{"id":417905,"date":"2026-01-20T03:10:19","date_gmt":"2026-01-20T03:10:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/417905\/"},"modified":"2026-01-20T03:10:19","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T03:10:19","slug":"my-mom-is-on-social-security-and-needs-assisted-living-but-cant-afford-any-non-medicaid-options-what-else-can-we-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/417905\/","title":{"rendered":"My mom is on Social Security and needs assisted living, but can\u2019t afford any non-Medicaid options. What else can we do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>    <img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" alt=\"An older woman with her hair in a bun looks to the left, lost in thought.\" loading=\"eager\" height=\"427\" width=\"960\" class=\"yf-lglytj loader\"\/> AnnaStills \/ Getty Images      <\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Moneywise and Yahoo Finance LLC may earn commission or revenue through links in the content below.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Older adults in the U.S. are sounding the alarm on their concerns about the healthcare system. The John A. Hartford Foundation reports that 56% of older adults say it is difficult and stressful to navigate the health care system, and 62% believe health insurance plans come with too many confusing choices (1). Moreover, misinformation about health care coverage abounds.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Consider this scenario: You\u2019ve witnessed a severe decline in your mother\u2019s cognitive health and ability to care for her own needs, but neither you nor your family are able to care for her around the clock. That leaves one option: a nursing home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Your first inclination might be that Medicare will help cover the costs, and you wouldn\u2019t be alone. The Kaiser Family Foundation found that 55% of U.S. adults believe Medicare will cover a long-term stay in a nursing home, which is not the case (2).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Despite this lack of coverage, most older adults will require this kind of care. A 2019 study from the government Office of the Assistant Secretary for Planning and Evaluation found that 70% of adults who live to age 65 will need some Long-Term Services and Supports (LTSS) before they die (3). Older adults with fewer financial resources are more likely to need this kind of care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">You decide it\u2019s time to move mom into an assisted living facility, but she has no retirement savings that you know of, and currently gets by on a small Social Security check.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">How can you best keep your mom comfortable for the final years of her life?<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">While her finances may ultimately dictate what kind of facility she moves into, it\u2019s worth making an effort to respect her wishes by seeing whether she can afford a nicer place.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Consider a thorough search for long-forgotten assets. Even if you\u2019re mostly certain that your mom doesn\u2019t have substantial savings, it\u2019s worth trying to find out if she has any inactive financial accounts. According to a 2023 report by financial firm Capitalize, nearly 30 million 401(k) accounts worth $1.65 trillion were left behind by American workers who may have forgotten about them during job moves (4).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Read More: Approaching retirement with no savings? Don\u2019t panic, you&#8217;re not alone. Here are <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/retirement\/hybrid-nothing-saved-for-retirement-catch-up?throw=HALF_yahoofinance&amp;placement_syn=placement_2&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=BL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_f34e2f6e-3862-4ba9-b949-f2e6641f5471\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:6 easy ways you can catch up (and fast);elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">6 easy ways you can catch up (and fast)<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">You can search for these types of accounts using the U.S. Department of Labor\u2019s Lost and Found Database (5). If she suffers from cognitive impairment, accessing these funds could be tricky and require you to obtain legal authority, such as through guardianship.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">If a lavish facility is off the table after searching for lost funds, the focus should become your mother\u2019s safety and ensuring her daily needs are met.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Medicaid generally does not cover room and board costs at an assisted living facility. However, many assisted and independent living facilities accept Medicaid Home and Community-Based Service Waivers that can cover some costs (6). Nonprofit or church-affiliated facilities may offer support as well.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">You might also decide to bite the bullet and chip in to pay for a private facility. The median cost of an assisted living facility is nearly $6,100 a month, according to SeniorLiving.org. Prices can vary based on location, level of care, and length of stay (7).<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">This is where <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/236\/1872?placement=1&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_db19ffb1-3a33-4366-b2f0-45b68b5d056c\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:long-term care insurance;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">long-term care insurance<\/a> could really come in handy. This type of insurance often offers coverage for the costs of in-home assistance, nursing homes or assisted living facilities.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/236\/1872?placement=2&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_8d89db0a-ab16-46de-b5e8-f2e054740827\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:GoldenCare;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">GoldenCare<\/a> offers different long-term care insurance based on your loved one\u2019s needs, including hybrid life, annuity with long-term care benefits, short-term care, extended care, home health care, assisted living and traditional long-term care insurance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Moving parents out of their home and into a facility will always be challenging, but these are conversations families can have ahead of time to make the transition a bit easier.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">If your parents are late in their careers or at retirement age, and they have some retirement assets, it\u2019s worth asking if they\u2019ve considered future care costs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">You may find one day you need access to your parents\u2019 retirement accounts. Discuss getting power of attorney (POA) while your parent is still capable of granting it. They can\u2019t sign a POA if they are incapacitated or a judge rules them mentally unfit, which could force you to pursue guardianship or conservatorship through the courts to gain authority over their financial affairs, including retirement accounts.