{"id":533044,"date":"2026-03-19T15:53:07","date_gmt":"2026-03-19T15:53:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/533044\/"},"modified":"2026-03-19T15:53:07","modified_gmt":"2026-03-19T15:53:07","slug":"gazing-into-a-very-chinese-mirror","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/533044\/","title":{"rendered":"Gazing Into a Very Chinese Mirror"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t tend to think too much about being culturally Chinese. It\u2019s like breathing\u2014it doesn\u2019t require much conscious effort, and it only stops when I die. Recently, however, TikTok, YouTube, and other media channels have pushed me to think about being Chinese a lot. Gua sha, qipao, Labubus: As a full\u2013time Chinese person, it\u2019s astonishing to suddenly find millions of non\u2013Asian people exploring the nation and culture I was raised in. All the more surprising to me is that this surge in interest is happening now, when the United States and China are locked in fierce conflict on technological, economic, and geopolitical fronts. The fight for the \u201creal\u201d China\u2014an implacable Communist police state or lifestyle brand\u2014is no longer happening in the Taiwan Strait, but on TikTok.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>The memory of the pandemic era also remains fresh, and the dissonance is dizzying. Just four years ago, Asians and Chinese Americans like myself were relentlessly attacked as carriers of disease and physically assaulted for the crime of being ourselves. Now, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reuters.com\/technology\/over-half-million-tiktok-refugees-flock-chinas-rednote-2025-01-14\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">over half a million<\/a> Americans are on Rednote (a Chinese social media platform), Douyin\u2014the Chinese name for TikTok\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/jingdaily.com\/posts\/tiktok-douyin-makeup-trend\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">makeup<\/a> is trending across social media, and suddenly everyone finds themselves in a <a href=\"https:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/you-met-me-at-a-very-chinese-time-in-my-life\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">very Chinese time<\/a> of their lives. Just as it has upended so many other facets of our lives, maybe social media has brought down the digital Berlin Wall separating the East and the West.<\/p>\n<p>I hope so, I really do. I hope we can see beyond the scary headlines about how China will conquer the world, and instead get to know the 1.5 billion people there as people. Take it from someone who grew up there, Chinese people do not spend every waking moment planning the destruction of America. They worry about making a living, sending their kids to good schools, finding someone to spend their lives with\u2014in short, the same things as us. Contrary to its modern reputation for poverty and crudeness, China also has an ancient and rich culture dating back close to five millennia, replete with incredible poetry, literature, music, fashion, you name it. It\u2019s heartwarming to see other Americans, inundated by a daily barrage of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fbi.gov\/investigate\/counterintelligence\/the-china-threat\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">fearmongering<\/a> about China, marvel at the beautiful silhouette of a Tang Dynasty robe or the glistening skyline of Shanghai.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I fear, however, that this recent surge in interest in China doesn\u2019t bring us closer to a future of mutual acceptance, but rather to the exotic view of China from the past.<\/p>\n<p>Ever since China (then the Qing Empire) and the United States first established <a href=\"https:\/\/history.state.gov\/countries\/china\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">relations<\/a> in the 1840s, American rhetoric has positioned China as our diametric opposite. In the late 19th century, as hundreds of thousands of Chinese people migrated to the United States in pursuit of a stable living, American politicians of every stripe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.newyorker.com\/news\/daily-comment\/the-forgotten-history-of-the-purging-of-chinese-from-america\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">demonized<\/a> them as \u201ccoolies\u201d\u2014disease\u2013ridden, simple\u2013minded slaves as opposed to independent, clean American (i.e., white) workers. As immigration restrictions <a href=\"https:\/\/www.archives.gov\/milestone-documents\/chinese-exclusion-act\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">tightened<\/a> and many Chinese laborers in America returned home, American observers still found use in lionizing America as a nation