{"id":267463,"date":"2026-06-15T16:15:07","date_gmt":"2026-06-15T16:15:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/267463\/"},"modified":"2026-06-15T16:15:07","modified_gmt":"2026-06-15T16:15:07","slug":"i-always-dreamed-of-moving-to-new-york-city-after-living-there-for-5-years-i-found-an-even-better-home-in-new-england","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/267463\/","title":{"rendered":"I always dreamed of moving to New York City. After living there for 5 years, I found an even better home in New England."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Living in New York was great, but after five years there, I started to feel overwhelmed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Now, I live in Providence, Rhode Island, and I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll ever leave.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Ever since I was a child, I knew I wanted to leave my home in <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/southern-california-places-worth-visiting-spots-to-skip-local-recommendations?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:San Diego;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;San Diego&quot;}\">San Diego<\/a> County behind and pursue a career in theatre on the East Coast.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">In my teens, I applied exclusively to New York schools, eventually choosing Hunter College, where I earned my degree in theatre.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Initially, I fell in love with the <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/best-cheap-sightseeing-new-york-city-ferry-2025-8?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:New York City;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;New York City&quot;}\">New York City<\/a> arts and culture scene, and appreciated how easy it was to get around without a car. After five years, though, living in the big city started to wear me down.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">NYC has a lot going on, no matter where you turn: loud noises, tall buildings, and crowds upon crowds. I started to feel claustrophobic and began thinking about settling in a smaller, more laid-back city.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During this point in my life, I was making frequent trips from NYC to <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/best-new-england-trip-winter-travel-newport-rhode-island-2025-11?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Rhode Island;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Rhode Island&quot;}\">Rhode Island<\/a> to do shows. And soon, it hit me that I may have found my ideal home.<\/p>\n<p>During my trips to Rhode Island, I fell in love with Providence<img alt=\"Colorful pastel multi-family houses in Providence.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/9a411afad557934644502c6de7cb1339.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>I loved the colorful houses in Providence.Tamara Diaz Art\/Shutterstock<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The first time I stepped off the Megabus in Providence, I was immediately struck by the peaceful scene.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Everywhere I looked, there was art \u2014 even some of the houses were painted in bright pastels. I was drawn to the city&#8217;s sense of whimsy and could tell it seemed slower and more intentional than what I was used to in NYC.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">There was just something so charming about Providence \u2014 it&#8217;s a city, of course, the state capital even, but the vibe was so entirely different from anywhere else I&#8217;d been.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">I even liked the pizza better, which was something I didn&#8217;t expect. But with neighborhoods like Federal Hill, the Italian side of town, filled with enough <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/best-things-italian-restaurant-dishes-to-skip-bad-value-chefs?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:pizza and pasta restaurants;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;pizza and pasta restaurants&quot;}\">pizza and pasta restaurants<\/a> to last a lifetime, it&#8217;s hard not to feel that way.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">During my shuttling between NYC and Providence, I met my now-husband: a Massachusetts native living in a neighboring town right outside the city.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We moved in together rather quickly, as I needed somewhere to stay since I had made up my mind about leaving New York. And honestly, living in New England has lived up to all my expectations.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Since I don&#8217;t drive, I appreciate the robust public transportation system here \u2014 an amenity I had grown accustomed to during my time in NYC.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">My son and I enjoy taking the RIPTA bus through Providence, which is relatively convenient, typically on time, and can easily take us almost anywhere we want to go in the state.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">On a more personal level, I love that people here stop to say &#8220;good morning&#8221; to each other, and neighbors really seem to look out for one another. I&#8217;ve met some truly wonderful people in Providence, including a plethora of <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/working-mom-afternoon-off-hang-with-friends-not-happy-hour-2026-6?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:mom friends;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;mom friends&quot;}\">mom friends<\/a> from story time at the library.<\/p>\n<p>Now, New England truly feels like home<img alt=\"Rachel stands on a beach at dusk.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/a9784a457eed1e1dc023617b7bf769a8.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve really embraced the East Coast lifestyle.Rachel Meghan Quint<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When I first visited, Providence seemed like a bit of a fairytale \u2014 a safe haven from the hustle and bustle of NYC. Now that I live here, it&#8217;s just home. Even after almost a decade, I can still see the magic in the city.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Although my husband and I briefly considered moving to San Diego to be closer to my family, we eventually realized that we&#8217;re New Englanders through and through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">We have the stereotypical &#8220;kind but not nice&#8221; personality, a straightforward, logic-based sensibility, and a love of iced coffee in 20-degree weather. Despite my upbringing in sunny Southern California, I truly feel I am an East Coast person at heart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Of course, life here isn&#8217;t always perfect. One of the main things I&#8217;ve had to get used to is the weather. I&#8217;m not a snow person, and I don&#8217;t know if I ever will be.<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"A snow-covered deck and backyard.\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/06\/1dbb31d1d65ab91bd2208976fd67ce93.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ll ever get used to the New England weather.Rachel Meghan Quint<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">At the same time, though, having distinct seasons has been good for my mental health, and I love watching my son play in the snow. Although I have to admit, this year&#8217;s record-breaking snowstorm made me miss the San Diego beaches just a little.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">But overall, I can confidently say <a class=\"link \" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/move-to-connecticut-job-work-hartford-benefits-surprisingly-great-2026-5?utm_medium=syndication&amp;utm_source=yahoo&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=yahoocom\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:New England;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;New England&quot;}\">New England<\/a> is my home now. It has treated me well, and it&#8217;s where I want my son to grow up.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">And if that means having to power through some rough winters, so be it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">If you enjoyed this story, be sure to follow <a href=\"https:\/\/profiles.yahoo.com\/brands\/business-insider\/\" data-ylk=\"elm:link;elmt:article_link;slk:Business Insider;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;context_link&quot;,&quot;yModuleName&quot;:&quot;content-canvas&quot;,&quot;yLinkText&quot;:&quot;Business Insider&quot;}\" class=\"link \" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Business Insider<\/a> on Yahoo.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Living in New York was great, but after five years there, I started to feel overwhelmed. 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