{"id":34068,"date":"2025-11-09T18:30:12","date_gmt":"2025-11-09T18:30:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/34068\/"},"modified":"2025-11-09T18:30:12","modified_gmt":"2025-11-09T18:30:12","slug":"islanders-rookie-phenom-matthew-schaefer-talks-grand-expectations-late-mothers-influence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/34068\/","title":{"rendered":"Islanders rookie phenom Matthew Schaefer talks grand expectations, late mother&#8217;s influence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Islanders 18-year-old rookie Matthew Schaefer, the first-overall draft pick in June, takes a shot at some Q&amp;A with Post columnist Steve Serby.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How do you deal with the pressure of great expectations?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think the <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/10\/08\/sports\/islanders-can-help-shepherd-matthew-schaefer-into-exceedingly-rare-nhl-club\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">pressure is what I put on myself<\/a>. Pressure is a privilege. I think for me I put a lot of high expectations on myself, which is a good thing in ways, because I know when I can be good and I always want to the best. I think that\u2019s like everyone, you always want to do your best, you want to be the best, you want to just train every day and work hard and get better each and every day. Yeah, for me, I think I just put a lot of high expectations on myself. There\u2019s really no other pressure outside of that, it\u2019s just what you put on yourself. I know when I\u2019m at my best and I know when I can be better.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How does your girlfriend Samantha deal with your celebrity?<\/p>\n<p>A: She takes it really good. I mean, it\u2019s tough when you know your boyfriend\u2019s in the spotlight. She loves it. She\u2019s happy for me. She wants the best for me.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How do you deal with your celebrity?<\/p>\n<p>A: You don\u2019t think<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/11\/05\/sports\/matthew-schaefer-takes-playful-rangers-jab-at-henrik-lundqvist-in-hilarious-interview-moment\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> you should be in the spotlight<\/a> because you think you\u2019re just like every other kid, you\u2019re just normal like every other kid. I think the biggest thing is like when I was in high school, all these younger kids were coming up to me going, \u201cOh my God, can I get an autograph, can I get a picture?\u201d I go, \u201cGuys, I\u2019m the same as you. You guys can get it if you want, but I mean, I\u2019m still in English class, I\u2019m still in math class, you guys are in the same [place], so we\u2019re the same people here.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Q: So you don\u2019t feel like a star?<\/p>\n<p>A: No, no, not at all. I think I\u2019m just like every other kid.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Tell me about Samantha.<\/p>\n<p>A: It\u2019ll be a year soon. She\u2019s going to school right now in Prince Edward Island. \u2026 She actually plays hockey, too. She\u2019s the same age as me. She lives like 20 minutes from my hometown [Hamilton, Ontario]. Long story short, I knew her through people and then she played hockey and then I ended up meeting her. Her brothers work out at the same gym as me, and then she was there too working out. I got to know her through that, too.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How do you explain your maturity?<\/p>\n<p>A: (Laugh) Don\u2019t let me fool you. I don\u2019t know, I think watching my brother grow up, watching my dad, watching my mom and the people they are. I think the biggest thing was just being a good person to other people and treat other people how they\u2019d want or be treated. We didn\u2019t want to be a family that was known as cocky. You don\u2019t go far in life if you\u2019re cocky and arrogant and not a good person, so I think the biggest thing is just be a good person, be humble, kind and just be happy each and every day.<\/p>\n<p>Islanders defenseman Matthew Schaefer (48) skates with the puck during the second period against the New York Rangers at UBS Arena, Monday, Sept. 29, 2025. Corey Sipkin for the NY POST<\/p>\n<p>Q: Your mom, Jennifer, succumbed to breast cancer in February 2024. Describe the prayer you say to before every game.<\/p>\n<p>A: I\u2019ll always talk to my mom, say a prayer. It\u2019s nice when you can just pray and kind of like talk to your mom and you know she\u2019s right there with you and she\u2019s listening to everything.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What do you say to her?<\/p>\n<p>A: Just a lot of things. Obviously I miss her so much, and just look over me, my dad, brother and just be there for us. I just wish she could be here with us and be in this journey with us, and wish I could see her one more time and give her a big hug. \u2026 It\u2019s tough to lose someone you love, especially when it\u2019s your mom. Every family needs a mom. The first person I\u2019d call when I was sick or I miss home is definitely my mom and then my dad, too. \u2026 But my mom, you have so many great memories. She\u2019d light up a room with her smile, her laugh. She was always so happy, she was always family. Yeah, that was definitely the hardest obstacle I\u2019d have to overcome. It\u2019s always going to be tough. I\u2019m lucky I get to help people that have lost someone or are battling things which I love to do. I want to have a foundation in her name and do a lot of things for her and a lot of things to help cancer and raise money.