Raymond Edward Wilder passed away peacefully on October 25, 2025 in Corpus Christi, Texas at the age of 92 with his family by his side. Born on July 19, 1933 in Topeka, Kansas to Willard R. Wilder and Esther Shields Wilder, Raymond’s life was a rich tapestry woven with devotion to his family that brought joy to both himself and those around him.
After moving to Corpus Christi at an early age, Raymond graduated from Corpus Christi High School (now known as Miller High School). He graduated from Southwest Texas State University in 1956 where he met the love of his life, Helen M. Pargmann. He served a short time in the Army in El Paso before moving back to Corpus Christi. He served as night manager for Bonham’s Grocery for several years before changing careers to become an insurance investigator with Retail Credit Company (later becoming Equifax), where he dedicated 33 years of service until his retirement in 1990. Raymond then became self-employed working another 25+ years as an insurance investigator doing what he thoroughly enjoyed.
In 1956, Raymond married Helen M. Pargmann, and together they embarked on a journey spanning nearly seven decades having celebrated 69 years of marriage. Their union was blessed with two wonderful children, Daren R. Wilder, who married Dianne, and Karen M. Martinez, who married Joe. Raymond’s role as a father was one he cherished deeply, guiding his children with a gentle hand and a warm heart.
Raymond is preceded in death by his parents Willard R. Wilder and Esther Shields Wilder. He is also preceded in death by his brother-in-law, Bert Groves.
Raymond is survived by his wife, Helen M. Wilder; sister, Lois Ann Groves; son, Daren R. Wilder (Dianne); and, daughter, Karen M. Martinez (Joe). His legacy continued through his beloved grandchildren, Devon W. Holz (Wil); D’Anne W. Hanson (Eric); Debra A. Wilder; and Britteny M. Das (Rheet). He also leaves behind 3 great grandchildren, Dean & Walker Holz; and Levi Hanson, along with quite a number of nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews. Each of them held a special place in Raymond’s heart, and he took great pride in their accomplishments and adventures.
As a man of faith, Raymond’s Christian beliefs were a cornerstone of his life offering him strength and solace throughout his years. He was an active member of his church community, where he found fellowship and purpose.
Raymond’s zest for life was evident in his passion for traveling, cruising and swimming. He found great pleasure in exploring new destinations, whether it was the tranquility of the ocean or the excitement of a new city. Raymond and Helen also enjoyed going to estate sales and spending weekends on their farm at Runge. These experiences not only enriched his life but also created cherished memories for his family and friends.
During Raymond’s work life, he came into contact with many people over the years. It was not unusual for him to know someone in an airport or on a cruise no matter where he and Helen traveled. His warm smile, generous spirit, and thoughtful gestures were hallmarks of his character. Raymond approached life with an open heart, eagerly sharing his joy and compassion with everyone he met.
Raymond’s passing leaves a void in the hearts of many, but his spirit will live on through the countless lives he touched and the memories that will be cherished. We take comfort in the knowledge that his journey was a life well-lived, full of love, laughter and moments that will be treasured forever. Raymond’s memory will be held in the highest regard as we celebrate a life truly well-lived.
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, November 22, 2025 at 10:30 a.m. CST at St. Paul Lutheran Church, 409 N. Wilbern Street, Runge Texas 78151. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Paul Lutheran Church, Runge, Texas.