{"id":181767,"date":"2025-09-25T23:08:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-25T23:08:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/181767\/"},"modified":"2025-09-25T23:08:09","modified_gmt":"2025-09-25T23:08:09","slug":"golden-bachelor-mel-owens-shares-painful-truth-about-18-year-marriage-ending","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/181767\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Golden Bachelor&#8217; Mel Owens shares painful truth about 18-year marriage ending"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>NEWYou can now listen to Fox News articles!\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"speakable\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/entertainment\/the-bachelor\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">&#8220;The Golden Bachelor&#8221;<\/a> star Mel Owens put more than roses on the table during the show\u2019s premiere.<\/p>\n<p class=\"speakable\">During the Sept. 24 debut, the 66\u2011year\u2011old revealed his ex\u2011wife filed for divorce in 2020 during the coronavirus pandemic after falling in love with someone else.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In 2020, during Covid, my Dad died. And then my wife filed for divorce. She had found someone new. I was shocked,&#8221; Owens said on the ABC show.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It\u2019s heart-wrenching. I mean, it\u2019s the toughest thing I\u2019ve ever gone through. In the quest for love, along the way, you\u2019re gonna get knocked down even sometimes when it\u2019s unexpected. But you have to get back up and try to find it again. Since the divorce, I haven\u2019t really dated. I had to stay focused on my kids.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/entertainment\/golden-bachelor-star-mel-owens-does-damage-control-after-controversial-age-preference-comments\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">&#8216;GOLDEN BACHELOR&#8217; STAR MEL OWENS DOES DAMAGE CONTROL AFTER CONTROVERSIAL AGE PREFERENCE COMMENTS<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mel-owens-1.jpg\" alt=\"Mel Owens, Golden Bachelor\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>Mel Owens and ex-wife Fabiana Pimentel were married for nearly 18 years, and share two sons. (John Nacion\/WireImage)<\/p>\n<p>Even though his divorce was tough, Owens told <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usmagazine.com\/entertainment\/news\/golden-bachelor-mel-owens-on-his-ex-wife-falling-in-love-with-someone-else\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Us Weekly<\/a>, &#8220;But, you know, I\u2019m never going to get in the way of someone\u2019s happiness.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you want to find somebody else in a different phase in your life \u2014 it hurts \u2014 but I can\u2019t get in the way of your happiness. And what\u2019s your happiness may not be my happiness.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That\u2019d be a real conflict. You can\u2019t stop somebody, say, \u2018I\u2019m over here now.\u2019 You can beg and plead, but I\u2019m fine. Life is short, and if you\u2019re in love with somebody else, that\u2019s fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Owens and his ex-wife, Fabiana Pimentel, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/entertainment\/events\/marriage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">were married<\/a> for nearly 18 years and share two sons.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/entertainment\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">LIKE WHAT YOU\u2019RE READING? CLICK HERE FOR MORE ENTERTAINMENT NEWS<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mel-owens-2.jpg\" alt=\"Mel Owens\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Golden Bachelor&#8221; star Mel Owens said his wife of nearly 18 years left him for another man. (Disney\/Stewart Cook)<\/p>\n<p>Describing how he coped with the emotional split, Owens added, &#8220;You live in the moment. Plus, I had kids, so I had to think about them before me. So, that was the main focus. And there were younger kids at the time \u2014 not infants, but teenagers. I let things work itself out, and it did. And have patience and understanding.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As for whether his ex-wife will <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/entertainment\/gerry-turner-warns-new-golden-bachelor-hes-making-serious-mistake-controversial-age-cutoff\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">tune in<\/a> to &#8220;The Golden Bachelor,&#8221; Owens said, &#8220;I don\u2019t know, but my boys told me, like, \u2018Oh, she\u2019s not gonna be watching.\u2019 But everybody\u2019s peeking.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/entertainment\/golden-bachelor-mel-owens-flip-flops-dating-preference-now-says-theres-no-age-love\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">&#8216;GOLDEN BACHELOR&#8217; MEL OWENS FLIP-FLOPS ON DATING PREFERENCE, NOW SAYS THERE&#8217;S &#8216;NO AGE TO LOVE&#8217;<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/1758841689_190_mel-owens-2.jpg\" alt=\"Mel Owens\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>The retired NFL linebacker previously admitted that he requested &#8220;Golden Bachelor&#8221; producers limit his dating pool to women under age 60. (Monica Schipper\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>Owens admitted, &#8220;I\u2019d be watching [if it was her]! Everybody\u2019s peeking.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>During a podcast interview in June, the retired NFL linebacker admitted he requested producers limit his dating pool to women under age 60.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It\u2019s blind up until they get out of the limo. But they asked me, \u2018What\u2019s your preferences?\u2019 So, I just said 45 to 60, just being honest,&#8221; Owens said on the <a href=\"https:\/\/mgoblue.com\/podcasts\/in-the-trenches-513-mel-owens\/1393\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">&#8220;In the Trenches&#8221;<\/a> podcast.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/newsletters?cmpid=fnfirstnl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR THE ENTERTAINMENT NEWSLETTER<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;And then the process went, and I was selected, right? And then we had lunch with the executive producer. I said, \u2018You know, if they\u2019re 60 or over, I\u2019m cutting them.\u2019 \u2018Oh Mel, you can\u2019t, you know, this is not the \u2018Silver Bachelor.\u2019 It\u2019s the \u2018Golden Bachelor.\u2019 He goes, \u2018But they\u2019re going to be hot, don\u2019t worry about it. Don\u2019t worry about it.\u2019&#8221;<\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/mel-ownes.jpg\" alt=\"Mel Owens at the 2025 Disney Upfronts in May in New York.\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>Mel Owens opened up about his divorce on &#8220;The Golden Bachelor&#8221; premiere. (Arturo Holmes\/Getty Images)<\/p>\n<p>He also said he&#8217;d requested the producers avoid casting women with &#8220;artificial hips and the wigs.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Owen later explained his controversial comments to Fox News Digital.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/apps-products\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">CLICK HERE TO GET THE FOX NEWS APP<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I apologized when I met the women on the first night,&#8221; he said, admitting it was a misstep.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I had been married for 25 years and all my experiences at that time were just with my wife and the friends that we had. So I hadn\u2019t experienced anybody outside of my wife. But, again, it was unfair, and I apologized and went forward and asked them to let me earn it back and, hopefully, I did on the season.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Stephanie Giang-Paunon is an Entertainment Writer for Fox News Digital. Story tips can be sent to stephanie.giang@fox.com and on Twitter: @SGiangPaunon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"NEWYou can now listen to Fox News articles! &#8220;The Golden Bachelor&#8221; star Mel Owens put more than roses&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":181768,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[54],"tags":[88,12856,29227,92],"class_list":{"0":"post-181767","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-tv","8":"tag-entertainment","9":"tag-reality","10":"tag-the-bachelor","11":"tag-tv"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=181767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/181767\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/181768"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=181767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=181767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=181767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}