{"id":406857,"date":"2026-01-14T15:26:08","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T15:26:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/406857\/"},"modified":"2026-01-14T15:26:08","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T15:26:08","slug":"when-sex-goes-wrong-er-doctors-share-the-most-wtf-injuries-theyve-treated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/406857\/","title":{"rendered":"When Sex Goes Wrong: ER Doctors Share The Most WTF Injuries They\u2019ve Treated"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sex should be a fun and satisfying time \u2014 not something that puts you in the emergency room. And yet, it happens more often than you think. <\/p>\n<p>Emergency rooms see it all \u2014 including what happens when sex goes sideways. From objects that disappear to injuries that require surgery, doctors say the biggest problem isn\u2019t curiosity or experimentation. It\u2019s waiting too long to get help because you feel ashamed. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMost sex-related injuries are preventable, and none of them should be a source of shame,\u201d<a href=\"https:\/\/drtelx.com\/\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-external-link\" data-vars-item-name=\"Dr. Martina Ambardjieva\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"https:\/\/drtelx.com\/\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"url\" data-vars-type=\"web_external_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> Dr. Martina Ambardjieva<\/a>, a urologist and ER physician, told HuffPost. \u201cWhat does cause problems is waiting too long to seek care because of embarrassment. If something feels wrong, pain, bleeding, swelling, or an object that refuses to come out, just come in. Trust me, we\u2019ve seen it all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"img-sized__img landscape\" loading=\"lazy\" fetchpriority=\"auto\" alt=\"These kinds of injuries are quite common, according to doctors, but shame often keeps people from getting the help they need. \" width=\"720\" height=\"480\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/6966678a140000082a64c20e.jpeg\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Milan Markovic via Getty Images<\/p>\n<p>These kinds of injuries are quite common, according to doctors, but shame often keeps people from getting the help they need. <\/p>\n<p>Two emergency physicians shared some of the most common \u2014 and most alarming \u2014 sex-related injuries they\u2019ve treated, along with what people should know if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Penile Fractures Are As Dramatic As They Sound<\/p>\n<p>Ambardjieva said the <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC7088490\/\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-external-link\" data-vars-item-name=\"\u201cclassic penile fracture\u201d\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC7088490\/\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"url\" data-vars-type=\"web_external_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"1\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cclassic penile fracture\u201d<\/a> is one of the most urgent sex-related emergencies she sees.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s exactly as dramatic as it sounds \u2014 a loud \u2018crack,\u2019 immediate swelling, and a lot of panic,\u201d she explains. It most often happens when the penis slips out during thrusting and forcefully hits a partner\u2019s pelvis.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cA penile fracture occurs when the tunica albuginea, the tough fibrous sheath surrounding the erectile tissue, tears,\u201d she explains. \u201cWhen the penis is erect, that tissue becomes thin and stretched, making it vulnerable to sudden bending or impact \u2014 even though there\u2019s no bone inside.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If someone delays seeking care, the torn tissue can heal improperly. \u201cThat can lead to permanent curvature, painful erections, or long-term erectile dysfunction,\u201d Ambardjieva said. \u201cThis is the one sexual injury where time really matters.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Objects That Get \u2018Lost\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Ambardjieva said foreign objects getting \u201clost\u201d in the body are a routine part of ER and gynecology work.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve removed all kinds of items that weren\u2019t designed to go inside the body \u2014 cucumbers, carrots, sprays \u2014 and I\u2019ve also seen objects in the male urethra, like a pencil,\u201d she said. \u201cPeople are usually terrified and embarrassed, but it\u2019s more common than they think.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The problem often comes down to<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/best-anal-sex-toys_l_64640ccfe4b056fd46d62ce8\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-internal-link\" data-vars-item-name=\" using objects without a flared base\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"64640ccfe4b056fd46d62ce8\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"buzz\" data-vars-type=\"web_internal_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"2\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> using objects without a flared base<\/a>, smooth shape, or any kind of safety stop. That\u2019s why you might run into this phrase: \u201cIf it has no flare, it shouldn\u2019t go up there.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Where something is inserted also matters. The vaginal canal is a closed space, so objects can get stuck but won\u2019t travel deeper into the body. \u201cThe rectum, however, has no anatomical stop and creates suction, meaning objects can be pulled further inside,\u201d Ambardjieva explains. \u201cThe urethra is narrow and delicate, making insertions particularly dangerous.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re embarrassed to come into the hospital because you\u2019ve inserted something that\u2019s become stuck, Ambardjieva hopes you\u2019ll reconsider and not let the stigma keep you from getting care.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s important to normalize this. We remove lost objects every week in the emergency and urology practice,\u201d Ambardjieva said. \u201cIt\u2019s a common medical issue \u2014 not something to be ashamed of.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Vaginal Tears And Bleeding After Sex<\/p>\n<p>Small vaginal tears are another frequent reason for ER visits, especially among <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/sex-over-50-women_l_690f9c2ce4b03cb129003a74\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-internal-link\" data-vars-item-name=\"postmenopausal women\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"690f9c2ce4b03cb129003a74\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"buzz\" data-vars-type=\"web_internal_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"3\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">postmenopausal women<\/a> or anyone dealing with vaginal dryness.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cEven a small tear can bleed more than people expect, which really scares them,\u201d Ambardjieva said.