{"id":340427,"date":"2026-09-08T05:14:10","date_gmt":"2026-09-08T05:14:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/340427\/"},"modified":"2026-09-08T05:14:10","modified_gmt":"2026-09-08T05:14:10","slug":"what-i-learned-serving-in-the-new-york-state-assembly-after-10-years-as-a-naval-aviator","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/340427\/","title":{"rendered":"What I Learned Serving in the New York State Assembly After 10 Years as a Naval Aviator"},"content":{"rendered":"

I recently led a session for a group of smart, accomplished people over 60, most of them liberal. I asked them to consider our country\u2019s past and present as objectively as they could: What have we gotten right? What have we gotten wrong? What are we getting right and wrong today? <\/p>\n

Then I asked them to describe the future they would like to see for our country. \u201cBe positive,\u201d I urged. \u201cTell me what you want\u2014not only what you oppose.\u201d <\/p>\n

The group engaged deeply with the troubling parts of our history and our present condition. But when we turned to what America has gotten right, the lists grew shorter. And when participants tried to imagine a desirable future, the picture remained tentative, general, and indistinct. <\/p>\n

It was as though the country\u2019s problems had become so numerous and overwhelming that it was difficult to see beyond them. <\/p>\n

The participants had not lost their desire for a better country. It seems they had lost the ability to imagine how that country could come about. <\/p>\n

I left the session feeling that I might have failed the group. I had asked people who were already deeply distressed about the country to think positively about it. I had asked them to imagine change at precisely the scale at which they felt most powerless. <\/p>\n

Next 9me, I would know that when people are repeatedly exposed to threats and difficulties they cannot control, as all Americans are today, their ability to imagine a positive future diminishes. Their sense of personal agency shrinks. They begin to <\/p>\n

believe that only sweeping achievements\u2014changing Congress, defeating a demagogue, reforming the political system, or getting money out of politics\u2014 really count. <\/p>\n

And because they cannot accomplish any of those things by themselves, they conclude that there is little or nothing they can do. <\/p>\n

Learned Civic Helplessness <\/p>\n

I\u2019ve put a term to what I saw in the group: learned civic helplessness. <\/p>\n

Psychologists use the term learned helplessness to describe what can happen when people are repeatedly exposed to distressing events they cannot control. Eventually, many people stop trying\u2014not because they do not care, but because they have learned to believe that their efforts will make no difference. <\/p>\n

Learned civic helplessness is a related condition. People care deeply about their country but have come to believe that nothing within their reach is consequential enough to matter. <\/p>\n

Consider what we\u2019re daily exposed to: <\/p>\n

\u2022 Institutional dysfunction that feels immune to citizen pressure \u2022 Polarization that makes compromise seem impossible <\/p>\n

\u2022 Leaders who appear unresponsive and untrustworthy <\/p>\n

\u2022 Media environments that amplify threat, outrage, and hopelessness<\/p>\n

If you are in the upper-left quadrant in the matrix below, you are probably in a state of civic helplessness: <\/p>\n

\"\"\/ thefulcrum.us<\/a> <\/p>\n

I see signs of it everywhere. <\/p>\n

I recently spoke with several young people about the future. Their outlook was almost uniformly bleak: They may never be able to own a home. Having children feels like a formidable economic challenge. The system seems rigged. Climate change is accelerating. Almost all politicians seem corrupt. What\u2019s the point of voting? <\/p>\n

When people are surrounded by evidence of decline and offered no credible path for action, concern can harden into futility. That combination\u2014high concern and low belief in one\u2019s ability to make a difference\u2014is the territory of civic helplessness. <\/p>\n

Are You Becoming Demoralized?<\/p>\n

Here is a quick, informal assessment. It is not a psychological test, but it may help you recognize whether your sense of agency is narrowing. <\/p>\n

Rate each statement: <\/p>\n

0 = Not true for me <\/p>\n

1 = Occasionally true <\/p>\n

2 = O:en true <\/p>\n

3 = Very true; feels like my default <\/p>\n

1. I find it easy to list what is wrong with our country. <\/p>\n

2. I find it difficult to recall what is still right with our country. <\/p>\n

3. I believe that only massive structural change can meaningfully improve the country. <\/p>\n

4. Optimism feels na\u00efve or disconnected from reality. <\/p>\n

5. I frequently find myself thinking, \u201cWhat\u2019s the point? Nothing will change.\u201d <\/p>\n

Total possible score: 15 <\/p>\n

\u2022 0\u20135: You are concerned, but your sense of agency remains largely intact. <\/p>\n

\u2022 6\u201310: You may be drifting toward civic helplessness. Your attention is increasingly drawn to threats, while your sense of possibility is narrowing. <\/p>\n

\u2022 11\u201315: You may be demoralized\u2014carrying a heavy burden of threat, frustration, and futility. <\/p>\n

