-X Weirdo<\/a>\u201d in one of your books.\u00a0 As women of Gen X, do you think we\u2019ve been through a lot of growing pains when it comes to careers, relationships, and our view of ourselves as women?<\/p>\n<p>I think that Gen X is a very confused demographic because we had parents who started out one way, then switched gears during the sexual revolution and the divorce boom, so it was very confusing to us \u2014 the messages of how to be an adult, what does an adult look like. We watched our parents have a belated second adolescence. So, after being raised for a certain number of years by these sort-of formal parents, we were suddenly being raised by people who were breaking all the rules. \u00a0I think it has led to a lot of confusion among Gen X about how to be grownups.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Sari Botton with a copy of \u201cGoodbye to All That\u201d at the Union Square Barnes and Noble in 2013.\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 4\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-gray200 mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Sari Botton with a copy of \u201cGoodbye to All That\u201d at the Union Square Barnes and Noble in 2013.<\/p>\n<p>Courtesy of Sari Botton<\/p>\n<p>Do you think memoir writing gets better with age?<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Definitely. I think there are a lot of older people writing short memoirs, personal essays and longer memoirs now, and I\u2019m really here for it. I recently started a feature called <a href=\"https:\/\/oldster.substack.com\/s\/oldster-bookshelf\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Oldster Bookshelf<\/a>, where I feature books by older people, and there are a lot of great memoirs. The older you are, the more experience you have, the more you have to say, and \u2014 if you have been writing for a long time \u2014 the more confident you are in your voice and your style.<\/p>\n<p>As an editor, teacher, and bestselling former ghostwriter, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.southernvermontwritersconference.org\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">you stated that <\/a>you\u2019ve learned how to gently coax important, compelling stories out of people. Can you elaborate?<\/p>\n<p>Memoir writing is anxiety-provoking. You\u2019re revealing yourself, and you can\u2019t do it without revealing some things about other people, even if you blur your identities. So, it makes people nervous. It helps to have a nurturing guide who can help you find your voice, be confident in your voice, talk to you about the challenges and how to overcome them. I try to be that person.<\/p>\n<p>What is an average day like for you?<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>I work 12 hours most days. I get up at 7 a.m. and get right to work until 7 p.m. I also work on the weekends, editing Oldster and <a href=\"https:\/\/memoirland.substack.com\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Memoir Land<\/a> (another Substack Botton oversees). They\u2019re both doing really well, so I can\u2019t just abandon them, and they both scratch certain itches for me. Memoir Land is not focused on age; it\u2019s about any subject and it lets me continue the work I was doing at Longreads and Catapult, editing personal essays on any subject by anybody.<\/p>\n<p>So, I\u2019m working a lot. I love it. It\u2019s also my strategy for surviving these times: being busy, too busy to focus on (the global political climate).<\/p>\n<p>How has living in Kingston affected your writing?<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been in the area for 21 years now. First, we were in Rosendale, then we moved to Kingston. There\u2019s a lot of creative community around here. Almost all my friends are writers, artists, musicians, filmmakers, so it\u2019s a very fertile place to be inspired and supported by other people.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>I love living in Midtown Kingston. I can walk two blocks to restaurants, the Upstate Films movie theater, UPAC. There\u2019s so much for me to walk to, uptown, downtown, ride my bike. It\u2019s a nice, small city.<\/p>\n<p>For three years, I also operated a coworking space called Kingston Writers Studio, which closed in 2020 due to the pandemic. It was very social and nice to work in the presence of other writers. I grieve it (but) I can\u2019t afford to do it again. Rents were so low back then.<\/p>\n<p>After you chose Kingston as your home, what surprising fact did you discover about your family roots in Ulster County?<\/p>\n<p>What I found out later was that <a href=\"https:\/\/oldster.substack.com\/p\/meet-the-great-great-great-grandparents\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">my ancestors<\/a> were here from the 1860s to the 1920s. My great-great-grandparents are buried a mile (from my house) at Wiltwyck Cemetery, so I have deep roots here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Two of the anthologies you\u2019ve edited are about New York City. How do you feel about upstate New York, particularly Kingston, right now?<\/p>\n<p>I do miss New York City. I\u2019ll never get over it. Some part of me, for the last 21 years, has thought this was a temporary move. But I love it here. It\u2019s close enough that I can go to NYC when I need to; it\u2019s also close to the Berkshires and not too far from my family on Long Island.<\/p>\n<p>What I don\u2019t love is the housing crisis. I don\u2019t love that, every time we get a spate of good restaurants, it means the prices go up and more people get priced out. I don\u2019t know what the answer is.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Sari Botton, at 29, covers a benefit for \u201cFresh Air\u201d at Tavern on the Green in New York City on June 9, 1995.\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:2 \/ 3\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-gray200 mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Sari Botton, at 29, covers a benefit for \u201cFresh Air\u201d at Tavern on the Green in New York City on June 9, 1995.<\/p>\n<p>Steve Eichner\/WWD\/Penske Media via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>You and your husband call yourselves \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/adventuresinjournalism.substack.com\/p\/rosendale?utm_source=publication-search\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">pioneer gentrifiers<\/a>.\u201d Can you elaborate?<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t love that about myself, but I\u2019m owning it; it is accurate.<\/p>\n<p>Pioneer gentrifiers are the creatives who don\u2019t make a lot of money, who are the first to move to a somewhat depressed area, because they get priced out of the last depressed area they were in, which is what happened to us in the East Village. We had a very affordable rent on a huge loft, and it got gentrified. The tenant after us in our apartment was the filmmaker Michel Gondry and the tenant after that was Matt Dillon, so that tells you what happened. We are the kind of people who keep going to the next place and the \u201cspeculators\u201d follow.<\/p>\n<p>We bought a foreclosure house (in Kingston) because we got kicked out of a loft here, too, in Uptown. One of the big-money developers bought the building we were living in and kicked us out. This was in 2018, and we couldn\u2019t afford a single house on the regular market, so someone advised that we look at the foreclosure market.<\/p>\n<p>You were a writer-in-residence at SUNY New Paltz in 2023. Do you have a particular memory of your residency having an impact on someone?<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>I led a workshop. It was exciting to have my students get excited about writing personal essays. It was fun watching students who had never written personal essays get the bug.<\/p>\n<p>What effect do you feel that your writing \u2014 whether it\u2019s Oldster or your latest books \u2014 has on readers?<\/p>\n<p>I hope that it\u2019s resonant and identifiable. I know that if something is nagging at my curiosity and telling me to write about it, there are going to be other people who are curious about the same thing, thinking the same thoughts, feeling the same things. So, I strive to write in a way that people can see themselves in my experience, but also, I want to make them laugh and cry at the same time. I want them to come away from it feeling moved.<\/p>\n<p>I also like to highlight the absurdity of people and experiences, how just wild they can be, and make people laugh in even the darkest topics.<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>If someone said to you, \u201cSari, you made a real difference here in the Hudson Valley,\u201d what would you hope that legacy might be?<\/p>\n<p>Fostering a writing community and encouraging other people to develop as writers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sari Botton at home in Kingston on April 10, 2026. 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