of Christian pioneers, liberated from the <a href=\"https:\/\/online.ucpress.edu\/phr\/article-abstract\/40\/4\/554\/75481\/Review-The-Heathen-Chinee-A-Study-of-American?redirectedFrom=PDF\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">heathen<\/a> backwardness of the Old World as embodied by China. During the Republican Era, as Chinese cities like Shanghai became centers of commerce and crime, American media reflected common perceptions of China as a modern <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imdb.com\/title\/tt0023458\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Sodom and Gomorrah<\/a>, a nation of morally bankrupt drug addicts seeking to corrupt upstanding Americans. When the Chinese Communist Party won the Chinese Civil War, and China turned from a staunch ally to a sworn <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marxists.org\/reference\/archive\/mao\/selected-works\/volume-5\/mswv5_52.htm#:~:text=US%20imperialism%20is%20quite%20powerful%2C%20but%20in,of%20the%20people%20and%20is%20disliked%20by\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">enemy<\/a> of the United States, longstanding anti-Chinese racism was repackaged into the <a href=\"https:\/\/millercenter.org\/the-presidency\/educational-resources\/age-of-eisenhower\/mcarthyism-red-scare\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">McCarthyist<\/a> trope of the Dirty Reds, despotic barbarians seeking to infiltrate and destroy American freedom.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, in what seems like a clear contradiction, China remained the beautiful and exotic Orient, an object of immense American cultural fascination. Chinese <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lymanallyn.org\/china-from-china\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">porcelain<\/a>, furniture, pagodas, and pavilions were all the craze in American homes and gardens. This obsession went all the way to the top\u2014George Washington ordered much of his <a href=\"https:\/\/scalar.usc.edu\/works\/circus-route-books-project\/chinoiserie-american-objectification-of-chinese-culture\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">silverware<\/a> from China. Department stores and catalogs raved about the newest <a href=\"https:\/\/www.loc.gov\/resource\/gdcscd.00215346560\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\u201cChinese\u201d<\/a> styles, from dragon pendants to \u201cpagoda sleeves\u201d inspired by traditional Chinese dress. Even Chinatowns in New York and San Francisco, where thousands of actual Chinese people lived and worked, weren\u2019t immune to America\u2019s preoccupation with a cartoon China. After San Francisco\u2019s Chinatown was destroyed in a catastrophic earthquake and fire in 1906, it was <a href=\"https:\/\/99percentinvisible.org\/episode\/pagodas-dragon-gates\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">rebuilt<\/a> with dragons and elaborate tiled roofs, loosely inspired by Song Dynasty temples and palaces, instead of the original Victorian homes. To put that in perspective, it would be like if Lincoln Financial Field collapsed tomorrow (perhaps as divine retribution for the Eagles\u2019 recent performance) and was rebuilt with a copy of the Statue of Liberty holding a cheesesteak next to the endzone. Regardless of their authenticity, from the 18th century onward, American consumers possessed an insatiable appetite for Chinese goods, which coexisted peacefully with their disdain for the country and people who produced them.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Sound familiar?<\/p>\n<p>As much as history repeating itself is a compelling explanation, it doesn\u2019t explain why the Chinese wave is happening now. Chinese culture has been fascinating for millennia, and media channels like TikTok and YouTube have been introducing Americans to it for at least a decade, so why this year of all years?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In 1903, the Chinese reformer Liang Qichao made his first visit to the United States. He had taken part in the abortive <a href=\"https:\/\/chiculture.org.hk\/en\/photo-story\/174\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hundred Days\u2019 Reform<\/a>, a desperate attempt by the Qing Dynasty then ruling China to reform and modernize. Despairing about China\u2019s future, Liang wanted to cheer himself up by visiting our exotic republic. He was impressed by the towering skyscrapers of New York and the beauty of Central Park, though he <a href=\"https:\/\/afe.easia.columbia.edu\/ps\/china\/liang_qichao_observations.