{"id":405143,"date":"2026-08-13T03:44:08","date_gmt":"2026-08-13T03:44:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/405143\/"},"modified":"2026-08-13T03:44:08","modified_gmt":"2026-08-13T03:44:08","slug":"pregnant-moms-death-left-her-brother-raising-three-kids-alone-then-a-neighbor-stepped-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/405143\/","title":{"rendered":"Pregnant mom&#8217;s death left her brother raising three kids alone, then a neighbor stepped in"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>SAN ANTONIO &#8211; Nearly one year ago, Jesse Espitia lost his sister and gained a responsibility he never imagined.<\/p>\n<p>He became a father to her three children.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/foxsanantonio.com\/newsletter-daily\/pregnant-woman-killed-after-being-struck-by-vehicle-on-thursday-night-identified-local-daily-san-antonio\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Fatal crash leaves brother to care for three kids after pregnant sister&#8217;s tragic death<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jeanette Espitia, 33, was killed Aug. 25 after being struck by a vehicle while crossing Southeast Military Drive near Old Corpus Christi Highway. She had just stepped off a city bus after buying diapers and was walking with her 1-year-old daughter.<\/p>\n<p>Jeanette was also pregnant and just weeks away from giving birth.<\/p>\n<p>She and her unborn son died. Her young daughter survived.<\/p>\n<p>For Jesse, life changed overnight.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s been challenging,&#8221; Jesse said. &#8220;I don&#8217;t have kids on my own, and to take the responsibility of three kids is a lot. You know, it&#8217;s not easy, but I&#8217;m up for the challenge.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Today, Jesse is raising 11-year-old Jakob, 5-year-old Jaelynn and 2-year-old Jenna in a small one-bedroom apartment on San Antonio&#8217;s Southeast Side. All three children sleep in the living area near the kitchen while Jesse works to provide what he can.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m doing my best,&#8221; he said. &#8220;It&#8217;s not perfect, but I am trying my best.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The physical challenges are only part of what this family has endured.<\/p>\n<p>RELATED: <a href=\"https:\/\/foxsanantonio.com\/newsletter-daily\/local-officials-install-crosswalk-after-pregnant-mother-of-three-killed-crossing-street\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Local officials install crosswalk after pregnant mother of three killed crossing street<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jesse says the children still have nights when grief takes over.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They have the little episodes where they cry at night, especially when they want their mom,&#8221; he said. &#8220;When they get a cut on their foot, when they fall outside &#8230; they wish it was Mom here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jesse is grieving, too.<\/p>\n<p>Inside the apartment is a shrine honoring the family members he has lost, including his mother, father, brother, Jeanette and the unborn nephew he never had the chance to meet.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s all the family I have,&#8221; Jesse said. &#8220;That&#8217;s what keeps my spirits going. Keeps the kids&#8217; spirit going.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But during the most difficult year of his life, Jesse discovered family can also be found right next door.<\/p>\n<p>His neighbor, Susan Herrera, began helping Jesse when he was struggling financially.<\/p>\n<p>Jesse says Herrera paid three months of his rent, more than $2,000, when the family was facing possible eviction. She has also driven Jesse and the children to stores and school because he doesn&#8217;t have a vehicle, helped with the kids and simply sat with him when he needed someone to talk to.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It gave me an opportunity to stay here,&#8221; Jesse said. &#8220;I was on the verge of eviction, and she was there to help me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Herrera works as a cook at a South Side convent and credits her Christian faith for compelling her to help the family.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It broke my heart,&#8221; Herrera said of Jeanette&#8217;s death. &#8220;He&#8217;s left to be the caregiver with no warning, no means, no anything, and he&#8217;s done such a great job.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jesse wanted Herrera to know her kindness had not gone unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p>So he reached out to FOX SA&#8217;s Cash for Kindness.<\/p>\n<p>Herrera believed she was simply stopping by Jesse&#8217;s apartment to talk. Instead, she walked inside to find FOX SA waiting.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Susan, thank you for always being there for us,&#8221; Jesse told her. &#8220;This past year has been real tough, really, really tough for me. And you being there for us means the world.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Herrera&#8217;s response was simple.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;You know I love you guys.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>FOX SA then surprised Herrera with a $1,000 Cash for Kindness award, made possible by DJC Law.<\/p>\n<p>Herrera was stunned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh my gosh! I don&#8217;t know what to say,&#8221; she said. &#8220;God is good. God is good. God is good. That&#8217;s all I can say.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But perhaps the most revealing moment came when Herrera was asked what she planned to do with the money.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s going to help me help them.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Jesse had nominated Herrera because he wanted, for once, to give something back to the woman who had spent the past year giving to his family.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, even her reward is coming back to them.<\/p>\n<p>Nearly one year after three children lost their mother and an uncle suddenly became their father, the neighbor who helped keep a roof over their heads is still giving.<\/p>\n<p>Because sometimes, the family that carries you through your darkest days is the family you find right next door.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/foxsanantonio.com\/station\/contests\/cash-for-kindness-01-20-2026\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Click here to nomination someone you know for the $1,000 Cash for Kindness prize.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"SAN ANTONIO &#8211; Nearly one year ago, Jesse Espitia lost his sister and gained a responsibility he never&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":405144,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[82,84,83],"class_list":["post-405143","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-san-antonio","tag-san-antonio","tag-san-antonio-headlines","tag-san-antonio-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=405143"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/405143\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/405144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=405143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=405143"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=405143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}