{"id":55332,"date":"2025-11-29T04:40:10","date_gmt":"2025-11-29T04:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/55332\/"},"modified":"2025-11-29T04:40:10","modified_gmt":"2025-11-29T04:40:10","slug":"why-im-shopping-offline-this-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-ny\/55332\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I\u2019m shopping offline this year"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>New York City during the holidays is one of the most wonderful times of the year. Photo by Uriel Mont via Pexels. <\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re not quite at Thanksgiving, but if you\u2019re anything like me, your mind is already on the gifting season. I\u2019m talking about presents and bows and wrapping paper and sales and midnight releases and endless gift guides from now until December 24. It\u2019s become exhausting, to say the least.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The current gifting process, in my experience, has become somewhat bland. Everywhere I turn, there is a new sale, a new must-have item, and yet another gift guide. It makes me miss the spontaneous joys of analog shopping. Have we forgotten the thrill of stumbling upon the perfect present? Where\u2019s the fun in clicking \u201cBuy Now\u201d on an Amazon link that someone sent you?\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>To bring back some of the joy (and to be more sustainable), I\u2019ll be shopping in person this year.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Getting Offline<\/p>\n<p>One-click shopping and free shipping make it easier than ever to buy things online. But with that ease comes chaos: I need to keep track of online orders from multiple businesses, triage the never-ending sales and make sure my cart is full enough for free shipping. Often, I end up over-purchasing gifts either because I forgot I had ordered something, the shipping was taking too long or I was seduced into adding more to the cart to earn free shipping. And even when the process is smooth, there is always a chance that what you bought looks nothing like the picture online.<\/p>\n<p>(If you\u2019re tempted to spend more money because there may be a \u201cfree\u201d reward, check out this  <a href=\"https:\/\/totallyrecommend.substack.com\/p\/gifts-can-really-mess-with-your-head\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Totally Rec<\/a> article on the psychology of free.)<\/p>\n<p>Environmentally speaking, direct-to-consumer shipping \u2014 buying directly from an online store and having the package shipped right to your door \u2014 can be a friendlier option. A delivery van making multiple stops produces fewer emissions than individual customers driving cars to stores. But when all the packaging and returns are factored in, the benefits start to dissolve.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Returns are an incredibly human thing \u2014 maybe your niece no longer likes pink, or the shoes you bought for your 11-year-old on Black Friday won\u2019t fit because they hit a growth spurt.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>While returns to in-person stores are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2021\/11\/free-returns-online-shopping\/620169\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> more likely to be restocked<\/a> than online returns, online returns are a different beast.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Wirecutter\u2019s Annemarie Conte looked into  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/wirecutter\/reviews\/mystery-amazon-pallet-unboxing\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">what happens when packages are returned<\/a>. And the result was mostly sad. Conte purchased a 450 lb mystery pallet of online shopping returns. About 70 lbs of the pallet was packaging and trash. Of the goods, most of the items were low-quality or shoddy polyester clothing. The online retailers hadn\u2019t even bothered to open most of the return packages, as it was more cost-effective to send them right to a reseller.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The one positive side-effect, Conte\u2019s article found, is that the second-hand market is booming. If you want to shop online, check out second-hand websites like eBay, Poshmark, ThredUp, or ThriftBooks.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Keeping it Local<\/p>\n<p>When you buy local and in-store, your purchase not only supports your neighbor, but it also reduces the amount of packaging that an online order would have required and it reduces the distance that a product has to travel to get to you \u2014 cutting carbon at every corner.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, New York City is home to some of the most creative people and stores in the world. For the price of your subway fare, you can discover treasures that speak to you. Some places even wrap gifts for you! Touch things, look at them in your hand or in the light, go with a friend, and make it fun.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Strategist has a list of <a href=\"https:\/\/nymag.com\/strategist\/article\/new-york-stores-where-the-shopping-is-better-in-person.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> 21 NYC stores where the shopping is best in person<\/a>. Or start somewhere super local, the  <a href=\"https:\/\/thelocavore.com\/variety-store\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Locavore Variety Store<\/a>, which sources items from within 100 miles of NYC. Or, get the  <a href=\"https:\/\/thelocavore.shop\/products\/pre-order-the-locavore-guide-to-shopping-nyc-2026\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Locavore Guide to Shopping NYC 2026<\/a>, a guidebook with 789 retail shops, tips on shopping local, and niche needs. Another option is the  <a href=\"https:\/\/www.otheralmanac.com\/store-1\/p\/the-other-almanac-2026\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Other Almanac<\/a>, a take on the Farmer\u2019s Almanac but oriented for New Yorkers.<\/p>\n<p>What it Means to Give<\/p>\n<p>Throughout this gifting season, remember what it\u2019s all for. Think back on some of your favorite gifts \u2014 sometimes the silliest or simplest thing meant the most.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>One of the best gifts I ever received was a fully stocked toolkit from my Dad before I moved into my first apartment. And the small clay bowls my younger sister made for me when she was still in high school are the same ones that hold my pens and knick-knacks to this day. My in-laws love to receive handmade bread. 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