{"id":163282,"date":"2026-02-13T15:11:31","date_gmt":"2026-02-13T15:11:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/163282\/"},"modified":"2026-02-13T15:11:31","modified_gmt":"2026-02-13T15:11:31","slug":"major-valentines-day-red-flags-lubbock-edition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/163282\/","title":{"rendered":"Major Valentine\u2019s Day Red Flags (Lubbock Edition)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Valentine&#8217;s Day is tomorrow, which means love is in the air&#8230;along with panic, last-minute planning, and several situationships about to be exposed. If you live in Lubbock, you already know that this holiday hits a little different around here. Romance in West Texas comes with questionable restaurants, at least a few people saying, &#8220;I don&#8217;t really celebrate.&#8221; (liars), and it looks like this V-Day we may even see a little rain&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So, let&#8217;s talk for a second about red flags.<\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t mean the obvious ones. I mean the Lubbock-specific ones.<\/p>\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@mhrezaa?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u0623\u062e\u064c\u200c\u0641\u064a\u200c\u0627\u0644\u0644\u0647<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/red-flag-on-pole-under-blue-sky-during-daytime-GRYHwCxL9wQ?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If they say, &#8220;We&#8217;ll see&#8221; when you ask about Valentine&#8217;s Day plans, that&#8217;s a soft launch into disappointment. &#8220;We&#8217;ll see&#8221; is code for &#8220;I did not plan anything and I am hoping you will forget about this conversation altogether.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@artbyhybrid?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Madison Oren<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/red-flag-FaEB-4IGQ_w?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Another red flag? Suggesting Buffalo Wild Wings &#8220;because it&#8217;s casual.&#8221; I mean, casual is fine, but casual on Valentine&#8217;s Day with a two-hour wait and sports games blasting in the background is the opposite of romance. It&#8217;s more like an endurance test.<\/p>\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@cg?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">C. G.<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/red-textile-under-blue-sky-during-daytime-cn6WRiJDA4E?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If your date calls it &#8220;Valentimes,&#8221; RUN. Don&#8217;t walk. Don&#8217;t even explain yourself. Just get.<\/p>\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@tuan1561?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Anh Tuan To<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/red-flag-on-pole-under-white-sky-during-daytime-akCM-SZTCo4?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<p>If they insist that Valentine&#8217;s Day is &#8220;just a corporate holiday, blah blah blah&#8230;&#8221;, that&#8217;s just code for &#8220;I&#8217;m broke, and simply unwilling to admit it. Instead, I&#8217;ll do my best to look superior to the entire ordeal.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>You can, however, use this to your advantage by saying something like, &#8220;Oh, my love is free, honey. You can show me how much you love me by taking out the trash, doing the dishes, and cooking dinner for once.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Then, at least you&#8217;ll get a few chores done around the house and a no-fuss meal, if nothing else. Win.<\/p>\n<p>Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/@dmjdenise?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Denise Jans<\/a> on <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/photos\/red-flag-flying-from-a-buildings-window-Z-3KllTPFfs?utm_source=unsplash&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_content=creditCopyText\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Unsplash<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not every Valentine&#8217;s Day needs to be perfect, but if your date comes with confusion, low effort, and a side of hot wings, you might want to reconsider&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Choose wisely, Lubbock! Have fun and don&#8217;t take yourself too seriously. &lt;3<\/p>\n<p>Keep scrolling for more Lubbock love in the galleries below&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>What Went Wrong on Your Date? Lubbock Has Stories<\/p>\n<p>Happily ever after is harder to find in Lubbock than you think.<\/p>\n<p class=\"photogallery-credit\">Gallery Credit: Chrissy<\/p>\n<p>Great Local Lubbock Places for a Date That Go Beyond Restaurants <\/p>\n<p>Looking for a great date that isn&#8217;t fine dining and roses? Here are some cute, out-of-the-box ideas for dates in Lubbock. <\/p>\n<p class=\"photogallery-credit\">Gallery Credit: Renee Raven<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Valentine&#8217;s Day is tomorrow, which means love is in the air&#8230;along with panic, last-minute planning, and several situationships&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":163283,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[168,170,169],"class_list":{"0":"post-163282","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lubbock","8":"tag-lubbock","9":"tag-lubbock-headlines","10":"tag-lubbock-news"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=163282"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163282\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/163283"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=163282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=163282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=163282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}