{"id":372742,"date":"2026-10-14T07:50:10","date_gmt":"2026-10-14T07:50:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/372742\/"},"modified":"2026-10-14T07:50:10","modified_gmt":"2026-10-14T07:50:10","slug":"woman-goes-on-a-first-date-at-a-brooklyn-bar-then-he-asks-her-to-smell-his-hair-thought-i-was-getting-punkd","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/372742\/","title":{"rendered":"Woman goes on a first date at a Brooklyn bar. Then he asks her to smell his hair: \u2018Thought I was getting punk&#8217;d&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">A New York City woman&#8217;s first date took an unexpected turn when her companion allegedly revealed unusual personal habits and made a request that left her questioning the evening.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Victoria Vega, who posts on TikTok as @itsvictoriavega, recounted the encounter at a bar in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, describing several uncomfortable moments.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Her video attracted thousands of reactions, with viewers debating the man&#8217;s behavior and whether she should have left earlier.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Vega later summed up her disbelief in the caption, writing, &#8220;Thought I was getting punk&#8217;d.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A date that raised questions<img alt=\"Victoria Vega says her Brooklyn date admitted to urinating in sinks and skipping shampoo and conditioner\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/knewz_994\/498b072e49b5cf6b3c663ac461cc553e.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Victoria Vega says her Brooklyn date admitted to urinating in sinks and skipping shampoo and conditioner. BY: UNSPLASH<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Vega began her account by saying, &#8220;I just had the worst first date of my life.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">According to her, the man appeared to be under the influence when he arrived and barely spoke during their meeting.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">When he eventually opened up, Vega learned about personal habits she found unusual.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She said he admitted to urinating in the sink and not using shampoo or conditioner to wash his hair.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The situation became more awkward when Vega noticed him repeatedly staring at a group of women seated nearby while she attempted to hold a conversation.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">She eventually asked him directly whether he was high or interested in her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Vega said she never expected to have to ask those questions during a first date, <a data-ylk=\"slk:The Daily Dot;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas;\" data-yga=\"{&quot;yLinkElement&quot;:&quot;link&quot;,&quot;yLinkElementType&quot;:&quot;article_link&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/dailydot.com\/i-just-had-the-worst-first-date-of-my-life-woman-says-her-date-asked-her-to-smell-his-hair\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\" target=\"_blank\">The Daily Dot<\/a> reported.<\/p>\n<p>The hair request and pizza stop<img alt=\"Vega questioned her date about appearing high and staring at other women during their meeting\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/knewz_994\/ef0066e3c1e7bf8f8c9b053ef104450d.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Vega questioned her date about appearing high and staring at other women during their meeting. BY: UNSPLASH<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">The encounter became particularly uncomfortable after the pair had each had a drink. Vega finished hers, and they decided to get pizza.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Later that evening, the man allegedly tilted his head toward her and asked her to smell his hair, bringing it close to her face.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Afterward, she left the date and went to a pizzeria, apparently seeking to recover from the unpleasant experience.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Her caption expressed disbelief at how the evening had unfolded. The video had approximately 87,200 likes and views, according to the report.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">It also drew more than 1,400 comments from viewers responding to her account.<\/p>\n<p>TikTok users debate the encounter<img alt=\"After ending the uncomfortable date, Vega headed to a pizzeria for pizza and shared her experience on TikTok\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" decoding=\"async\" data-nimg=\"1\" class=\"rounded-lg\" style=\"color:transparent\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/10\/https:\/\/media.zenfs.com\/en\/knewz_994\/54e0263587f0237f3239b9d74ef4b3a2.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>After ending the uncomfortable date, Vega headed to a pizzeria for pizza and shared her experience on TikTok. BY: UNSPLASH<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Commenters expressed sympathy for Vega and criticized the man&#8217;s alleged conduct.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Others complimented her appearance, suggesting that her date had missed an opportunity. Some viewers questioned why she had stayed as long as she did.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">One commenter encouraged women to leave as soon as they recognize an uncomfortable situation, writing, &#8220;Let&#8217;s normalize leaving the second you realize.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Other reactions took a more humorous approach, comparing the man to a sitcom character, while others suggested he might have been nervous or experiencing a bad day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"mb-4 text-lg md:leading-8 break-words\">Several commenters also joked that pizza was an appropriate way to recover from an unsuccessful date.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A New York City woman&#8217;s first date took an unexpected turn when her companion allegedly revealed unusual personal&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":372743,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[36],"tags":[98,100,99,9,24,63],"class_list":["post-372742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-brooklyn","tag-brooklyn","tag-brooklyn-headlines","tag-brooklyn-news","tag-new-york","tag-new-york-city","tag-nyc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=372742"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/372742\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/372743"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=372742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=372742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=372742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}