SALISBURY TWP., Pa. – The ongoing search for Nancy Guthrie has sparked some tough conversations about the vulnerabilities seniors can face when living alone. So, how do you know if your loved one is truly safe?
We’re getting some answers Wednesday morning, thanks to the help of JR Reed, Executive Director of the Lehigh County Office of Aging and Adult Services.
He talked about when is it is and is not okay for a loved one to live alone. It is ok for families to be concerned about their loved ones living alone, but the vast majority of older adults live safely and independently in our communities.
He said he thinks it is all right to live alone as long as you can do daily tasks, like take care of your medication, making sure you have your own food, making sure you have good hygiene, and understanding if you are in trouble, and how you can get help, Reed said.
Dig a little deeper if it seems your loved one has trouble doing those things, he said.
Reed discussed home security for those who do live alone. He said technologies such as doorbell cameras can help. Good lighting around the yard and locks on the doors and windows can help keep people living alone safe, Reed said.
Medical emergency alert buttons are also beneficial. They have fall detection and GPS detection in them.
The more isolated an older adult is, the more vulnerable they are, he said.
Reed said he recommends daily check ins. That can be done via phone but is best in person, he said.
Different family members can check in on older adults in different days.
When it comes to people who are hired to help older adults who live at home, Reed said it is important to vet them and that they are licensed and have background checks.
The Lehigh County Office of Aging and Adult Services contracts with a number of providers that can help.
If you believe you need to talk to your loved one about changing their living arrangements, be empathetic, he said.