{"id":6045,"date":"2025-10-16T03:11:19","date_gmt":"2025-10-16T03:11:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/6045\/"},"modified":"2025-10-16T03:11:19","modified_gmt":"2025-10-16T03:11:19","slug":"this-old-rotary-phone-in-arlington-helps-mourners-feel-connected-to-their-loved-ones-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/6045\/","title":{"rendered":"This old rotary phone in Arlington helps mourners feel connected to their loved ones again"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A vintage black rotary phone is housed inside a hutch that looks like a Little Free Library. The curious structure is set back from the shoreline and playground equipment at Arlington\u2019s Bowman Springs Park.<\/p>\n<p>Behind the small glass-front door is a memorial. The iridescent inside of an abalone shell glimmers next to an assortment of rocks and a piece of notebook paper with \u201cI feel sore for you\u201d written in a childlike scrawl. <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s called a wind phone. It is not connected to an active line or recording device, but people still pick up the receiver to say hello to family, friends and significant others who are no longer alive.<\/p>\n<p>The concept originated in Japan.<\/p>\n<p>Inspired by Itaru<\/p>\n<p>In 2010, after his cousin died, a man named Itaru Sasaki set up an old English telephone booth in his garden overlooking the Pacific Ocean. <\/p>\n<p>Sasaki told a Japanese news station that since his thoughts couldn\u2019t be relayed over a regular phone line, he wanted them to be carried by the wind.<\/p>\n<p>When a tsunami ravaged the country in 2011, people flocked to the phone. Since then, the concept has been replicated nearly 500 times around the world, according to a map compiled by Amy Dawson, who lives in Pennsylvania.<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"Julie Compton looks at the wind phone - a way to share memories and say goodbye to loved ones - Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington.\"  width=\"880\" height=\"587\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760584277_812_\"\/><\/p>\n<p>    Julie Compton looks at the wind phone &#8211; a way to share memories and say goodbye to loved ones &#8211; Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think it&#8217;s just such a normal thing,\u201d Dawson said. \u201cWe call our person, right? I think it&#8217;s a very normal thing we do every day that it feels comfortable, and it feels like a way you can connect.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After Dawson\u2019s daughter Emily died from a prolonged illness in 2020, she started <a href=\"http:\/\/mywindphone.com\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">mywindphone.com<\/a> to track the memorials.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey [wind phones] just popped back in my brain because if anybody was using a phone up in heaven or up in the sky, it would be my daughter,\u201d Dawson said. \u201cShe loved her phone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dawson\u2019s thinking behind the project was that if it could help her, it would likely help others as well.<\/p>\n<p>According to her most recent count, there are over 300 wind phones in the United States, including the one in Arlington.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018As a society we\u2019re kind of weird about death\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Karin Kliemann learned about wind phones from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=4lnK-eV2mx8\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">a segment<\/a> on CBS Sunday Morning.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI thought it was the very coolest thing ever,\u201d Kliemann said.<\/p>\n<p>Kliemann, who was working through the loss of some close friends, contacted the city of Arlington about installing a wind phone in a public park. She got permission to move forward.<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"Karin Kliemann holds the phone up to talk to her loved one on the wind phone Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington.\"  width=\"880\" height=\"587\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760584279_275_\"\/><\/p>\n<p>    Karin Kliemann talks to her loved ones on the wind phone Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington. <\/p>\n<p>Kliemann\u2019s longtime friend, Julie Compton, was touched that her late son and husband were among those Kliemann sought to honor with the wind phone.<\/p>\n<p>Compton\u2019s son died by suicide in 2010 and her husband died after a bout with lung disease in 2016. <\/p>\n<p>Their names, Chantz and David Compton, are printed on a piece of paper tucked inside the phone booth. The brief memorial lists another of Kliemann\u2019s late friends as well as a bible verse and proverb. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cAs a society, we&#8217;re kind of weird about death, you know? And really weird about suicide,\u201d Compton said. \u201cIt&#8217;s gotten better, but people don&#8217;t want to speak of it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Compton is looking to change that through her involvement with local groups the <a href=\"https:\/\/jordanelizabethharrisfoundation.org\/\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Jordan Elizabeth Harris Foundation<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/healingaftersuicidetarrantcounty.org\/history.php\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Healing After Suicide<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/mhmrtarrant.org\/local-outreach-to-suicide-survivors-loss\/\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Local Outreach to Suicide Survivors<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>She hopes that the wind phone can serve as a springboard for conversations about death and mourning. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI think people are afraid sometimes that they&#8217;re going to upset you to mention that name,\u201d she continued, \u201cbut really it&#8217;s much more upsetting when nobody mentions their name and doesn&#8217;t remember them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Processing grief<\/p>\n<p>Talking into a disconnected phone may sound odd to some, but, for others, it can provide a meaningful release. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt allows us to be able to still feel like we can share with them what&#8217;s on our heart, or things that we want to say but didn&#8217;t or couldn&#8217;t say before,\u201d said Stephanie Clanton, a licensed professional counselor-supervisor and founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.whiterocktherapy.net\/grief-loss-therapy\" class=\"Link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">White Rock Therapy in Dallas<\/a>. <\/p>\n<p>While it\u2019s not a replacement for therapy, mourners benefit from outward expression, whether that involves moving their bodies or using their voices, Clanton explained. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeing able to grieve and not stifle it or just even able to communicate aspects of grief is crucial in processing loss,\u201d she continued.<\/p>\n<p>Carried on the wind<\/p>\n<p>    <img decoding=\"async\" class=\"Image\" alt=\"Julie Compton talks to her loved ones on the wind phone Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington.\"  width=\"880\" height=\"587\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us-tx\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/1760584279_141_\"\/><\/p>\n<p>    Julie Compton talks to her loved one on the wind phone Tuesday, Aug. 19, 2025, at Bowman Springs Park in Arlington. <\/p>\n<p>Kliemann, who installed the wind phone in Arlington, noticed that how she uses it has changed over time. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt was at first like, \u2018What on earth? Why did you do this?\u2019 And \u2018Where have you gone?\u2019 and \u2018Why aren&#8217;t you here?\u2019 \u201d she said. \u201cAnd then it was, \u2018Here&#8217;s what happened today.\u2019 And \u2018I so thought of you when I did this.\u2019 \u201d <\/p>\n<p>Compton finds comfort knowing that people are still saying her son\u2019s and husband\u2019s names. The analog memorial is a nice respite from the likes, comments and constant notifications of the digital world, she said. It helps keep their memories alive. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know the saying that people die twice? They die when they die, and then they die the last time somebody says their name,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>She hopes others find comfort as the wind carries messages to their loved ones, too.<\/p>\n<p>Arts Access is an arts journalism collaboration powered by The Dallas Morning News and KERA.<\/p>\n<p>This community-funded journalism initiative is funded by the Better Together Fund, Carol &amp; Don Glendenning, City of Dallas OAC, The University of Texas at Dallas, Communities Foundation of Texas, The Dallas Foundation, Eugene McDermott Foundation, James &amp; Gayle Halperin Foundation, Jennifer &amp; Peter Altabef and The Meadows Foundation. The News and KERA retain full editorial control of Arts Access\u2019 journalism.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"A vintage black rotary phone is housed inside a hutch that looks like a Little Free Library. 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