EASTON, Pa. – February is recognized as Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month.
School leaders, local law enforcement and resource groups gathered in Northampton County Tuesday night to bring awareness to the issue.
“We need to start talking to them about teen dating violence and the warning signs,” said Terry Glass, president and founder of Rianna’s Voice.
Back in 2023, Glass lost his daughter, Rianna, as a result of teen dating violence.
Since then, he’s become a powerful advocate for awareness and prevention, even starting an organization in Rianna’s name.
He says teen dating violence doesn’t always show up in the form of physical abuse; it can also be emotional and centers around control.
“Constantly checking in with each other: What are you doing? Who are you hanging out with? Where are you going? Wanting to know where they are at all times,” Glass said.
Some signs your teen might be in a toxic relationship include academic decline, disinterest or isolation from family and friends.
“And typically, you know, teachers will start seeing these red flags in the classroom. They will make a SAP referral to the student assistance program and then we can look into it, see what’s really truly going on with the student,” said Amy Wright, guidance counselor at Northampton Area High School.
For peers, experts say it’s important to keep an open mind and practice compassion when talking to someone who might be experiencing dating violence.
You can encourage them to get help or talk to a trusted adult.
“Listen to them. Don’t judge them, don’t blame them…it’s not their fault they are going through this,” explained Glass.
Finally, Glass said ending teen dating violence starts with conversations between parents and their kids.
“Start as early as you can, but we have to start talking about it,” Glass said.
Resources on teen dating violence and where to get help:
Home – Turning Point of Lehigh Valley
Rianna’s Voice – Shining a bright light on teen dating violence through community outreach.