AUSTIN, Texas — Swipe fatigue is real, but one local dating coach is offering singles a fresh way to connect — no apps required.
Joel Monteleone, dating and relationship coach, joined Sierra Waggoner and Trevor Scott on We Are Austin to share details about his interactive event, “Hot Takes, Hot Dates.” The experience is designed to spark meaningful conversations in a fun, low-pressure setting.
Joel Monteleone, dating and relationship coach, joined Sierra Waggoner and Trevor Scott on We Are Austin to share details about his interactive event, “Hot Takes, Hot Dates.”
“So Hot Takes Hot Dates is an in-person dating experience. Unlike other dating shows that you might go to, everyone in the audience is single,” Monteleone said, explaining that the event replaces awkward small talk with engaging prompts and bold conversation starters that help participants quickly see if there’s real chemistry. “Everyone is dating. And so we put people at tables, we give them topics of discussion. They come up with a hot take on that topic, and then one person from each table comes up on stage, they share it, and the whole room decides who has the hottest take in the hottest take, the table wins a bunch of prizes.”
Unlike traditional speed dating, the event focuses on authenticity and shared perspectives. “I think people don’t really know where or how to do that. They’re relying on the dating apps. They think that’s the only way, and it’s just it’s not. We’ve been dating in real life for many, many, many years. And so getting back out into the world, doing the things that you want to do, and just like, really like taking care of yourself, and you’ll attract the person that you want,” he added, noting that many singles today struggle with dating app burnout, unclear communication, and fear of vulnerability.
As a coach, Monteleone says his biggest advice for anyone looking for love right now is simple: “So sometimes I tell them just delete the apps. Yeah, right. Like, close all the back doors.” He emphasizes showing up confidently and being clear about your intentions from the start. Sometimes it can be a crutch, and you’ll rely on it. So just remove it altogether and try it out. I also tell people to like just put yourself out there. Yeah. Take the pressure off of dating of like trying to find your person. People get as they take it so seriously, and they show up almost stressed out on a date. Just relax, have fun. I believe we’re our most authentic and magnetic selves when we’re having fun. And that’s why Hot Takes Hot Dates is all about just play having fun.”
Modern dating gets a reset with Hot Takes, Hot Dates events!
The next “Hot Takes, Hot Dates” event is happening soon, with additional details and ticket information available online.
For more information and upcoming event dates, visit his website and follow along on social media.
Modern dating gets a reset with Hot Takes, Hot Dates events!