{"id":369575,"date":"2025-12-25T16:00:08","date_gmt":"2025-12-25T16:00:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/369575\/"},"modified":"2025-12-25T16:00:08","modified_gmt":"2025-12-25T16:00:08","slug":"her-partner-was-detained-now-she-and-their-baby-face-christmas-without-him-my-family-is-broken-us-immigration","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/369575\/","title":{"rendered":"Her partner was detained. Now she and their baby face Christmas without him: \u2018My family is broken\u2019 | US immigration"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Inside St Peter\u2019s Catholic church in San Francisco\u2019s Mission District, families took refuge from a chilly December night to celebrate a mass in honor of immigrant rights.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">A choir sang hymns. A majestic Christmas tree stood sentinel at the entrance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cAll of us, in one way or another, are pilgrims on this earth,\u201d Father Mois\u00e9s Agudo preached in Spanish from the pulpit.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">In a pew to the left of the altar, Roxana held the glowing screen of a cell phone in front of her 10-month-old daughter. Below a thick thatch of dark hair, the baby stared intensely at the image of her father in an orange jumpsuit, calling in from a Texas detention center.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cLook, it\u2019s your daddy,\u201d Roxana cooed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The nightly video calls are the only contact Roxana has had with her partner, Joel, since federal immigration agents picked him up outside their San Francisco apartment in June.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">They\u2019re one of many families across the US facing the holidays without loved ones who have been swept up in Donald Trump\u2019s immigration crackdown. While a threatened surge of Customs and Border Protection agents in the Bay Area this fall <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/us-news\/2025\/oct\/23\/san-francisco-federal-immigration-operation\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">never materialized<\/a>, immigrant residents here have been detained at court hearings, mandatory check-ins with Immigration and Customs Enforcement and targeted raids. More than 120 people have been arrested at ICE\u2019s San Francisco office or in the city\u2019s immigration court since late May, according to the local news outlet Mission Local, which is <a href=\"https:\/\/missionlocal.org\/2025\/06\/sf-ice-arrests-tracker\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">tracking the detentions<\/a>. Religious leaders chained themselves to the doors of the ICE office last week to protest the detentions.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">As the holiday season approached, a time that emphasizes family togetherness, activists brought meals to people with detained relatives and organized legal support. The Catholic church held immigrant rights masses, like the one in San Francisco, across the state on the Feast of St Juan Diego \u2013 the humble Indigenous farmer to whom, legend has it, the Virgin of Guadalupe chose to appear.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Families with missing loved ones say the community support has been a balm in a holiday season that feels anything but normal.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cMy family isn\u2019t the same this Christmas,\u201d said Roxana. \u201cYou could say that it\u2019s broken.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Roxana, with her daughter Briana, listens to a presentation about community organizing at the Faith in Action offices in San Francisco. Though her family has been torn apart by immigration enforcement, working with the group makes her feel empowered, she said. Photograph: Felicia Mello\/The Guardian<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Both from Honduras, she and Joel met in San Francisco. Roxana had recently arrived, fleeing gang violence in their home country, while Joel had first come to the United States as a teenager. (Like other immigrants and family members interviewed for this story, they asked the Guardian to use their first names only because of concerns about retaliation by the Department of Homeland Security.)<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cHis life was here,\u201d Roxana said.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">The two moved in together during the Covid pandemic. By 2023, they had found a bright two-bedroom apartment in a building near Lake Merced, and they both worked in maintenance, big enough for a growing family that included Roxana\u2019s two teenage children and Joel\u2019s adult daughter. This year, baby Briana arrived.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Joel and the baby quickly developed a close bond, Roxana said, and he put her to bed each night. He took a second job at a restaurant and saved money to take the family on trips to Lake Tahoe and Santa Cruz.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">But all that ended one morning in June, when immigration agents approached Joel as he was heading to his car to go to work. Roxana said she has not been told why Joel was detained, but suspects it is related to an arrest several years ago for driving under the influence, for which he completed court-mandated classes. The family cannot afford legal representation for Joel, she said, and they expect him to be deported. Roxana is pursuing asylum in the US, where she is legally allowed to work and her children attend school.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">For now, the separation feels indefinite.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cI had never imagined that something like that could happen to my dad,\u201d said Joel\u2019s daughter, Yeili, 20, who witnessed the arrest and still struggles to talk about it.<\/p>\n<p>A rally against ICE raids in San Francisco in October. People across the city have been organizing to protect immigrants. Photograph: Noah Berger\/AP<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">It took the family three days to discover that he\u2019d been sent to a detention center. The first night, Roxana says, her baby daughter refused to sleep until she gave her a shirt with Joel\u2019s smell on it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Six months later, Joel\u2019s absence hangs over the family\u2019s apartment. Roxana couldn\u2019t bring herself to put up a Christmas tree, so her 15-year-old son did. Her sister, who moved in with her five-year-old daughter after Joel was detained, helped decorate. The three adult women in the family pool their earnings from housecleaning jobs, plus donations from community members, to pay the apartment\u2019s $3,100 monthly rent.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Roxana has coped with the stunning shift in her family\u2019s circumstances by pouring herself into her work with Faith in Action, a faith-based community group that organizes for affordable housing and protections for immigrants.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">She first encountered the group at her son\u2019s school. Most of the members were Catholic and Roxana was evangelical, but she liked the way the group was organizing immigrant parents to advocate for themselves, instead of waiting for politicians to solve their problems.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">After Joel\u2019s detention, a Faith in Action organizer invited Roxana to a meeting with other families who had been affected by immigration enforcement.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cAt first, when we started telling our stories, everyone was crying,\u201d Roxana said. \u201cAnd then it was funny, because by the end we were all laughing, happy. Because we had released all our feelings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">That night, the group decided to raise money for a legal defense fund for immigrants with children in San Francisco schools.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cI\u2019m fighting so that other children don\u2019t have to be separated from their parents,\u201d she said. \u201cI don\u2019t want any other child to go through what my daughter is going through.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Roxana greets friends from the community group Faith in Action. Photograph: Felicia Mello\/The Guardian<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">On a recent Tuesday afternoon, Roxana gathered with other parents and community members for a Tuesday-afternoon meeting with Faith in Action. They discussed how to organize and influence local government, as well as national concerns such as whether Trump would succeed in repealing birthright citizenship for children like Roxana\u2019s daughter.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">At the meeting, Roxana got some good news. A week earlier, she and other group members had met with a potential donor to their immigration legal fund. After hearing stories from Roxana and others with detained relatives, the donor decided to give $15,000.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cWe spoke and it impacted him. We touched his heart,\u201d she said, beaming.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">Afterwards, she waited in the cold for an Uber ride to yet another meeting with immigrant community leaders. As her niece played with baby Briana, she took a call from Joel and told him about her day.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">She\u2019s still not sure what she\u2019ll do for Christmas. Maybe she\u2019ll make tamales, but she\u2019s not planning a celebration.<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-130mj7b\">\u201cOther years, Joel always invited his friends and family,\u201d she said. \u201cNow, you could say that our family is the community.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Inside St Peter\u2019s Catholic church in San Francisco\u2019s Mission District, families took refuge from a chilly December night&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":369576,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[23,3,21,19,22,20,25,24],"class_list":["post-369575","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-united-states","tag-america","tag-news","tag-united-states","tag-united-states-of-america","tag-unitedstates","tag-unitedstatesofamerica","tag-us","tag-usa"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/369575","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=369575"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/369575\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/369576"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=369575"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=369575"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=369575"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}