{"id":169669,"date":"2026-02-18T12:36:11","date_gmt":"2026-02-18T12:36:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/169669\/"},"modified":"2026-02-18T12:36:11","modified_gmt":"2026-02-18T12:36:11","slug":"butch-prom-offers-home-base-for-queer-masculinity-in-austin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/169669\/","title":{"rendered":"Butch Prom offers &#8216;home base&#8217; for queer masculinity in Austin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Valentine\u2019s Day weekend at the VORTEX in East Austin was more than the usual chocolates and flowers. The audience filing into the small black-box theater was lively \u2014 rocking dyed hair of various colors, leather vests, and vibrant patterned outfits. A cheetah print couch and bubblegum pink chairs were placed on stage.<\/p>\n<p>From Friday through Sunday, the performance venue became the home of Butch Prom, a self-described event series celebrating lesbian, queer and trans masculinity.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u200aWe&#8217;ve gone to queer events from a few different groups, and we&#8217;ve never really found our home base,&#8221; said Lee Farmer, who attended Saturday with his partner. &#8220;So I was really excited to find a place that was like queer [masculine].\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Each Butch Prom event is a little different. The first one last summer was a prom with a wrestling twist. For Halloween, it was a Monster Ball. For Valentine\u2019s weekend, the organizers decided to put on a staged gameshow called Masc4Match.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c\u200aIf you&#8217;ve ever seen The Dating Game,\u201d founder and co-producer Sophia Rumbarger said, \u201cthere&#8217;s a contestant, and then there are three eligible bachelors. We&#8217;re doing that, but as a drag show theater play.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"Performers dressed as Miss Piggy, Elvis Presley, Kermit the Frog and Peewie Herman take part in Masc 4 Match, a live dating show hosted by Butch Prom.\"  width=\"880\" height=\"555\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/1771418169_616_.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Lorianne Willett<\/p>\n<p>\/<\/p>\n<p>KUT News<\/p>\n<p>Performers dressed as Elvis Presley, Kermit the Frog and Pee-wee Herman compete for the affection of Miss Piggy.<\/p>\n<p>While the theme for each Butch Prom event changes, the central focus is designing a safe and fun space for people who present themselves in a masculine way.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt&#8217;s not about being exclusive. It&#8217;s specifically about creating space for something that may otherwise not be highlighted. Butch lesbians, people who identify as trans masculine, trans men, studs, boys,\u201d Rumbarger said. \u201cWe&#8217;re saying this party is for you, and it&#8217;s about you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Rumbarger, who identifies as a &#8220;butch lesbian&#8221; \u2014 those who present as more masculine \u2014 came up with the idea with a friend. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWe wanted to attend more events that were geared toward women like us,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>She never saw the idea growing beyond her own backyard, though, until she discussed it with Olivia Emigh.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI remember her saying something that changed my perspective entirely,\u201d Rumbarger said. \u201cShe said, \u2018You don&#8217;t have to do that at your house; you can do that at a bar.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Emigh had wanted to produce something from the ground up that centered queer joy. One of her first ideas was a play on WrestleMania that would be rooted in masculinity. She started meeting regularly with Rumbarger to outline the first prom. The event would feature various activities like wrestling, shotgunning beers and crowning a prom king.<\/p>\n<p>The organizers also wanted the event to showcase queer artists and vendors, and promote community causes. All proceeds from the that prom went to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.blacktransleadershipaustin.org\/\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Black Trans Leadership of Austin<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Butch Prom first posted to Instagram last June and quickly started gaining traction online. The wrestling prom sold out.<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"Two performers sit on stage, one of the holding a kermit the frog puppet. The other is wearing a red hat with an eye ball on the front. \"  width=\"880\" height=\"587\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/1771418170_512_.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Lorianne Willett<\/p>\n<p>\/<\/p>\n<p>KUT News<\/p>\n<p>Travis Randy Travis performs as Kermit the Frog alongside khattieQ as Pee-wee Herman. The show combines improv, drag kings and a dating competition. <\/p>\n<p>Bobby Pudrido, a local trans artist and drag king, was the night\u2019s host. He started doing drag and emceeing three years ago, around the same time as Texas was seeing an uptick in anti-trans and anti-queer legislation.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cButch Prom seemed more politically aligned than any other events I&#8217;ve done before,\u201d he said. \u201cSo it was an easy yes.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After the Monster Ball proved equally successful, the organizers wanted their next event to be totally different. Instead of throwing a party featuring drag performances, they decided to put on a performance that would feel like a party.<\/p>\n<p>Rumbarger imagined a twist on a challenge from RuPaul&#8217;s Drag Race. Drag queens impersonate a celebrity in a parody of the gameshow Match Game.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think that drag performers do celebrity impersonation probably better than anyone else,\u201d she said. \u201cI kept thinking to myself there&#8217;s so many male celebrities, why aren&#8217;t drag kings doing this more often?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The team created Masc4Match, a play combining improv, drag kings and a dating element for Valentine\u2019s Day. Three \u201cbutchelors\u201d \u2013 Elvis Presley, Kermit the Frog and Pee Wee Herman \u2013 would compete for the affections of the \u201cbutchelorette,\u201d Miss Piggy, by answering a series of hard-hitting questions and performing handpicked musical numbers for the audience.<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"A person dressed as Elvis performs with a person wearing a red hat dressed as Pee Wee Herman.\"  width=\"880\" height=\"587\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/02\/1771418171_340_.jpeg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Lorianne Willett<\/p>\n<p>\/<\/p>\n<p>KUT News<\/p>\n<p>While the &#8220;butchelorette&#8221; chose Elvis, he ended up with Pee-wee Herman after Pee-Wee confessed his feelings for Elvis. <\/p>\n<p>In the end, all three nights at the VORTEX sold out.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt feels so important for me and for us to be on the stage to be that comfortable and to share that with an audience, too. We exist. We&#8217;re here,\u201d said Travis Randy Travis, the drag king who played Kermit the Frog.<\/p>\n<p>Audience members were just as excited to watch the show as the performers were to be in it.<\/p>\n<p>Ally Lea, who attended the Saturday performance, said they loved the way the show expanded how masculinity could be portrayed beyond what is traditionally seen in media and by cisgender men.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEverything is drag,\u201d they said.<\/p>\n<p>The organizers want to continue expanding the size and scope of their events. They&#8217;re planning another prom this summer. <\/p>\n<p>With queerness and transness being increasingly challenged by legislators, the team said events like theirs are only becoming more important.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe entire premise of anti-queer legislation is for us to cower and for us to hide,\u201d Pudrido said. \u201cIf we&#8217;re having the time of our lives, that in itself is pushing back.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Valentine\u2019s Day weekend at the VORTEX in East Austin was more than the usual chocolates and flowers. 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