{"id":45966,"date":"2025-07-29T21:22:04","date_gmt":"2025-07-29T21:22:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/45966\/"},"modified":"2025-07-29T21:22:04","modified_gmt":"2025-07-29T21:22:04","slug":"lost-your-job-advice-on-how-to-deal-with-those-difficult-initial-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/45966\/","title":{"rendered":"Lost your job? Advice on how to deal with those difficult initial days"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Losing your job can be one of life\u2019s toughest setbacks, so navigating it with clarity requires taking time to process your emotions, understand your legal rights, and seek professional advice \u2013 key steps to getting your career and finances back on tr<\/p>\n<p>Losing your job can be one of life\u2019s toughest setbacks, so navigating it with clarity requires taking time to process your emotions, understand your legal rights, and seek professional advice \u2013 key steps to getting your career and finances back on track, experts say.<\/p>\n<p>Like mourning a death, getting laid off from your job can drag you through the classic stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. The loss of your job not only means loss of income, but also loss of workplace friendships, your identity and purpose. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cPeople don\u2019t always equate grieving with job loss,\u201d said Farah Kotadia, founder of Wellness Works Counselling in Vancouver. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cBy sitting with our grief, we&#8217;re actually reflecting as well, and we&#8217;re thinking about our next steps&#8230; so take the time to grieve.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you miss certain co-workers, Kotadia suggests reaching out to them. \u201cIn a job, there&#8217;s always pieces that we like and pieces that we don&#8217;t like, so what resonated with you? Where does passion come in?\u201d she said.<\/p>\n<p>Grief in the context of job loss could take a couple of weeks, a few months or even a year to process, said Kotadia. One day, you may feel hopeful sending out five job applications with cover letters and the next day, you may feel like not getting out of bed. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat&#8217;s OK. That&#8217;s normal. That will happen,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p>While emotions can run high immediately following a layoff, employment lawyers advise not to act on them. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t want people to take this opportunity to tell their bosses everything they hate about them or bad-mouth the company to others,\u201d said Lior Samfiru, national co-managing partner at Samfiru Tumarkin LLP. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll of those things could bring legal action against the individual, but equally as important, may make it that much more difficult in resolving a severance issue.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Samfiru said individuals and employers alike misunderstand provincial employment standards, which often require workers to be paid one week of salary per year of employment. <\/p>\n<p>The standards are just a minimum.<\/p>\n<p>After considering your age, tenure with the company, industry, any medical conditions and the current unemployment rate, severance could be ten to 20 times higher than what\u2019s outlined in employment standards, Samfiru said. That\u2019s why any documentation providing a wholistic view of your income is key to estimating your severance entitlement. This includes your employment agreement, bonus plans or commissions payouts.<\/p>\n<p>Samfiru, whose firm\u2019s website has an online severance pay calculator, advises getting legal advice when faced with job loss as 90 per cent of severance packages initially offered by companies are \u201cinadequate.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>He said he&#8217;s worked with clients offered one-month of severance when they were entitled to six. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cThose are the gaps we see. They\u2019re significant,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Severance offers also come with a deadline for acceptance, but Samfiru calls this a common \u201cpressure tactic\u201d used by employers. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cYour legal rights don&#8217;t expire on Friday at five,\u201d he said. \u201cIn fact, you have two years.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>It doesn\u2019t hurt to seek professional financial advice, too. Andrea Andersen, a Calgary-based certified financial planner at Edward Jones, encourages this, especially among younger workers. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cMillennials tend to want to be more independent. They want to be self-directed investors,\u201d she said. \u201cBut it\u2019s these times where it\u2019s important that you start building a relationship with (an adviser) who can help direct you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you have monthly car payments or credit card debt for example, Andersen said an adviser can help you present a game plan for the bank on how you can meet these debt obligations. <\/p>\n<p>Advisers may recommend halting your RRSP contributions temporarily to improve your cash flow or structuring your severance in a tax efficient way. <\/p>\n<p>For example, you may want to defer receiving your severance to a low-income-earning year or roll over your severance into your RRSP to avoid paying tax in the current year. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cUsually, it takes a lawyer to broker these types of arrangements as neither employee nor employer tend to think about it,\u201d said Samfiru.<\/p>\n<p>While a job loss can leave you feeling financially vulnerable, Andersen and Samfiru agree the benefits of seeking professional advice outweigh the costs. Legal fees are tax deductible since it\u2019s incurred for the purpose of collecting wages. And often times, the final severance settlement will include compensation for legal fees over and above the severance amount, said Samfiru.<\/p>\n<p>He also recommends applying for EI immediately. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhile you cannot get EI and severance for the same period, EI can kick back in if the severance runs out and you\u2019re still unemployed,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>Andersen, who also has experience in resilience training, highlights three traits that may help you get out of a post-layoff rut: being positive, having a sense of control and having a support group.<\/p>\n<p>She advises defining small, achievable financial goals and building specific expectations for your next role. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen you know what you&#8217;re looking for, when you have your reason why, then the motivation will be easier,\u201d she said. <\/p>\n<p>This report by The Canadian Press was first published July 29, 2025.<\/p>\n<p>Cathy Miyagi, The Canadian Press<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Losing your job can be one of life\u2019s toughest setbacks, so navigating it with clarity requires taking time&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":45967,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[28,134],"class_list":{"0":"post-45966","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-jobs","8":"tag-business","9":"tag-jobs"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45966","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=45966"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/45966\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/45967"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=45966"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=45966"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=45966"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}