<\/p>\n<p>Q: You also lost your billet mother Emily Matson, who committed suicide in December 2023.<\/p>\n<p>A: Yeah, that was also a tough one too. My billet mother was obviously a great human being, she was always so happy, so energetic. I met her and then I knew her for a couple months, and then it was just like that, it was super quick. I obviously miss her so much, she was the best.<\/p>\n<p>Q: You lost them in a two-month period. How did you get through it?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think just teammates, you know, family members, I think just being there for each other. \u2026 I think just knowing that they\u2019re not suffering anymore, and they\u2019re always going to be with us in spirit.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Describe your on-ice mentality.<\/p>\n<p>A: I want to win each and every day. I hate losing, but when you have such a talented group of players in the room, it\u2019s fun to play with them and it\u2019s fun to just be with them each and every day practicing and playing games.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Do you ever get angry on the ice?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think the biggest thing in this league is you just got to move from it, and each shift is a new shift and just worry about that one.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What drives you?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think a lot of things drive me. I think just playing for my teammates drives me a lot. Playing for my family, playing for my mom, I think those are all things that drive me. You go to war each and every year with your teammates, and you become close as a family and you guys go to battle and you guys always have each other\u2019s back. I know everyone in this room will have my back and I know I\u2019ll have theirs. It definitely drives you when guys are blocking shots, making hits, scoring goals, working hard, it definitely pushes the pace for your team.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Does greatness drive you?<\/p>\n<p>A: Hundred percent. You always want to be great out there. You want to be your best. There\u2019s always things to work on. You strive to be a perfectionist, but the same time, you\u2019re never going to be a perfectionist. I talk to a lot of guys about it \u2014 whether it\u2019s [retired Islander] Matt Martin and stuff, I pick his brain all the time because he helps me so much. He\u2019s like, \u201cDon\u2019t be so hard on yourself.\u201d I want to be my best each and every day, and he goes, \u201cDon\u2019t strive to be perfection because you\u2019re never going to [reach] perfection, just do what you can do and just work hard and have fun each and every day.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Q: What single trait on the ice are you most proud of?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think being a good teammate\u2019s probably a huge one. On the ice is on the ice, but I think off the ice is so much bigger. Being a good teammate, being happy each and every day, being there for your teammates, I think that goes a long way. I think that\u2019s definitely something my mom and dad and brother have really helped me with, and helped me strive to be just a good person.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How about intangibles on the ice?<\/p>\n<p>A: Obviously I think my hockey sense, my skating, I think those are two big ones. But it\u2019s pretty fun when you\u2019re playing with these players and your hockey sense kicks in and you\u2019re just making plays all over the ice \u2014 [Mathew] Barzal, on the power play with Bo [Horvat] and all of them, it\u2019s pretty easy to make plays with them because their hockey sense is just as good and they\u2019re always in the right spots.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Do you ever lack confidence on the ice?<\/p>\n<p>A: No, I think confidence is a big thing. I think that\u2019s what you gotta do if you get scored on, just go right back out there and get it back. Yeah, I think you just have to have a short memory and just go back out there and work hard.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Where can you be better on the ice?<\/p>\n<p>A: In lots of areas. For me, my skating ability\u2019s the best when my feet are going. I think that\u2019s always a good start to my game. There\u2019s always things you can always work on, whether it\u2019s D-zone, O-zone.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Do you like penalty kill or power play better?<\/p>\n<p>A: I like both. I\u2019m on the power play, so I\u2019ll go with power play. I love a good PK though, blocking shots and keeping the lead and stuff, so I love that.<\/p>\n<p>Q: How do you deal with guys taking runs at you?<\/p>\n<p>A: Yeah, I mean I think <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2025\/11\/05\/sports\/matthew-schaefer-is-sending-islanders-opponents-back-to-the-drawing-board\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">every team\u2019s going to really do that<\/a>. A lot of teams are going to be coming for you, so I guess just make good plays, take your hit. \u2026 You just got to be ready to take the hits.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What is your best hockey moment?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think getting drafted was obviously pretty cool, but just making the opening night roster, being able to play in the NHL, I think that\u2019s been pretty cool.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Your worst loss?