HOUSTON \u2013 It\u2019s National Matchmaker Day \u2014 a day to celebrate the people who have been playing Cupid long before dating apps made finding a connection just a swipe away.<\/p>\n
Maybe you\u2019ve looked at two people you know and thought, \u201cYou two would be great together!\u201d If so, you may already have the instincts of a matchmaker.<\/p>\n
But what actually makes two people a good match? And how do you make introductions without making things awkward?<\/p>\n
Connection expert Jenn Pinkerton has some answers. A psychotherapist, speaker and high-performance coach, Pinkerton specializes in relationships, attachment, intimacy and communication.<\/p>\n
Here are some of her tips for becoming a better matchmaker:<\/p>\n
Look beyond shared hobbies. Two people don\u2019t have to love the same activities. Shared values, lifestyles and even energy levels can be better indicators of compatibility.<\/p>\n
Think about the bigger picture. Consider whether they want similar things when it comes to relationships, family, finances, socializing and downtime.<\/p>\n
Ask both people first. Give them the choice to decide whether they\u2019re open to meeting someone rather than putting them on the spot.<\/p>\n
Don\u2019t oversell the match. Skip the \u201cThey\u2019re perfect for you!\u201d pitch. Instead, share why you think they might connect and let them form their own opinions.<\/p>\n
Let the connection happen naturally. Your job is to create an opportunity \u2014 not manage the relationship. Once you\u2019ve made the connection, give them space to see where it goes.<\/p>\n
The best matchmakers aren\u2019t focused on controlling the outcome. They notice a potential connection, open the door and let the two people take it from there.<\/p>\n
Watch the full conversation with Jenn Pinkerton in the video above.<\/p>\n
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