{"id":339373,"date":"2026-09-06T15:18:45","date_gmt":"2026-09-06T15:18:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/339373\/"},"modified":"2026-09-06T15:18:45","modified_gmt":"2026-09-06T15:18:45","slug":"where-did-bollywoods-everyday-women-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/339373\/","title":{"rendered":"Where did Bollywood\u2019s everyday women go?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Bollywood has found two easy ways to write women: make them desirable or make them formidable. The first gives us women designed to be watched as eye candy. The second\u00a0allows\u00a0women to be admired as warriors\u2014survivors of something so brutal that their toughness becomes\u00a0their\u00a0whole character.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">While promoting her\u00a0latest\u00a0film\u00a0Gandhari, Tapsee Pannu talked about both. First, she said that filmmakers keep blaming the audience when women are objectified on screen. \u201cJanta maang rahi hai\u00a0(The people are asking for it),\u201d they claim, as if that ends the discussion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Pannu\u2019s\u00a0comments\u00a0come\u00a0amid the backlash over Buchi Babu Sana\u2019s\u00a0Peddi\u00a0and Yash\u2019s\u00a0Toxic.\u00a0Peddi\u00a0got Janhvi Kapoor into an \u201cobjectification\u201d row so heated that\u00a0Sana\u00a0had to apologise and re-edit scenes. The audience targeted the camera work, and the emphasis on the actor\u2019s body rather than the character itself, reflecting a male gaze narrative need.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\tShow Full Article<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">On the other hand, in\u00a0Geetu Mohandas\u2019\u00a0Toxic, female characters were criticised as largely existing through glamour, sensuality, and their orbit around the male lead, Yash.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">This portrayal isn\u2019t limited to two films. Similar complaints have followed big pan-India films for years. Box office hits like the\u00a0Pushpa\u00a0series,\u00a0KGF, and\u00a0Animal\u00a0(2023)\u00a0have shown women reduced to songs, lingering shots, or merely the hero\u2019s motivation. The problem is not that a woman cannot be glamorous\u00a0and\/or sexual. It is when that is all the film knows what to do with her.<\/p>\n<p>Meet the damsel not in distress\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p3\">The only other way Bollywood seems to know how to show the female is with a\u00a0focus on the \u201cstrong woman\u201d.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">\u201cThe idea of a strong woman has started looking almost like an abuse right now,\u201d Pannu\u00a0said\u00a0in an\u00a0India Today\u00a0interview. She pointed out how the label is narrowed down to intense and serious roles. \u201cYou cannot be strong and funny. You cannot be strong and soft,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Pannu\u2019s own films double as the case study.\u00a0Pink\u00a0(2016), Thappad\u00a0(2020),\u00a0Assi\u00a0(2026), and now\u00a0Gandhari\u00a0(2026), where she plays a mother turned avenger after her child is trafficked. Alia Bhatt\u2019s\u00a0Jigra\u00a0(2024)\u00a0runs on the same fuel, where she plays a sister\u00a0hellbent on saving\u00a0her brother. Similarly, in\u00a0Alpha\u00a0(2026), Bhatt plays a super-soldier in isolation since birth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Then there are films where women\u2019s entire performances are built around grinding through an institution that has wronged her. Take Yami Gautam in\u00a0Article 370\u00a0(2024)\u00a0or Rani Mukerji in\u00a0Mrs Chatterjee vs Norway\u00a0(2023).<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Now these are often good, important films. And I agree that a gun, a grievance, and monologues on empowerment do make impressive characters. However, it doesn\u2019t necessarily make them relatable every time. So when this becomes the dominant definition of female agency, something is lost.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">And this is where I sense the loss of the middle ground that used to exist.<\/p>\n<p>Also Read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/theprint.in\/opinion\/pov\/kriti-sanon-better-roles-hot-messy-emotionally-bruised-woman\/3028983\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Kriti Sanon deserves better roles. She is more than just a hot, messy, emotionally bruised woman<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The everyday woman\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Think of Deepika Padukone\u2019s\u00a0Piku\u00a0(2015). She is not trying to change the world. She has a job, a difficult father, a sex life that her father keeps telling\u00a0the world about, a temper, and a stubborn sense of how her life should be lived. She is sometimes impatient and selfish. She cares for her father and yet\u00a0resents having to care for him. Unmarried past the age her relatives approve of, and devoted to an impossible father, the film lets her mess be the entire plot.