{"id":2928,"date":"2025-10-15T04:01:25","date_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:01:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/2928\/"},"modified":"2025-10-15T04:01:25","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:01:25","slug":"we-moved-from-nyc-to-a-coastal-town-on-the-east-coast-life-is-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/2928\/","title":{"rendered":"We Moved From NYC to a Coastal Town on the East Coast; Life Is Better"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>At 22, I had big dreams.<\/p>\n<p>A recent college grad, I wanted to write for a magazine and embrace the glitz and glam of Manhattan while living in a stylish loft fit for Carrie Bradshaw.<\/p>\n<p>In reality, my overpriced apartment was more &#8220;shoebox chic&#8221; with a galley kitchen and the smallest closet imaginable. Though it was tiny and sometimes had the aroma of weed wafting through the walls, it was adorable.<\/p>\n<p>And, throughout my 20s, I did create the life I&#8217;d imagined, complete with boozy brunches, rooftop parties, and coffee dates on the steps of the Met that felt like a scene from &#8220;Gossip Girl.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Approaching 30 kicked off a brand-new stage: I moved in with the man of my dreams, he proposed, and wedding plans commenced.<\/p>\n<p>Beautiful gifts from our registry arrived, with no room to enjoy them. We were so over our cramped apartment, the crowded subways, and the impending rent increases.<\/p>\n<p>This soon-to-be-newlywed began daydreaming of a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/closet-organization-mistakes-people-make-interior-designer-2025-3\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">walk-in closet<\/a> and moonlit evenings dancing barefoot on a luscious lawn (not pavement), surrounded by stars and silence (not traffic).<\/p>\n<p>I pictured hydrangea gardens, a guest bedroom with crisp linens, and slow weekends spent sipping coffee on my front porch.<\/p>\n<p>It was officially time to turn the page on my 20s and embrace an era fit for a Nancy Meyers movie.<\/p>\n<p>We headed to the suburbs of Connecticut<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baf88ef9db348adc0ae832&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:3024,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:2268}}\" alt=\"Sun reflecting off of water along rocky beech in Greenwich\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      Greenwich, Connecticut, seemed like a great fit for us.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>We set our sights on Greenwich, Connecticut, close to family. Nestled on the <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/connecticut-real-estate-sale-record-copper-beech-farm-2023-8\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Long Island Sound<\/a>, this suburban town offers a picturesque coastal vibe.<\/p>\n<p>                      Related stories<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760435832_715_placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>                                <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-image \" viewbox=\"0 0 1 1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760435832_715_placeholder.png\" alt=\"\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                            Business Insider tells the innovative stories you want to know<\/p>\n<p>Think: tree-lined streets, cedar-shingled <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/loved-boston-area-had-to-leave-happier-south-norwell-massachusetts-2025\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">New England-style homes<\/a> by the beach adorned with flower boxes, charming book nooks with vintage treasures, and boutiques with breezy linen dresses.<\/p>\n<p>At 40 minutes by train from NYC, it&#8217;s an ideal commuting distance for my husband, whose job is still based there.<\/p>\n<p>A <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/personal-finance\/mortgages\/housing-market-predictions\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">competitive housing market<\/a>, inflated prices, and rising mortgage rates made our pursuit challenging. We spent date nights scrolling listings on Zillow. Whenever our real-estate agent called, we hopped on a train to tour homes.<\/p>\n<p>Three months later, we had an accepted offer. Enter: our three-bedroom, two-bath fixer-upper in Greenwich.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3832af4d666ef750ef&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"A couple embracing inside a home that's under construction\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      We purchased a fixer-upper in Connecticut and got to work.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>Leaving behind the apartment where we&#8217;d made many memories\u2014and the city where my husband proposed \u2014 was bittersweet, but we excitedly packed our bags and hit the &#8216;burbs.<\/p>\n<p>In one year, we created the cozy home of our dreams<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3a32af4d666ef750f2&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"A composite image of a living area befopre renovation and the same living room after renovation with a fireplace and christmas tree\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      We spent a lot of time and money renovating our house to make it the home of our dreams.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>We chose the path of most resistance to create our own Nancy Meyers dream in real life. Since we weren&#8217;t building new, we opted for the next best thing: a home we could renovate and make our own.<\/p>\n<p>Our little love nest had wall-to-wall carpeting and a dated linoleum kitchen floor. The roof leaked. We didn&#8217;t dare venture up the creaky steps of the front porch.