{"id":146632,"date":"2026-02-01T17:26:23","date_gmt":"2026-02-01T17:26:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/146632\/"},"modified":"2026-02-01T17:26:23","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T17:26:23","slug":"old-flame-is-caught-up-in-romance-scam","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/146632\/","title":{"rendered":"Old flame is caught up in romance scam"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Dear Abby: Six years ago, at my 40th high school reunion, a few former classmates asked me about my old high school sweetheart. (We broke up after high school.) I decided to find her and located her on Facebook. To my surprise, she never married. I told her I am married. We became friends again, but from 3,000 miles away.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">For a few years, it was a nice friendship. We shared old stories, and I helped her out with financial stuff and gave her some emotional support. Recently, she told me she has a long-distance relationship with an \u201coil rig offshore worker.\u201d I asked her to tell me more about him, and it all points to a scam artist. I recognized all the signs and tried to warn her. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">She insists he\u2019s real, it\u2019s true love and they are getting married. (They have never met in person.) Then I got an email from her with some nasty words about my comments. I told her I care for her safety and that the man she\u2019s corresponding with is not real \u2014 it\u2019s a romance scam. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">I no longer hear from her. I still care about her even though it\u2019s not a high school romance anymore. What should I do?<\/p>\n<p>News Roundups<\/p>\n<p class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__3beff secondaryRoman secondaryRoman-20 text-center text-gray-dark\">Catch up on the day&#8217;s news you need to know.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__8MgJa flex flex-wrap text-gray-dark secondaryRoman secondaryRoman-10 text-center justify-center\">By signing up, you agree to our\u00a0<a class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__lU9-l border-b border-gray-dark hover_border-0 focus_border-0 active_border-0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/help\/terms-of-service\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Terms of Service<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a class=\"dmnc_features-cta-social-article-cta-social-module__lU9-l border-b border-gray-dark hover_border-0 focus_border-0 active_border-0\" href=\"https:\/\/www.dallasnews.com\/help\/privacy-policy\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Privacy Policy.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Sweetheart in California<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Dear Sweetheart: Unfortunately, romance scams like the one you have described are common. The scammer claims to be on an oil rig or in a war zone (but rotating home soon) or is otherwise unreachable in person. He may also have a motherless child he is not parenting on a daily basis because his wife is \u201cdead\u201d and the kid is in \u201cboarding school,\u201d so the target would not be responsible for child-rearing. (How convenient!) <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Predictably, an \u201cemergency\u201d arises, and the scammer asks the target to fork over hundreds, or perhaps thousands, of dollars \u201cfor a short time only.\u201d After the money is sent, poof! The scammer is gone, and the romance is over.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">My advice to you is not to be surprised to hear from her once the con has come to its conclusion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Dear Abby: My husband and I are in our 60s. When we are at home, just the two of us, he likes to wear just his underwear around the house, whether it\u2019s watching TV or eating dinner. I have accepted it all these years and never made an issue of it. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">When our granddaughter visited us at the age of 1, he wore shorts at my request but no shirt. She\u2019s now coming to stay with us at age 2\u00bd. Don\u2019t you think he should wear a shirt and shorts when she visits? He values your opinion.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Mr. Informal\u2019s Wife<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">Dear Mr. Informal\u2019s Wife: Since your husband values my opinion, please tell him I said that unless it\u2019s 95 degrees when your granddaughter visits, the appropriate thing to do would be to wear shorts and a shirt during your grandchild\u2019s visit. <\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">The features provided by Andrews McMeel Syndication are copyrighted material and all rights are reserved.<\/p>\n<p class=\"body-text-paragraph\">You may not reproduce any of these features or distribute them electronically, in print or otherwise without written permission from Andrews McMeel Syndication, 1130 Walnut, Kansas City, MO 64106, (800) 255-6734.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Dear Abby: Six years ago, at my 40th high school reunion, a few former classmates asked me about&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":146633,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[61225,102,104,103],"class_list":{"0":"post-146632","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-dallas","8":"tag-advice","9":"tag-dallas","10":"tag-dallas-headlines","11":"tag-dallas-news"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146632","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=146632"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146632\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/146633"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=146632"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=146632"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=146632"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}