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">As for you, the caregiver, you can do your best to be equipped for your own retirement and health care costs down the line. One option is to start investing as soon as possible to build long-term wealth and cushion your financial future.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">With platforms like Acorns, every purchase on your debit or credit card is automatically rounded up to the nearest dollar, with the excess placed into a <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/8\/1281?placement=3&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_821f0412-56cf-492b-9c54-c15866e5e71e\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:smart investment portfolio;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">smart investment portfolio<\/a>. This way, even the most essential spending translates to money saved for the future by investing in low-cost ETFs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">The best part? You can get a <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/8\/648?placement=4&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_b4545f78-2e85-4a2a-b17c-d173dbec8787\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:$20 bonus investment;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">$20 bonus investment<\/a> when signing up with a recurring monthly contribution.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">A gold IRA is one option for building up your retirement fund with an inflation-hedging asset.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">Opening a gold IRA with the help of <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/236\/1233?placement=5&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_1758eb58-9783-46a9-81ff-754170dcad9b\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:Goldco;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">Goldco<\/a> allows you to invest in gold and other precious metals in physical forms while also providing the significant tax advantages of an IRA.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">With a minimum purchase of $10,000, Goldco offers free shipping and access to a library of retirement resources. Plus, the company will <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/236\/1233?placement=6&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_061cc039-62f6-4ff7-a5fa-7809b5985786\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:match up to 10% of qualified purchases in free silver;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">match up to 10% of qualified purchases in free silver<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">If you\u2019re curious whether this is the right investment to diversify your portfolio, you can <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/236\/1233?placement=7&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_d76b7d30-0119-43be-baa9-c10de938f623\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:download your free gold and silver information guide today;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">download your free gold and silver information guide today<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">As for real estate, commercial real estate can offer higher potential returns than residential real estate thanks to its longer lease terms, higher rental rates, and potential for greater appreciation. But direct access to the $22.5 trillion commercial real estate sector has been limited to a select group of elite investors \u2014 until now.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/227\/1177?placement=8&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_39a698ac-9e09-4ac0-8441-45b213b29336\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:First National Realty Partners (FNRP);elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">First National Realty Partners (FNRP)<\/a> allows accredited investors to diversify their portfolio through grocery-anchored commercial properties, without taking on the responsibilities of being a landlord.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">With a minimum investment of $50,000, investors can <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/c\/1\/227\/1177?placement=9&amp;utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=DL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_a42460cb-feb5-47aa-8365-040d827ca42f\" rel=\"sponsored nofollow noopener\" data-i13n=\"elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:own a share of properties leased by national brands;elm:affiliate_link;elmt:premonetized;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">own a share of properties leased by national brands<\/a> like Whole Foods, Kroger and Walmart, which provide essential goods to their communities. Meaning, you\u2019re investing in companies that are more inflation-resistant than many other industries.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">We rely only on vetted sources and credible third-party reporting. For details, see our <a href=\"https:\/\/moneywise.com\/editorial-ethics-and-guidelines?utm_source=syn_yahoofinance_mon_aff&amp;utm_medium=WL&amp;utm_campaign=155306&amp;utm_content=syn_624e6c21-7c12-42b0-8898-204828ff52c9\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:editorial ethics and guidelines;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">editorial ethics and guidelines<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">John A. Hartford Foundation (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.johnahartford.org\/newsroom\/view\/warning-from-older-adults-care-for-aging-in-america-needs-urgent-rethinking\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:1;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">1<\/a>); Kaiser Family Foundation (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kff.org\/health-costs\/the-affordability-of-long-term-care-and-support-services\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:2;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">2<\/a>); Office of the Assistant Secretary for Planning and Evaluation (<a href=\"https:\/\/aspe.hhs.gov\/reports\/what-lifetime-risk-needing-receiving-long-term-services-supports-0\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:3;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">3<\/a>); Capitalize (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.hicapitalize.com\/resources\/the-true-cost-of-forgotten-401ks\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:4;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">4<\/a>); Department of Labor (<a href=\"https:\/\/lostandfound.dol.gov\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:5;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">5<\/a>); Medicaid (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.medicaid.gov\/medicaid\/home-community-based-services\/home-community-based-services-authorities\/home-community-based-services-1915c\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:6;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">6<\/a>); SeniorLiving.org (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.seniorliving.org\/assisted-living\/costs\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\" data-ylk=\"slk:7;elm:context_link;itc:0;sec:content-canvas\" class=\"link \">7<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p class=\"yf-vbsvxt\">This article provides information only and should not be construed as advice. 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