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3a32af4d666ef750f3&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"A composite image of a kitchen before and after renovation.\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      We spent a lot of time upgrading the kitchen.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>We rolled up our sleeves and got to work.<\/p>\n<p>Not only did I learn how to use a hammer, but I also swapped browsing the racks of Zara for scouring the aisles of Home Depot.<\/p>\n<p>Walls were demolished; new floors, windows, and doors installed; a fireplace constructed; and shiplap positioned. After a year, our <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/kitchen-remodel-expensive-regret-things-worth-splurging-on-2024-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">dream kitchen<\/a> and master bath became a reality.<\/p>\n<p>All in all, I&#8217;ve fallen in love with suburban life during every season<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec38f9db348adc0ae66e&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"Hydrangeas\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      In the summer, we start to enjoy the hydrangeas outside.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve now lived here for about two years, and I love that each season in Greenwich brings new traditions.<\/p>\n<p>Spring and summer (&#8220;patio season&#8221;) commences with <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/my-life-in-lilly-2013-4\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Lilly Pulitzer sundresses<\/a>, limoncello spritzes, and socializing on the Ave. It also means hosting garden parties where loved ones can finally fit around our farm table.<\/p>\n<p>On weekends, we kick back on our front porch in wicker furniture with good books and the sounds of a babbling brook nearby.<\/p>\n<p>Autumn calls for <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/easy-pumpkin-carving-ideas-2017-10\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">jack-o&#8217;-lantern carving<\/a> around our firepit, toasting marshmallows, and sipping mulled wine.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3cf9db348adc0ae674&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"Chair on front porch with plaid blanket and tray of drinks on it with fall foliage behind\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      We&#8217;ve created autumn traditions in our new neighborhood.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>We get trick-or-treaters now that we&#8217;re in the suburbs, so we line the driveway with pumpkins to welcome them.<\/p>\n<p>Christmastime means harvesting a large balsam fir, which we finally have the room for. We like to decorate it with velvet ribbons and hand-painted ornaments in the light of our fireplace as holiday music plays in the background.<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3957d362d375e796b3&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"Napkins folded to like like trees on tablescape\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      My new suburban lifestyle allows me to create special tablescapes.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/things-to-avoid-when-hosting-for-holidays-etiquette-mistakes-2024-12\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hosting around the holidays<\/a> is especially fun. It&#8217;s easier to create grand tablescapes and charcuterie arrangements now that I&#8217;ve got the space to store different decorations, candlesticks, chargers, glasses, and napkin rings.<\/p>\n<p>This suburban lifestyle is so nice that it&#8217;s hard to miss the city<\/p>\n<p>              <img xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"lazy-image \" encoding=\"UTF-8\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" data-content-type=\"image\/jpeg\" srcs=\"{&quot;https:\/\/i.insider.com\/68baec3857d362d375e796b1&quot;:{&quot;contentType&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;aspectRatioW&quot;:1200,&quot;aspectRatioH&quot;:879}}\" alt=\"Candles on wicker tray in bed with white sheets\"\/><\/p>\n<p>                      I&#8217;ve enjoyed having a guest room.<\/p>\n<p>              Alexa Mellardo<\/p>\n<p>Now that I have a <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/started-home-garden-no-experience-save-money-on-groceries-2025-2\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">cutting garden<\/a>, I can decorate with fresh floral bouquets and snip herbs and heirloom tomatoes for my meal preps, too.<\/p>\n<p>With an extra bedroom, we&#8217;ve got lots of space to host friends for weekend getaways, especially those who want an escape from city life. I find joy in making their stay extra special \u2014there&#8217;s always a fresh set of towels and lavender bath soap waiting on the guest bed.<\/p>\n<p>All in all, I wouldn&#8217;t trade spending my 20s in NYC for the world, but my 30s in the &#8216;burbs have been off to an incredible start.<\/p>\n<p>Though I don&#8217;t make it into the city as often as I thought I would, I&#8217;m OK with it. Our cozy cottage \u2014 dubbed Hydrangea House \u2014 and our <a target=\"_self\" class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/nancy-meyers-home-aesthetic-interior-design-tips-2024-7\" data-track-click=\"{&quot;element_name&quot;:&quot;body_link&quot;,&quot;event&quot;:&quot;tout_click&quot;,&quot;index&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;,&quot;product_field&quot;:&quot;bi_value_unassigned&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Nancy Meyers-style life<\/a> make it hard to leave.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"At 22, I had big dreams. 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