Frye caught up with PEOPLE at CORE’s 15th Anniversary Livestream Benefit Concert in Los Angeles on Tuesday, Dec. 9. During the conversation, the actress \u2014 who is mom to daughters Poet Sienna Rose, 20, and Jagger Joseph Blue, 17, as well as sons Lyric Sonny Roads, 11, and Story Indigo Moon, 9 \u2014 shared that she’s still getting used to the idea that neither of her girls will be living at home soon.<\/p>\n
\u201cTonight, my 11-year-old had two of his friends over, and they were doing a science experiment. I was like, \u2018Oh my gosh, is this what boy mom vibes is going to be like? Hip-hop playing and baggy pants?’ And I was like, \u2018Oh my goodness. What is happening?\u2019 \u2026 I’m like, \u2018Girls, just remember to come home,\u2019 \u201d Frye, 49, said.<\/p>\n
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Soleil Moon Frye with her four kids at King Gillette Ranch in Calabasas, Calif., in 2021<\/p>\n
The Punky Brewster<\/a> alum also said that she sometimes finds it hard to believe that she already has a kid out of high school.<\/p>\n Never miss a story \u2014 sign up for PEOPLE’s free daily newsletter<\/a> to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer\u200b\u200b, from celebrity news to compelling human interest stories.<\/p>\n \u201cMy oldest daughter is at college now, which is totally insane because I feel like I’m still college-age,\u201d she said, adding, \u201cLiterally, I’ll go on and look at [her], I’m like, \u2018Oh, I’m ready to go back to college!\u2019 \u201d<\/p>\n She added that the journey of watching her kids grow up has been \u201cbeautiful.\u201d<\/p>\n \u201cIt’s wild. It’s beautiful,\u201d she said. \u201cAnd to see what incredible beings they have been \u2014 from the time they came into this world, and as they enter the next stages of life in the world \u2014 it just brings so much joy to my heart, and so much love and admiration \u2026 to see them sow their own exquisite beings is amazing.\u201d<\/p>\n The Kid90<\/a> director also shared what she most hopes to impart on her daughters as they begin to leave the nest and enter the next stage of life.<\/p>\n Gonzalo Marroquin\/Getty<\/p>\n Soleil Moon Frye with daughter Jagger Joseph Blue at the CORE Livestream Benefit in L.A. on Dec. 9, 2025<\/p>\n \u201cI would say \u2026 to just know \u2026 there’s that connection that is there [with me], that is always home no matter where you are. And just to always go back to that place, and close your eyes, and feel it, and know it, and feel my mama bear\u00a0arms around them. And that they have their own journeys,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n \u201cAnd I want them to explore, and live in joy and purpose and fun. Lots of fun. Have fun. Enjoy. Drink up the world,” she added.<\/p>\n The PEOPLE Puzzler crossword is here! How quickly can you solve it? Play now!<\/a><\/p>\n The former child star shares her four kids with ex-husband Jason Goldberg<\/a>, whom she split from in 2020<\/a> after 22 years of marriage.<\/p>\n![\"Gonzalo](\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/1f30c09d594e442db43aedd72072a1c6.jpeg\"\/)
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