<\/p>\n<p>Friction, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/the-best-lubes-for-women-vaginal-dryness_l_5e3aea99c5b6b5fb438b4dd3\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-internal-link\" data-vars-item-name=\"insufficient lubrication\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"5e3aea99c5b6b5fb438b4dd3\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"buzz\" data-vars-type=\"web_internal_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"4\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">insufficient lubrication<\/a>, or a tense pelvic floor can all cause micro-tears. She notes that water-based lubricants can dry out quickly, increasing friction, while silicone-based lubes stay slippery longer and can reduce tearing.<\/p>\n<p>Bleeding, Ambardjieva said, becomes more concerning if it doesn\u2019t slow, comes with large clots, severe pain, lightheadedness or difficulty urinating. In other words, head to the emergency room as soon as possible. <\/p>\n<p>Testicular Torsion During Sex<\/p>\n<p>While less common, Ambardjieva has seen testicular torsion triggered during intercourse.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s sudden, sharp testicular pain \u2014 and it\u2019s an emergency until proven otherwise,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Torsion happens when the spermatic cord twists, cutting off blood flow. Without treatment within about four to six hours, the testicle can be permanently damaged or lost. Some men are more vulnerable because of anatomical variations that allow the testicle to rotate more freely inside the scrotum.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cCirculation is blocked due to the twisting of the spermatic cord,\u201d Ambardjieva explains. \u201cWithout rapid treatment, usually within four to six hours, there is a real risk of permanently losing the testicle, because of lost lasting ischemia (insufficient blood flow).\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Condom Mishaps<\/p>\n<p>Broken condoms or<a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffpost.com\/entry\/condom-stuck-what-to-do_l_5cb72174e4b098b9a2dd5d5c\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-internal-link\" data-vars-item-name=\" condoms that get stuck inside\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"5cb72174e4b098b9a2dd5d5c\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"buzz\" data-vars-type=\"web_internal_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"5\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> condoms that get stuck inside<\/a> are another source of anxious ER visits.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThese are usually very easy for us to remove safely,\u201d Ambardjieva said, adding that problems tend to come from incorrect sizing, not enough lubrication, expired condoms, heat exposure, or using oil-based products that weaken latex.<\/p>\n<p>Bruising from Oral Sex<\/p>\n<p>Not all sex injuries come from penetration.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ve seen bruising and swelling just from overly enthusiastic suction,\u201d Ambardjieva said. \u201cIt\u2019s usually harmless, but if the swelling is severe or the penis starts bending, get checked.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Broken capillaries can leave marks that look alarming but usually fade within days. However, spreading bruising, significant pain, fever, difficulty urinating, or a bent penis should be checked out, which may indicate infection or deeper tissue injury.<\/p>\n<p>When Things Go Seriously Wrong<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sites.google.com\/view\/emsec\/people?authuser=0\" role=\"link\" class=\" js-entry-link cet-external-link\" data-vars-item-name=\"Dr. Jared L. Ross,\" data-vars-item-type=\"text\" data-vars-unit-name=\"69655155e4b0f3f37e7791bd\" data-vars-unit-type=\"buzz_body\" data-vars-target-content-id=\"https:\/\/sites.google.com\/view\/emsec\/people?authuser=0\" data-vars-target-content-type=\"url\" data-vars-type=\"web_external_link\" data-vars-subunit-name=\"article_body\" data-vars-subunit-type=\"component\" data-vars-position-in-subunit=\"6\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Jared L. Ross,<\/a> an assistant professor at the University of Missouri, has seen some extreme cases.<\/p>\n<p>Several years ago in St. Louis, he said he treated a patient who inserted his pet gerbil into his rectum with lubrication: \u201cHe ended up in the ER with rectal bleeding. We were able to get the gerbil out, but unfortunately, the gerbil wasn\u2019t so lucky; he had already suffocated.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In December 2024, Ross said he treated two patients on the same Christmas shift whose wives were out of town. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cOne had inserted a full-sized LED lightbulb into his rectum. It required anesthesia and surgical removal,\u201d he said. \u201cShortly after, another patient arrived with his wife\u2019s vibrator lodged inside. Both myself and the other ER doc on shift tried again, but no luck, we had to call the surgeon back. I remember he remarked it was a pretty fancy one, rechargeable batteries. I can\u2019t imagine how those conversations went when their wives got back in town.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So it\u2019s unsurprising that Ross encourages people to come to the ER if they run into an issue like this (or a less extreme one), but also to be more proactive about safety when it comes to the rear end. \u201cIf you\u2019re into inserting things into your rectum, use devices designed for that so they don\u2019t get lost,\u201d he said. <\/p>\n<p>The Bottom Line<\/p>\n<p>Both doctors stress that shame is what causes the real harm, wacky hijinks aside.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSexual injuries and accidents are far more common than people realize,\u201d Ambardjieva said. \u201cEmergency clinicians truly aren\u2019t judging. We\u2019ve seen it all.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Pain, bleeding, swelling, or an object that won\u2019t come out are all signs to seek care \u2014 sooner rather than later.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBodies are vulnerable, sex is physical, and sometimes things go wrong,\u201d she adds. \u201cGetting help early is always the right, responsible thing to do.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Sex should be a fun and satisfying time \u2014 not something that puts you in the emergency room.&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":406858,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34],"tags":[8715,97],"class_list":{"0":"post-406857","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-health","8":"tag-emergency-room","9":"tag-health"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406857","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=406857"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/406857\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/406858"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=406857"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=406857"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=406857"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}