{"id":363864,"date":"2025-12-22T15:41:09","date_gmt":"2025-12-22T15:41:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/363864\/"},"modified":"2025-12-22T15:41:09","modified_gmt":"2025-12-22T15:41:09","slug":"charlotte-man-says-ex-wants-him-to-cash-out-his-401k-for-a-home-but-ramsey-show-says-shes-full-of-crap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/363864\/","title":{"rendered":"Charlotte man says ex wants him to cash out his 401(k) for a home, but Ramsey Show says she\u2019s \u2018full of crap\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Should you cash out your 401(k) to buy a home?<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Raiding your retirement savings may seem like a no-no, but Ryan from North Carolina recently called The Ramsey Show to say he\u2019s thinking about doing exactly that (1). His reason: His ex-wife used the share of his 401(k) she got in the divorce to buy a home, then sold it for a solid profit and used that money to buy a second property. Now she\u2019s urging him to do the same, saying real estate will outperform the stock market.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Ramsey and co-host George Kamel responded with a firm no. Their reasoning went beyond the risks of the housing market. Cashing out a 401(k) comes with heavy penalties, taxes and a major loss of compound growth.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Here\u2019s the breakdown on why sacrificing your future for a house today is usually poor planning and whether there are any situations where tapping your retirement savings makes sense.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">\u201cWhy would anyone ask their ex-wife for financial advice?\u201d Ramsey joked, adding he was \u201cso confused\u201d by Ryan\u2019s reasoning.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Ryan\u2019s situation was also more precarious than it sounded. While it might seem like he had a large balance to consider cashing out, he told the hosts he has only $85,000 in his 401(k) despite earning $130,000 a year at age 50. That puts him well behind the typical savings target for his age, which is about six times his income, and below the average 401(k) balance for his age group, which is $313,220, according to Edward Jones (2, 3).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Ramsey didn\u2019t mince words about the risks of pulling money from a retirement account to buy a home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">\u201cWhen she cashed out half of that 401(k), she got charged a 10% penalty plus her tax rate. She borrowed that money at 35% interest,\u201d Ramsey said. \u201cBy the time she flipped that house and made money, she didn\u2019t even make money.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">When Ryan pushed back, saying he saw what she made from the sale, Ramsey cut him off.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">\u201cYou didn\u2019t see all the penalties and taxes she paid on the stupid withdrawal from the 401(k) that negated any profit she made on the flip,\u201d Ramsey said. \u201dShe\u2019s so full of crap, she\u2019s a Christmas turkey.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">\u201cIf you cash out your money, they\u2019re going to charge you a 10% penalty plus a 25% tax rate,\u201d he added. \u201cThat\u2019s like saying, \u2018Dave, I want to borrow at 35% interest to buy a house.\u2019 Please don\u2019t do that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p> Story Continues  <\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Read More: Vanguard reveals what could be coming for U.S. stocks, and it\u2019s raising alarm bells for retirees. <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/retirement\/retirement\/vanguard-raise-alarm-stocks-retirees?throw=HALF_yahoofinance&amp;placement_syn=placement_2&amp;utm_source=syn_oath_mon&amp;utm_medium=BL&amp;utm_campaign=143595&amp;utm_content=syn_b598466a-a8ba-4ac9-bca7-78a7bde3d63a\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Here\u2019s why and how to protect yourself;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Here\u2019s why and how to protect yourself<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Withdraw money from your 401(k) before the age of 59 1\/2 and you\u2019ll pay your normal income tax rate plus a 10% early withdrawal penalty (4). That often means losing 30% to 40% of what you take out. That\u2019s why Ramsey compared to taking out a 35% mortgage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Because of these penalties, financial experts say early withdrawals should be a last resort. They\u2019re usually recommended only when someone has no other assets to tap and cannot qualify for a lower-interest personal loan or line of credit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">There are a few situations where you can withdraw from a 401(k) without paying the penalty, including certain hardship withdrawals for medical bills or emergency home repairs, but the rules are strict and you still owe income tax. Some 401(k) plans don\u2019t allow early withdrawals at all.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">There\u2019s also the \u201cRule of 55,\u201d which applies to workers who leave their jobs in the year they turn 55 or later. It lets them withdraw from the 401(k) tied to their most recent employer without the 10% penalty, though the money is still taxed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">The long-term cost of withdrawing early is also significant. Ryan\u2019s $85,000 might seem small now, but if he keeps contributing 5% of his salary while his employer matches 5% and the account grows at 8% annually, he could have about $655,847 by age 65 (5). A real estate investment is unlikely to deliver that kind of return in the same period, especially if he\u2019s taking a mortgage to do it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Even if Ryan can\u2019t afford to buy a home right now, there are ways to prepare without draining his nest egg. Financial expert Benjamin Felix of PWL Capital recommends the 5% Rule (6).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Take the price of the home, multiply it by 5%, then divide by 12. That number represents the monthly cost of homeownership, including maintenance and property taxes. If you have a 20% down payment and can afford that monthly amount, you may be ready to buy. If not, it may be smarter to wait.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">While buying a property once felt like a guaranteed path to wealth, especially for <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/retirement\/millions-of-us-boomers-are-refusing-to-give-their-84-trillion-in-real-estate-wealth-away-to-their-adult-kids?utm_source=syn_oath_mon&amp;utm_medium=WL&amp;utm_campaign=143595&amp;utm_content=syn_f55dc83e-2759-4b35-8427-e5be8b59f178\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:baby boomers;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">baby boomers<\/a>, high home prices today mean buyers need to take a more measured approach. Wilkinson Wealth Management recommends a life-centered financial plan that balances a budget with room for hobbies, vacations and social activities while still working toward long-term goals like retirement savings (7).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">Get-rich-quick advice from friends or family can sound tempting, but real wealth building is a slow and steady process. Stick with it, and you\u2019ll be able to live well in your golden years.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">\u201cBe careful who you\u2019re listening to for money advice. What you want to do is look at people who are understated,\u201d Ramsey said. \u201cThey\u2019re driving a Toyota, they don\u2019t have any flash or bling, and their lives are solid, steady, predictable, sustainable, and happy, with high-quality relationships.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">We rely only on vetted sources and credible third-party reporting. For details, see our editorial ethics and guidelines.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">The Ramsey Show (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=popRH4p8fJ8\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">1<\/a>); CNBC (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/select\/savings-by-age-50\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:2;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">2<\/a>); Edward Jones (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.edwardjones.com\/us-en\/market-news-insights\/investor-education\/investment-age\/average-retirement-savings-age\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:3;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">3<\/a>); Principal (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.principal.com\/individuals\/build-your-knowledge\/whats-59-half-rule-early-retirement-savings-withdrawals\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:4;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">4<\/a>); Smart Asset (<a href=\"https:\/\/smartasset.com\/retirement\/average-401k-return\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:5;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">5<\/a>; PWL Capital (<a href=\"https:\/\/pwlcapital.com\/rent-or-own-your-home-5-rule\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:6;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">6<\/a>); Wilkinson Wealth Management (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wilkinsonwm.com\/blog\/balancing-current-financial-needs-with-retirement-dreams\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:7;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">7<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-7hmkaz\">This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. 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