Whatever your score, the answer is to reconnect concern with action. <\/p>\n

How We Regain Our Agency <\/p>\n

The antidote to civic helplessness is not positive thinking or self-judgment. It is lived evidence that we can still make a difference. <\/p>\n

That evidence is most readily found close to home. <\/p>\n

Work within your sphere of influence<\/p>\n

Instead of asking, \u201cHow can I save the country?\u201d ask: <\/p>\n

\u2022 \u201cWhat can we make better together?\u201d <\/p>\n

\u2022 \u201cWhat kind of neighborhood or community do we want to live in?\u201d \u2022 \u201cWhat institution near me needs strengthening?\u201d <\/p>\n

These questions are answerable. They lead toward people we can meet, problems we can understand, and actions we can take. <\/p>\n

This is not an escape from national problems. It is a return to the level at which democratic capacity is created. <\/p>\n

Use a wider lens <\/p>\n

National politics matter enormously, but it is not the only arena in which democracy lives. Democracy is also practiced in neighborhoods, schools, congregations, workplaces, libraries, civic associations, and voluntary organizations. This is where trust is built and where most people can make the biggest difference. <\/p>\n

Mentoring one student or organizing a neighborhood cleanup may not feel like \u201csaving democracy.\u201d But saving democracy is not your job. <\/p>\n

Your job\u2014our job\u2014is to help build the trust, relationships, habits, and ins9tu9ons on which democracy depends. <\/p>\n

Practice imagining, not only criticizing <\/p>\n

Criticism can tell us what is wrong, but it cannot tell us what to build. <\/p>\n

We need to practice describing the future we want in concrete terms. What would a healthy community look and feel like? How would people treat one another? Where would they gather? Who would be included? What ins9tu9ons would bring them together? What would we be doing differently? <\/p>\n

A desirable future becomes more attainable once we can picture it\u2014and more attainable still when we can identify one piece of it that we can help create. <\/p>\n

Expand your definition of consequential action<\/p>\n

An ordinary person acting alone will not be able to change Congress, the presidency, or the influence of money in politics. But we can influence people, organizations, and communities close to us. <\/p>\n

We can mentor a young person. Welcome a newcomer. Join a local organization. Support a worthy cause. Convene neighbors. Help preserve a valued ins9tu9on. Create a place where people encounter those unlike themselves. <\/p>\n

The question is not whether one action will transform the country. <\/p>\n

The question is whether it will strengthen one part of our common life\u2014and perhaps encourage someone else to do the same. <\/p>\n

Act with others <\/p>\n

Helplessness thrives in isolation. Agency grows through participation. <\/p>\n

When we join an organization, convene neighbors, support a local cause, or invite someone to work alongside us, private concern becomes shared capacity. <\/p>\n

And shared capacity is the foundation of democratic power. <\/p>\n

Thinking Smaller Is Not Dreaming Smaller <\/p>\n

Perhaps I asked the wrong question in that session. Instead of asking participants to imagine a better country, I might first have asked them to imagine a better neighborhood, congregation, school, organization, or community\u2014and then to identify something they could help make real. <\/p>\n

Thinking smaller does not mean caring less about the country. It means beginning at the human scale, where our actions are visible, relationships can form, trust can grow, and progress can be experienced. <\/p>\n

We are out of community. And without community, democracy cannot flourish. <\/p>\n

But community is not something only presidents, governors, philanthropists, or political movements can create. It is something ordinary people create whenever they decide to take responsibility for a small part of their common life.<\/p>\n

The way back to hope is to stop believing that we must save the country by ourselves. We cannot. But each of us can help repair one relationship, strengthen one organization, improve one neighborhood, or bring one group of people together. <\/p>\n

Do that with others, and something important begins to change. Not only around us, but within us. We recover the experience of agency. We rediscover our need for one another. And one community at a 9me, we begin rebuilding the foundations of democracy. <\/p>\n

How to remember this essay:<\/p>\n

\"\"\/ <\/p>\n

Richard McKnight, PhD, is the author of When We The People Lead, The Leaders Will Follow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I recently led a session for a group of smart, accomplished people over 60, most of them liberal.…\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":340428,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[127794,127792,127793,127790,9,11,10,49,17566,51,50,2611,127791],"class_list":["post-340427","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-new-york","tag-ai-safety-legislation-new-york","tag-bipartisan-legislation","tag-gen-z-in-politics","tag-naval-aviator-veteran","tag-new-york","tag-new-york-headlines","tag-new-york-news","tag-new-york-state","tag-new-york-state-assembly","tag-new-york-state-headlines","tag-new-york-state-news","tag-public-service","tag-veterans-in-government"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340427","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=340427"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/340427\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/340428"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=340427"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=340427"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=340427"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}