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">noted<\/a> of the city that \u201cwhen you enter, the foul smell assaults your nose\u201d\u2014some things never change. The most striking thing about his account of his travels, however, is his reflection upon his own people. From his perspective, westerners spoke better than Chinese people\u2014\u201cwhen Westerners converse, if A has not finished, B does not interrupt,\u201d while \u201cwith a group of Chinese, on the other hand, the voices are all disorderly.\u201d To Liang, they also walked better, as \u201ctheir bodies are erect and their heads up\u201d while \u201cwe Chinese bow at one command, stoop at a second, and prostrate ourselves at a third.\u201d His frustration with his own people extended beyond the talk and the walk to even the way Chinese people thought\u2014\u201cWe lack lofty objectives \u2026 this is the fundamental weakness of us Chinese.\u201d Fifteen years later, an admirer of Liang named <a href=\"https:\/\/sites.asiasociety.org\/chinawealthpower\/chapters\/chen-duxiu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Chen Duxiu<\/a> would echo his sentiments, praising America and calling for China to welcome Mr. Democracy and Mr. Science, personified versions of what he perceived to be American virtues. Three years after that, he would go on to co\u2013found the Chinese Communist Party\u2014history has a great sense of humor.<\/p>\n<p>As a Westerner myself, I think Liang had an overly rosy image of us. Nevertheless, as I scrolled through videos about China on TikTok today, the comment section was filled with American Liangs. Videos about Chinese herbal medicine inspired complaints about the exorbitant cost and side effects of American medicine. Vlogs documenting picturesque walks in Shanghai or Shenzhen elicit sighs about American homelessness, drug addiction, and urban decay. Content about beautiful Chinese makeup and delicious Chinese meals draws pitiful accounts of Sephora disappointments and microwaved Hot Pockets, respectively. \u00a0<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ve always held up China as our mirror image, but for the first time, that mirror is showing us our pores.<\/p>\n<p>In 2018, when TikTok launched, Americans could reassure ourselves that no matter what China accomplished, it was still the same starving Communist <a href=\"https:\/\/chineseposters.net\/themes\/mao-cult\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">backwater<\/a> it had been when Deng Xiaoping initiated economic reforms in 1978. We had a good laugh at knockoff bags that said \u201cCough\u201d instead of \u201cCoach\u201d, or a Land Rover clone called a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.carscoops.com\/2019\/11\/hunkt-canticie-is-yet-another-chinese-range-rover-sport-knock-off\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Hunkt Canticie<\/a>, and were happy to dismiss China as a land of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ComedyCentral\/videos\/chappelles-show-cribs\/10154646786199030\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">sweatshops<\/a> and intellectual property thieves. On the political front, the People\u2019s Republic has been a one\u2013party authoritarian state since its founding in 1949, while the U.S. has largely remained a representative multi\u2013party democracy which the vast majority of Americans embraced. Like Liang, we were convinced that Westerners walked better, talked better, thought better. We reflexively dismissed Chinese culture as the output of an inferior civilization.<\/p>\n<p>Fast forward to today, and faith in American democracy and societal progress has <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pew.org\/en\/trust\/archive\/winter-2026\/as-the-us-approaches-its-250th-birthday-there-is-broad-dissatisfaction-with-democracy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">collapsed<\/a>. Masked troops <a href=\"https:\/\/apnews.com\/article\/immigration-enforcement-minneapolis-hospital-ice-beating-assault-4e77742e0629fc7f127c0aa38b3d2a70\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">occupy<\/a> our cities and ruthlessly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nbcnews.com\/news\/us-news\/renee-good-was-shot-head-autopsy-commissioned-family-finds-rcna255335\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">murder<\/a> anyone who dares dissent. Our economy <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2026\/02\/05\/investing\/us-stock-market\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">teeters<\/a> on the edge of a cliff, increasingly bound to a speculative bubble surrounding artificial intelligence. For the first time in our history, we\u2019re not sure if our model is right and China\u2019s is wrong. Going cupping, getting acupuncture, trying on a qipao, it\u2019s as much about escaping from our world as it is exploring China\u2019s. Social media platforms reinforce this new Orientalism, showing Americans the best side of China. The reality is, of course, that life in China has its flaws as well. Youth unemployment hovers <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnbc.com\/2025\/12\/17\/china-youth-unemployment-civil-service-jobs-economy-slowdown.