Elaine Brenda Aulenbach, 77
January 19, 2026
Elaine Brenda Aulenbach passed away on January 19, 2026, at the age of 77 after a courageous battle with Pancreatic Cancer. Born in Reading, PA, she was the daughter of late Harry F. Vilardo and Emily C. (Casantini) Vilardo.
Elaine graduated from Holy Name High School, Reading, PA. She was employed by Car-Tech, Reading, PA for a number of years, rising to administrative assistant for sales management. After that, she stopped working to focus on family, raising her two children. She returned to work in sales and marketing, for various organizations, retiring as a sales manager for Welcome Wagon International, covering the greater Central PA area.
Elaine was a member of St. Leo the Great Catholic Church. She loved prayer through song and sang in her church choir for 38 years. Elaine was a positive influence on many people throughout her life as reflected in the letters, cards and notes received by the family.
She was an active member of Lancaster Liederkranz, The Hempfield Women’s Club and The Coterie Club and was involved in many of their numerous activities and groups.
For 30 years, Elaine and her husband enjoyed sailing and exploring the Chesapeake Bay and chartering sailboats in the Caribbean She loved traveling with her husband throughout the USA and many parts of the world. Elaine enjoyed playing pinochle, bunco and other games and activities with her friends and community. She enjoyed cooking and entertaining, especially for family celebrations and holidays.
Elaine is survived by and will be dearly missed by her loving husband (David Aulenbach) of 55 years; her daughter, Alecia Flynn wife of David Broscious of Catonsville, MD; her son, Benjamin Aulenbach husband of Jennifer of Centerville, VA.; and her grandson, Owen Flynn, also of Catonsville, MD. Additionally, she is survived by a sister, Jean Texter, of The Pines, MD.
A mass of Christian burial will be held at St Leo the Great Catholic Church February 10, 2026 at 11am, guest will be invited to a reception following mass. Internment will take place privately at Gethsemane Cemetery in Reading, PA.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made in Elaine’s memory to St Leo The Great Catholic Church or the American Cancer Society.
January 21, 2026
Elaine was so caring and welcomed us into the neighborhood as old friends. She treated Jan as a little sister, sharing gardening tricks and sprigs of herbs she grew. Her encouragement and support in new endevors was appreciated and valued. She always had an invitation for a get together for fun times to share. Her smile and warm spirit is missed. Dave, our hearts go out to you and your children as Elaine was truly one of a kind.
Jan & Rob Caccamo
January 21, 2026
So very sorry to hear hear of Elaine’s passing. We were often passing each other at Hartz Physical Therapy. Enjoyed her company at water aerobics and other Four Seasons social activities. Our loving prayers are going out to her family at this difficult time.
Judy Kline
January 21, 2026
Elaine and I participated together in water aerobics at our Four Seasons community pool for several years. I enjoyed hearing about her travels and activities. She often spoke lovingly about her husband and family. I admired her adventurous spirit and friendliness. Elaine will be missed by many. My condolences to her dear family.
Marybeth Toole
January 21, 2026
What an amazing lady Elaine was. I have enjoyed know her now for over 12 years when I met her in Coterie club. Always smiling always helpful and fun to be around. What a delight she was to so many. She will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to Dave and the family- my heart aches for all of you.
LaTrelle Renaud
January 20, 2026
Elaine was my mother-in-law for 18 years. I called her “Mom” easily. She was the perfect Mom in many ways. She loved, supported, and fed her family, and doted on her grandson (my son) more than any grandmother should. My heart breaks for the immediate family and their loss. I loved her and she will be missed by many.
Michael P Flynn