<\/p>\n<p>A: I\u2019d have to say gold medal loss in minor hockey.<\/p>\n<p>Islanders rookie Matthew Schaefer (48) speaks to the media during practice at the Northwell Health Ice Center, Thursday, Sept. 18, 2025. Corey Sipkin for the NY POST<\/p>\n<p>Q: Have you found good pizza yet?<\/p>\n<p>A: Matt Martin knows where to get the pizza, so I just listen to him and he orders the pizza and then we\u2019ll eat it.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Bagels?<\/p>\n<p>A: The first time I got a bagel I put a little too much cream on it \u2014 I had avocado, cream cheese and it was a lot. With the avocado, cream cheese is very like creamy in a way, so I was like, \u201cMaybe we take one of those off.\u201d I got one bagel with bacon, egg and cheese, and then another one was a French toast bagel with cream cheese. So two great orders, but I can definitely add on to that and maybe add some hash browns, so we\u2019ll see.<\/p>\n<p>Q:\u00a0You are living at the Martin house.\u00a0Is Mrs. Martin, the former Sydney Esiason, a good cook?<\/p>\n<p>A: Yes. Her and her mom are both are both really good cooks, but they\u2019re also really good people, so super happy to be there.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What do you call her?<\/p>\n<p>A: I call her Syd. I\u2019m so close to her I call her everything. She\u2019s like another mom. She\u2019s like an older sister, sometimes I call her girlfriend (chuckle), no she\u2019s the best.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What\u2019s Boomer Esiason like?<\/p>\n<p>A: (Laugh). He\u2019s the best. That was actually the first time I met him the other day, so I\u2019ll be seeing him a lot and watching football with him, but he\u2019s awesome. I was talking about how his career was and how he started in Maryland and everything. He knows what it takes to work hard. He was the 11th-string at one point and then he was in the NFL.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Do you listen to his radio show?<\/p>\n<p>A: Yeah, I listened to his radio show a couple of times. I\u2019ll listen to it more now obviously because Syd and all them listen to it.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What do you know about Rangers fans?<\/p>\n<p>A: Well, I met Boomer, so he\u2019s a little crazy (laugh). No, obviously they\u2019re passionate, big rivalry between us and the Rangers. I\u2019m just focused on our team here.<\/p>\n<p>Former Islanders left wing Matt Martin (17) during warm up before of an NHL hockey game against the Washington Capitals on April 15, 2025. Noah K. Murray-NY Post<\/p>\n<p>Q: Do you do chores living at the Martin house?<\/p>\n<p>A: (Laugh) Marty always chirps me, he\u2019s always like, \u201cWhen are you going to start doing stuff around here?\u201dand stuff like that. And Syd\u2019s like, \u201cNo you\u2019re not doing anything,\u201d and stuff like that. I always play with the kids and stuff like that, so I guess if that\u2019s considered a chore.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What is the best Thanksgiving you ever had?<\/p>\n<p>A: It\u2019ll be soon, at the Esiason Thanksgiving that I go to. I think this will probably be the best one.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Why do you think this will be the best one?<\/p>\n<p>A: Syd\u2019s telling me there\u2019s just a lot of food, there\u2019s a lot of people there. They do a lot of fun things so I\u2019m excited.<\/p>\n<p>Q: You like turkey?<\/p>\n<p>A: I love it.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What are you most thankful for?<\/p>\n<p>A: I\u2019m thankful for, first off, my family, friends, teammates \u2026 being thankful to have all those years with my mom, get to spend time with her. \u2026 thankful that she\u2019s not suffering anymore and she\u2019s happy in peace. And obviously just thankful for all the people that have helped me along the way \u2014 my best friend [Ryan Scriven] and his family, they\u2019ve helped me so much and they helped my dad a lot all the way. For my dad\u2019s 60th birthday they made a video and it was videos of all of us making funny videos of him saying happy birthday, and then they added videos and pictures of him from over the years.<\/p>\n<p>[Ryan is] still my best friend, talk to him every day, we played hockey growing up and then our families became super close. I consider them second mom and second dad, and then he has a younger brother Brady Scriven. They came to my first game in Pittsburgh, all of them. He couldn\u2019t come, but his parents came to watch my first home game here at UBS. They\u2019re going to come down for quite a bit, so I\u2019ll get to see them and show them around. Go to New York City and do stuff probably. That\u2019ll be around Christmastime, so it depends when they come down and then we\u2019ll do some stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What do you want to see in New York City?<\/p>\n<p>A: Can\u2019t wait for Christmas \u2026 all the lights and all the stuff in Christmastime.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What is your favorite Christmas memory?<\/p>\n<p>A: Santa would always go all out (smile) with the gifts and stuff like that. I think every Christmas Eve we\u2019d go to church, and then we\u2019d go back to either my house or my aunt\u2019s house with my cousins and stuff. We\u2019d have a big dinner and we\u2019d open gifts and stuff like that together. I think just spending time with family is just the best thing ever. Going outside, playing in the snow with my family and stuff.<\/p>\n<p>Q: You have a car?<\/p>\n<p>A: I have a Cadillac. \u2026 It\u2019s a Vistiq. It\u2019s an electric car.