{"id":440382,"date":"2026-09-18T21:40:10","date_gmt":"2026-09-18T21:40:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/440382\/"},"modified":"2026-09-18T21:40:10","modified_gmt":"2026-09-18T21:40:10","slug":"liza-lee-longtime-hockaday-headmistress-dies-at-83","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/440382\/","title":{"rendered":"Liza Lee, longtime Hockaday headmistress, dies at 83"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img alt=\"Liza Lee poses for a photo in a fifth-grade language arts class at the Hockaday School in 1997.\u00a0\" loading=\"eager\" fetchpriority=\"high\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:4 \/ 3\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-gray200 mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee poses for a photo in a fifth-grade language arts class at the Hockaday School in 1997.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Karen Stallwood\/107224<\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee held her students \u2014 her \u201cgirls\u201d \u2014 to a high standard.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn-channels-pixel.ex.co\/events\/0012000001fxZm9AAE?integrationType=DEFAULT&amp;template=design%2Farticle%2Fplatypus_two_column.tpl\" alt=\"\" class=\"x1px y1px vh abs\" aria-hidden=\"true\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\"\/><\/p>\n<p>If you were chewing gum, she\u2019d stick out her hand, then ask you to spit it out. If you were smoking, she\u2019d relate her own experiences as a smoker, then ask you to stop.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheHockadaySchoolDallas\/posts\/hockaday-mourns-the-loss-of-elizabeth-liza-lee-who-served-the-school-as-eugene-m\/1543419434470948\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">former headmistress of The Hockaday School<\/a> expected a lot, family members and alumni recalled. But those expectations were matched by a commitment to champion, care and support young women, they said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe was strict,\u201d said her son Ted Lee. \u201cShe was, but in an absolutely loving way, where you always knew that she was kind of right about everything.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lee died on Sept. 12 at William P. Clements Jr. University Hospital in Dallas. She was 83.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Hockaday is regarded as the premier all-girl\u2019s preparatory school in the southwest. Recent graduates have gone on to attend the country\u2019s most elite colleges, including Harvard University, Stanford University and Yale University.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Liza Lee is pictured with her dog, Austin.\" loading=\"eager\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee is pictured with her dog, Austin.<\/p>\n<p>Courtesy of William Lee.<img alt=\"Liza Lee with Laura Leathers,\u00a0Hockaday's current head of school.\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee with Laura Leathers,\u00a0Hockaday&#8217;s current head of school.<\/p>\n<p>Courtesy of William Lee.<img alt=\"Headmaster of\u00a0Hockaday Liza Lee talks with fourth graders on their way to French class on the first day of school on Aug. 27, 1997. Students are\u00a0Michelle Wong (from left), Caroline Straty, Kristina Swygert, Joanna Elmquist, and Jacquelyn Kulp.\u00a0\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Headmaster of\u00a0Hockaday Liza Lee talks with fourth graders on their way to French class on the first day of school on Aug. 27, 1997. Students are\u00a0Michelle Wong (from left), Caroline Straty, Kristina Swygert, Joanna Elmquist, and Jacquelyn Kulp.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Dallas Morning News\/File Photo<img alt=\"Headmaster of\u00a0Hockaday school Liza Lee meets with members of her student advisory board in her office on the first day of school on Aug. 27, 1997. Students are (clockwise from left) Kennedy\u00a0Prentiss,\u00a0Callie Works-Leary,\u00a0Hilary Youngblood, Raha Talebi, Faye\u00a0Bowles, Natalie Bayoud, and C.C. Marsh.\u00a0\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Headmaster of\u00a0Hockaday school Liza Lee meets with members of her student advisory board in her office on the first day of school on Aug. 27, 1997. Students are (clockwise from left) Kennedy\u00a0Prentiss,\u00a0Callie Works-Leary,\u00a0Hilary Youngblood, Raha Talebi, Faye\u00a0Bowles, Natalie Bayoud, and C.C. Marsh.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Dallas Morning News\/File Photo<img alt=\"ORG XMIT: [NHP_27LizaLee] Caption: 08\/27\/97 Headmaster of Hockaday Liza Lee greets students in the hall on the first day of school at the all-girls private school in North Dallas. Photographer: Karen Stallwood Credit: 107224 City: 107224 Date: 19970829 ObjectName: NHP_27LizaLee Source: High Profile\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>ORG XMIT: [NHP_27LizaLee] Caption: 08\/27\/97 Headmaster of Hockaday Liza Lee greets students in the hall on the first day of school at the all-girls private school in North Dallas. Photographer: Karen Stallwood Credit: 107224 City: 107224 Date: 19970829 ObjectName: NHP_27LizaLee Source: High Profile<\/p>\n<p>Karen Stallwood\/107224<img alt=\"Liza Lee\u00a0gets a hug from Jeanie Laube, director of Hockaday's community service program, in October 2003.\u00a0\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee\u00a0gets a hug from Jeanie Laube, director of Hockaday&#8217;s community service program, in October 2003.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The Dallas Morning News\/File Photo<img alt=\"Elizabeth &quot;Liza&quot; Lee, as headmistress, was credited with helping to land The\u00a0Hockaday School on the national map.\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofct bgsct block bg-black mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Elizabeth &#8220;Liza&#8221; Lee, as headmistress, was credited with helping to land The\u00a0Hockaday School on the national map.<\/p>\n<p>The Lee family<\/p>\n<p>Lee served as Hockaday\u2019s headmistress from 1990 to 2004 and returned as interim headmistress from 2015 to 2017. During her tenure, she raised the school\u2019s endowment from $20 million to $90 million, according to a 2005 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.texasmonthly.com\/articles\/going-public\/\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Texas Monthly article<\/a>. The school\u2019s diversity rate increased from 17% to 24%. She also modernized its science, math, technology, arts and engineering curriculum.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe was hired because she seemed to respect the traditions of the past, which are very important to Hockaday, but she also has very much a progressive view of women\u2019s roles in contemporary society,\u201d said Linda Custard, the former chairwoman of Hockaday\u2019s board, in a 1997 Dallas Morning News article.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sitting at the helm of this prestigious institution is no easy task. It comes with a lofty list of responsibilities: handling anxious parents, bringing in the bucks, and preparing the school for the future.