{"id":29539,"date":"2025-07-22T20:41:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-22T20:41:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/29539\/"},"modified":"2025-07-22T20:41:08","modified_gmt":"2025-07-22T20:41:08","slug":"book-review-a-marriage-at-sea-a-true-story-of-love-obsession-and-shipwreck","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/29539\/","title":{"rendered":"Book review: &#8216;A Marriage at Sea: A True Story of Love, Obsession, and Shipwreck&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sophie Elmhirst&#8217;s fascinating first book is &#8220;so much more than a shipwreck tale,&#8221; said Laurie Hertzel in The Boston Globe. In 1973, Maurice and Maralyn Bailey were sailing toward the Gal\u00e1pagos Islands when a sperm whale rammed their yacht and left them stranded at sea for the next 118 days on a tiny inflatable raft and 9-foot dinghy. Elmhirst has turned the British couple&#8217;s tale of survival into a portrait of a marriage. &#8220;What else is a marriage,&#8221; she writes, &#8220;if not being stuck on a small raft with someone and trying to survive?&#8221; In this case, Maralyn was strong-minded, Maurice ready to quit and die. In the end, though, their union, &#8220;for all its oddities,&#8221; emerges as a true partnership.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As harrowing and gripping as the Baileys&#8217; story is, the real star of this <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/culture-life\/books\/1861-lost-peace-jay-winik-murderland-caroline-fraser\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/culture-life\/books\/1861-lost-peace-jay-winik-murderland-caroline-fraser\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">book<\/a> is its dazzling writer,&#8221; said Chris Hewitt in The Minnesota Star Tribune. Elmhirst, a journalist, &#8220;succeeds at everything she attempts,&#8221; whether waxing poetic about the open Pacific and its teeming life forms or psycho-analyzing her two lead characters. The &#8220;real meat of the book&#8221; is Elmhirst&#8217;s effort to understand how the Baileys&#8217; relationship was strengthened rather than wrecked by their joint ordeal. Maurice was so misanthropic that he&#8217;d insisted on sailing the <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/science\/earths-oceans-color-green-change\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/science\/earths-oceans-color-green-change\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">ocean<\/a> without a radio, while Maralyn&#8217;s adventurousness was built on an optimism that never failed her. It was Maralyn who devised most of the couple&#8217;s lifesaving hacks, such as storing rainwater for drinking and catching and eating turtles. She also helped keep herself and her husband sane by fashioning a deck of playing cards from spare paper and reading aloud from a Shakespeare book they&#8217;d salvaged. &#8220;Like Who&#8217;s Afraid of Virginia Woolf, except without all the yelling and drinking, A Marriage at Sea is a clear-eyed, insightful anatomy of a marriage.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"paywall\" aria-hidden=\"true\">&#8220;It&#8217;s billed as a <a data-analytics-id=\"inline-link\" href=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/culture-life\/books\/yangsze-choo-books-love-human-connection\" data-before-rewrite-localise=\"https:\/\/theweek.com\/culture-life\/books\/yangsze-choo-books-love-human-connection\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">love<\/a> story; I don&#8217;t know if it is,&#8221; said Dan Piepenbring in Harper&#8217;s. &#8220;Whatever held the Baileys together was stranger and plainer than love, harder to come by, and even harder to explain.&#8221; Elmhirst tells us that they went back to sea for 14 months on a second yacht and notes how crazy that was, but I ached to know more about what their marriage was like in subsequent years and why, like so many couples, they felt bound to experience those years together. Still, A Marriage at Sea is &#8220;an enthralling account of how the commonest hazards of married life\u2014claustrophobia, codependence, boundarylessness\u2014become totalized amid disaster,&#8221; said Jessica Winter in The New Yorker. The book &#8220;honors the courage and resourcefulness of the Baileys in visceral detail,&#8221; while showing deep compassion both for the story&#8217;s heroine and her difficult mate.<\/p>\n<p>Subscribe to The Week<\/p>\n<p>Escape your echo chamber. 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