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">around 20%<\/a>, nearly twice the figure in the U.S. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/c14g7r44566o\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">popping<\/a> of a multi\u2013trillion-dollar housing bubble in 2020 wiped out many households, and brutal competition throughout every stage of academic and professional life has pushed millions of Chinese people to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/business-60353916\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">\u201clie flat\u201d<\/a> instead. This is to say nothing of the 300 million <a href=\"https:\/\/china.iom.int\/en\/news\/chinas-domestic-migrant-worker-population-reached-300-million\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">migrant<\/a> workers who roam from city to city in China, living a precarious life providing the near\u2013instant deliveries and cheap eats that we gawk at on our phones.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, I could not be happier that we are finally engaging with Chinese culture. My only fear is that we are rushing between one extreme and another, China as heaven or hell. A large part of the recent Chinese wave has been a no\u2013questions-asked embrace of traditional Chinese medicine. Practices like gua sha rarely work as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.allure.com\/story\/gua-sha-for-double-chin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">advertised<\/a>\u2014there is no evidence gua sha slims your face, and it doesn\u2019t even go anywhere near the face traditionally. Other TCM practices such as cupping, and acupuncture are based on a belief in qi, a \u201clife force\u201d that flows through certain channels in your body and causes physical harm when it is thrown out of balance. Qi does not exist, and none of these <a href=\"https:\/\/keck.usc.edu\/news\/does-acupuncture-really-work-for-pain\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">methods<\/a> are scientifically backed. As for herbal remedies, a nice mugwort tea probably won\u2019t hurt you but it is neither medicine nor a substitute for medical care. A Western doctor showing up with a bag of <a href=\"https:\/\/opentextbooks.clemson.edu\/sciencetechnologyandsociety\/chapter\/leech-therapy-in-the-middle-ages\/#:~:text=Leech%20therapy%20was%20a%20prominent%20and%20widely%2Dpracticed,Diseases%20of%20the%20nervous%20system%20and%20eyes\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">leaches<\/a> or a rusty scalpel to free you of your \u201cblack bile\u201d would probably send their patient running screaming out of the room. We should be equally skeptical of outdated Chinese medical practices as we are of Western ones.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Speaking more broadly, we can appreciate Chinese culture and China\u2019s incredible progress over the past forty years without sinking into nihilism. Our democracy is worth defending, modern medical science is not a scam, and the biggest obstacle to solving problems like homelessness is thinking they can\u2019t be fixed. In our cynical age, these statements are eye\u2013rolling, but that doesn\u2019t make them any less true. Liang Qichao was proven wrong about China\u2019s inferiority, and we can prove the cynics wrong about America too. With a more grounded view of both the U.S. and China, we can move beyond the oppositional framing the two countries have been locked in for the past two centuries. China doesn\u2019t have to be worse or better than us, it can just be different.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Many commentators have accused the recent flood of Chinese content on TikTok of being a flash in the pan, or even cultural appropriation, but this is how it starts. Japanese and Korean culture were first sneered at, then curiously explored, then embraced by America. Cute clothes and foot baths are a great jumping off point, but I implore every person who\u2019s in a very Chinese time of their life to go a step further and engage with Chinese literature, film, or an actual Chinese person. Then we can accomplish what our governments cannot, choosing peace in a time of war and unity in a time of division. The secret to being a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/reel\/DTpJUKmiM82\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Chinese baddie<\/a>? Keeping an open mind.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>                            <script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I don\u2019t tend to think too much about being culturally Chinese. 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