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But Lee seemed to have cracked the code. She helped put\u00a0Hockaday on the national map.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><img alt=\"Liza Lee visits a student in class, while making her weekly Friday morning rounds of the lower school in 2003.\u00a0\" loading=\"lazy\"   style=\"aspect-ratio:3 \/ 2\" class=\"x100 y100 opc bgpc ofcv bgscv block bg-gray200 mnh0px fill\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Liza Lee visits a student in class, while making her weekly Friday morning rounds of the lower school in 2003.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>KIM RITZENTHALER\/Dallas Morning News<\/p>\n<p>In a statement, Laura Leathers, the current head of school, said Lee was always available to call, meet for lunch and provide perspective.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Sonya Mirbagheri Cheney, who graduated in 2000, described Lee as the \u201cheart and soul\u201d of\u00a0Hockaday. Each student had a unique and lifelong relationship with their head of school, she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe knew your family. She knew what you were struggling with. She knew what you were capable of,\u201d Mirbagheri Cheney said. \u201cShe was able to do that for so many.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lee\u2019s love and support followed her wherever she went \u2014 from college, to law school, and onward, she said. When\u00a0Mirbagheri Cheney lived in New York, she called Lee for advice on preschools for her daughter.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>No matter how many years passed, she said, Lee would answer.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe constancy of her in my life from a young eight-year-old girl until now is one of the most remarkable things,\u201d she said.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Once Hockaday\u2019s student body president, Mirbagheri Cheney is now a full-time attorney and teaches at Stanford Law School. She admires the qualities that made Lee the educator she was \u2014 notably her \u201ctremendous strength and incredible warmth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201c[I want] the law students to believe there is no limit to what they can do,\u201d she said. \u201cHold them to high standards, but do it with that love and support [like] she always did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Lee grew up in New York City and attended two all-girls schools, graduating from the Brearley School in 1961. She received her bachelor\u2019s degree from Mount Holyoke College and earned a Master of Arts from Columbia University.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>She spent more than 20 years at her alma mater, the Brearley School, teaching and eventually leading its middle school.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think her mentors recognized something in her that needed to come out and it did,\u201d William Lee, her husband, said about her transition from teacher to school administrator.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>Her career brought her to schools across the country. Lee also led the Columbus School for Girls in Ohio, the Trinity Episcopal School in Austin, Porter-Gaud School and the College Preparatory School in Charleston. She helped establish Dallas ISD\u2019s Irma Lerma Rangel Young Women\u2019s Leadership School, the first all-girls public school in Texas.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>For Lee, a ninth-generation New Yorker, Dallas became home. The family found a community that welcomed them.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDallasites are proud of Dallas,\u201d Lee&#8217;s husband said. \u201cWe haven\u2019t found another city like it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At one point, the Brearley School considered Lee for headmistress, but she decided to stay at Hockaday, The News reported in 1997. \u201cThey couldn\u2019t offer me what I have in Dallas, and I don\u2019t mean financially,\u201d she said then.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Outside her job, Lee read prolifically, her family said. Her two sons, who are food journalists, noted her appetite for all kinds of cuisine \u2014 especially sushi.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"uiTextSmall f aic jcc\">Article continues below this ad<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe far preferred to eat off someone else\u2019s plate than eat her own,\u201d said her son, Matt Lee.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let his mom\u2019s small frame fool you, he added.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe just exploded into the room,\u201d he said. \u201cPeople always remarked on just what a dynamo she was.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She is survived by her husband (William); her three children (Ted, Matt and Caroline); and five grandchildren (Arthur, Lorenzo, George, Ellie, and Henry). A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hockaday.org\/news-detail?pk=1637057&amp;fromId=298173\" data-link=\"native\" class=\"\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">memorial<\/a> will be held Oct. 3 at 2\u00a0p.m. at Hockaday.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The DMN Education Lab deepens the coverage and conversation about urgent education issues critical to the future of North Texas.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The DMN Education Lab is a community-funded journalism initiative, with support from Bobby and Lottye Lyle, Communities Foundation of Texas, The Dallas Foundation, Dallas Regional Chamber, Deedie Rose, Garrett and Cecilia Boone, Judy and Jim Gibbs, The Meadows Foundation, The Murrell Foundation, Ron Steinhart, Solutions Journalism Network, Southern Methodist University, Sydney Smith Hicks, and the University of Texas at Dallas. The Dallas Morning News retains full editorial control of the Education Lab\u2019s journalism.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Liza Lee poses for a photo in a fifth-grade language arts class at the Hockaday School in 1997.\u00a0&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":440383,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[102,104,103,223,104699,129039,87998,90041,89204],"class_list":["post-440382","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-dallas","tag-dallas","tag-dallas-headlines","tag-dallas-news","tag-news","tag-news-obituaries","tag-privateschooltest","tag-tp-dallas","tag-tp-ed-lab-school","tag-tp-education-lab"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440382","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=440382"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/440382\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/440383"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=440382"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=440382"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=440382"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}