{"id":387715,"date":"2026-01-04T17:33:10","date_gmt":"2026-01-04T17:33:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/387715\/"},"modified":"2026-01-04T17:33:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-04T17:33:10","slug":"living-in-the-united-states-of-embarrassment","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/387715\/","title":{"rendered":"Living in The United States of Embarrassment"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Seeing my social media timeline, now filled with breaking news that is the stuff of horror films and chilling 1930s newsreels, I\u2019b been daydreaming about what it might be like to wake up in a place that doesn\u2019t feel the way this one does: oppressive and disappointing, bitter and divided. I\u2019ve pictured myself greeting the morning with expectancy, and moving through the day with the simple exhalation of belonging, of truly feeling at home in the place I call home.<\/p>\n

At first, it was difficult to admit this newly-burgeoning fantasy of flight from my place of birth, until I found out how many here are similarly prone to daydreaming right now, as well. Over the last year, tens of millions of Americans moved from national pride to abject humiliation, exchanging the promise and possibility of what we could be for the grim reality of what we are. After the last election, we spent a few horrible days or weeks in stunned sadness, and most of the rest of the time since, alternating between rage and shame.<\/p>\n

So many of us understand how horrifyingly ridiculous this all is. We see every illegal, immoral, violent thing this Administration is doing. We know how thoroughly batsh*t crazy our President is, and we\u2019re well aware that he has absolutely no business running a street corner hot dog cart, let alone the Land of the Free and home of the Brave.<\/p>\n

We still get outside news here (for now, at least). We read the reports from all over the world. We see what they\u2019re saying about us. We hear the jokes. We know that we\u2019re a global laughing-stock. Occasionally, we even find spots to laugh along with them just to retain our paper-thin tether to sanity, but for most of the time, we\u2019re red-faced and beside ourselves because we\u2019re living as a planetary punchline and it isn\u2019t funny. <\/p>\n

Every day seems to deepen the severity and magnitude of our never-ending national facepalm. That\u2019s because this authoritarian regime filled with felons, grifters, insurrectionists, and sociopaths has put many of us in a precarious position that we\u2019ve never been in our entire lives: we\u2019re now ashamed of our homeland.<\/p>\n

No, not of the ideas of Liberty, Equality, and Diversity that birthed this young and troubled nation, not the tremendous sacrifice that\u2019s been offered by past generations in order to protect and preserve our fragile democracy, not the noble Constitution that once formed the very bedrock of our collective, not the things we\u2019ve done together to this point to try and craft a country open and welcoming to the entire world.<\/p>\n

But we are embarrassed by this President and his kleptocratic Cabinet, and we\u2019re embarrassed to live in America as they represent it in the world. We\u2019re ashamed that they are speaking for us, serving as our ambassadors, being our surrogates, because we know it all reflects terribly on those of us who call this place home. It\u2019s exhausting to try to live, work, and study while holding your breath and hiding your face, alongside so many who seem proud of this ugliness that is defining us.<\/p>\n

As a result, so many things are now shame-triggers for us: the mention of his name, the very sight of him, the flag, the word America. Hearing those first few words of our National Anthem, \u201cOh say, can you see…\u201d is cause for mourning, because right now it\u2019s nearly impossible to see those things we should still proudly hail.<\/p>\n

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Perhaps the only true comfort we\u2019ve found in these days has been the solidarity of like-hearted humans who are equally humiliated; the affinity we have discovered together, like arm-locked, rebellious souls fiercely burdened to see one another through a terrible disaster. We are fellow captives trauma-bonding in a tenuous hostage situation that seems certain to end poorly. If misery loves company, then we are certainly finding such heavily grieving company now.<\/p>\n

So yes, we are united here in our great embarrassment; people of every pigmentation, religious affiliation, orientation, and nation of origin. We are all greatly ashamed of the America that the world is experiencing and the one we see ourselves becoming. And no, most of us are not leaving, even if those loud and angry few who are not mortified but proud of a wannabe despot and his genuflecting gaggle of enablers would prefer we did.<\/p>\n

We are staying to push back, to advocate for one another, to repair what is being damaged in whatever incremental ways we can. We are staying to be the dignified and rational response to the most undignified, irrational behavior by those in our leadership. We are staying because we know that our nation, as shameful as it is, is better than those who have commandeered it and made it into the blight on this world that it has become.<\/p>\n

We\u2019re shaking our collective heads here in the Land of the Freaked-out and the Home of the Facepalm, trying to make America good again despite our leaders\u2026 and we will.<\/p>\n

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