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Similarly, Kareena Kapoor Khan\u2019s\u00a0Geet, in\u00a0Jab We Met\u00a0(2007), talked too much, ran off with a stranger on a train, then even got hesitant and threatened him with karate, made one terrible decision after another, and healed entirely on her own schedule. Yet, the film never turned her into a lesson. She is not a role model. Heck, she\u2019s not even particularly sensible. But she is unforgettable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Her individuality does not come from defeating a villain or performing a dance number. It comes from having a personality so specific that the character could not belong to anybody else.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Then there is Shashi Godbole, played by the unforgettable Sridevi,\u00a0in\u00a0English Vinglish (2012).<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">A middle-aged homemaker who makes laddoos,\u00a0doesn\u2019t know\u00a0English, and is routinely humiliated by her own family\u00a0for it.\u00a0She hardly sounds like the material for today\u2019s conventional Bollywood heroine. Yet, that was precisely the point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Shashi\u2019s humiliation was quiet, but so was her transformation. She did not need to become glamorous or aggressive to reclaim her worth. She simply needed to realise that her life had value beyond her husband\u2019s and children\u2019s approval. No courtroom monologue has stayed with me the way Shashi\u2019s 3 minutes of stuttering, imperfect English\u00a0wedding toast\u00a0did.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Many other characters like Rani from\u00a0Queen\u00a0(2013), Ayesha from\u00a0Dil Dhadakne Do\u00a0(2015), Sulu from\u00a0Tumhari Sulu\u00a0(2017), Bitti in\u00a0Bareilly ki Barfi\u00a0(2017), or even Aisha in\u00a0Wake Up Sid\u00a0(2009), whose petty everyday irritations make them feel like people who existed before the camera arrived.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">The few \u201cordinary\u201d women who do show up now aren\u2019t even given a film to themselves. They\u2019re parked next to a male lead as proof of his arc. In\u00a0Kabir Singh\u00a0(2019), Kiara Advani\u2019s\u00a0Preeti\u00a0is central to the hero\u2019s emotional world, merely to absorb his toxicity. But the film gives us little sense of a life that exists independently of him. Her silence and softness become part of his story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Animal\u00a0does something similar with Rashmika Mandanna\u2019s Geetanjali. She holds the family together while the story revolves around Ranbir Kapoor\u2019s violence and rage that\u00a0often\u00a0lands on her.<\/p>\n<p>Also Read:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/theprint.in\/ground-reports\/indian-village-vanished-from-bollywood-plots-now-back-on-ott\/3029066\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Indian village vanished from Bollywood plots. Now they are back on OTT<\/a><\/p>\n<p>See the women, not their plot<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">There are a few theatrical releases where the middle ground actually survived.\u00a0Laapataa Ladies\u00a0(2023)\u00a0built its entire plot around two ordinary brides swapped by accident on a train: Phool, who wants nothing more than to return to her husband and in-laws, and Jaya, who uses the mix-up to slip out of a marriage she never wanted and get back to her studies. Neither is punished\u00a0nor glorified for what she wants; the film lets both wants sit there, equally valid.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">Other than this, OTT releases have preserved the ordinariness.\u00a0Mrs.\u00a0(2023)\u00a0puts Sanya Malhotra in the daily grind of a marriage that was never built around her. But her strength shows up entirely in that mundaneness, in the small, repetitive acts of endurance a large section of Indian women would actually recognise as their own life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">More recently,\u00a0Babita Singh Reporting\u00a0(2026)\u00a0gave us Nimisha Sajayan, a woman who is, by the film\u2019s own design, unimpressive. An easily talked-over, quick-to-apologise assistant sub-inspector with a dismissive husband and in-laws. She ends up investigating a friend\u2019s murder almost by accident and finds her voice along the way, without ever being turned into a superhero cop for it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">So the middle ground is not boring; it is where most women actually live. Bollywood may have lost it not because the audience stopped wanting such women, but because filmmakers stopped believing an ordinary woman can carry a story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"gmail-p1\">But women like Shashi and Piku are relevant in a way no amount of rage or glamour can be. That connection is lost every time an\u00a0Animal\u00a0or a\u00a0Peddi\u00a0occupies the theatres.<\/p>\n<p>Views are personal.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>(Edited by Insha Jalil Waziri)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Bollywood has found two easy ways to write women: make them desirable or make them formidable. 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