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What\u2019s on your bucket list?<\/p>\n<p>A: Going on more vacations, traveling. I think going to Greece or Italy, travel the world a little more.<\/p>\n<p>Matthew Schaefer #48 of the New York Islanders reacts after he scores a goal during the first period when the New York Islanders played the Columbus Blue Jackets Sunday, November 2, 2025. Robert Sabo for NY Post<\/p>\n<p>Q: If you could go back in time and defend against any forward in NHL history, who would it be?<\/p>\n<p>A: I think when I was not in the NHL, I\u2019d say [Sidney] Crosby and then I\u2019d have to say [Wayne] Gretzky would be pretty cool.<\/p>\n<p>Q: If you were on a breakaway and had to beat any goaltender in NHL history?<\/p>\n<p>A: [Ilya] Sorokin [then Schaefer shakes his head and smiles across the locker room] \u2026 Patrick Roy (laugh). I\u2019ll say that because he\u2019s my coach.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Who are athletes in other sports you admire?<\/p>\n<p>A: I do love Tiger Woods. \u2026 I love golf. Obviously he\u2019s a great player. \u2026 Guys I admire, I think it goes back to like the hockey community, like Nick Foligno and Marcus Foligno \u2014 they obviously lost their mom at a young age, so they\u2019ve helped me so much just through everything.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What\u2019s the best and worst part of your golf game?<\/p>\n<p>A: Ooh, there\u2019s a lot there. I\u2019m not very consistent because I don\u2019t play too much. If my driver is on, that\u2019s a really good thing, but if it\u2019s not, then we\u2019re not looking good.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Four dinner guests?<\/p>\n<p>A: Cal Clutterbuck, Matt Martin, Josh Bailey \u2026 and I\u2019d have to say my mom.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Favorite movie?<\/p>\n<p>A: \u201cGrown Ups\u201d or \u201cHappy Gilmore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Q: Favorite actor?<\/p>\n<p>A: Adam Sandler.<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOn the ice from Long Island\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p class=\"inline-module__cta\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSign up for Inside the Islanders by Ethan Sears, a weekly Sports+ exclusive.\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\tThank you\n\t\t\t\t<\/p>\n<p>Q: Favorite actress?<\/p>\n<p>A: Jennifer Aniston.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Favorite rapper\/entertainer\/singer?<\/p>\n<p>A: For rap, I\u2019ll say Drake. I love remixes, so there\u2019s a group called Two Friends.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Favorite meal?<\/p>\n<p>A: I love a good steak. I love good Italian food, too.<\/p>\n<p>Q: What are you most proud of about yourself?<\/p>\n<p>A: I don\u2019t really get proud of myself for anything. \u2026 Just keep winning games as a team, I think that\u2019s the biggest thing. I don\u2019t really like to talk about myself much.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Why don\u2019t you like talking about yourself?<\/p>\n<p>A: Because there\u2019s a lot more to the game of hockey than just yourself. There\u2019s five guys on the ice, and there\u2019s four lines at forward, three lines at D and then two goalies.<\/p>\n<p>Islanders defenseman Matthew Schaefer (48) gets some attention and rough play that ended in a fight when his teammates came to his defense during the second period when the Islanders played the Bruins on Nov. 4, 2025. Robert Sabo for NY Post<\/p>\n<p>Q: What do you want your hockey legacy to be?<\/p>\n<p>A: (Laugh). Still a lot of time, many more years until that, but I don\u2019t know. I guess we\u2019ll see where it goes. We\u2019ll focus on this season, do what I can do and then see what we can do as a team, and then I think we\u2019ll worry about that down the road.<\/p>\n<p>Q: A message to Islanders fans.<\/p>\n<p>A: Thanks for everything they do. They come out each and every night, makes it easy for us to play in front of them. Best fans in the league.<\/p>\n<p>Q: Describe playing on the New York stage.<\/p>\n<p>A: I love it. It\u2019s awesome. It\u2019s worked out so amazing, I love everyone here. All the guys on the team have been awesome, the staff, management. Everything\u2019s been awesome here and I love New York.<\/p>\n<p>Q: New York doesn\u2019t scare you.<\/p>\n<p>A: No, not at all.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Islanders 18-year-old rookie Matthew Schaefer, the first-overall draft pick in June, takes a shot at some Q&amp;A with&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":34069,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[20293,16790,9,11,6821,10,49,51,50,539,20294,319],"class_list":{"0":"post-34068","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-new-york","8":"tag-matt-martin","9":"tag-matthew-schaefer","10":"tag-new-york","11":"tag-new-york-headlines","12":"tag-new-york-islanders","13":"tag-new-york-news","14":"tag-new-york-state","15":"tag-new-york-state-headlines","16":"tag-new-york-state-news","17":"tag-nhl","18":"tag-serbys-qa","19":"tag-sports"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34068","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=34068"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/34068\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/34069"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=34068"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=34068"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=34068"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}