Auriemma scolded Staley<\/a>. Then Philly Dawn came out. The shouting escalated. Assistants and officials jumped between them. Staley turned and walked away, hot as July asphalt.<\/p>\nAdvertisement<\/p>\n
\u201cI will beat Geno\u2019s ass,\u201d she said several times.<\/p>\n
This wasn\u2019t a random sideline disagreement. This was inevitable. Auriemma is addicted to success. So is Staley. Neither is backing down. There have been subtle jabs for years, including a nasty back-and-forth about South Carolina\u2019s physical play three years ago.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s not basketball anymore,\u201d Auriemma complained after a regular-season loss at South Carolina.<\/p>\n
In defending her players, Staley hit back: \u201cThey play the right way. \u2026 We don\u2019t denounce anybody\u2019s play. They are always uplifting the game of women\u2019s basketball, and when we were getting our heads beat in by UConn for all those years, I said nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n
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That escalation just happened to coincide with a year in which the Gamecocks were striving to complete an undefeated season.<\/p>\n
This fight had been building.<\/p>\n
Afterward, Auriemma tried to shrink it.<\/p>\n
\u201cI said what I had to say,\u201d he said. \u201cNothing.\u201d<\/p>\n
But it wasn\u2019t nothing.<\/p>\n
He circled back to the pregame handshake, a gracious moment he believed Staley shunned.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe protocol is, before the game, you meet at halfcourt,\u201d he said. \u201cI waited there for like three minutes.\u201d<\/p>\n
That was his explanation. But it was a partial truth. Because they did shake hands and acknowledge each other after coming onto the court before introductions. But Auriemma expected Staley to follow Final Four tradition and shake again after the public-address announcer introduced the teams. Maybe Staley forgot. Maybe she was momentarily confused because one interaction is sufficient during the regular season. Whatever the case, the grievance was small. It should have been too small for Auriemma to carry that kind of venom.<\/p>\n
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\u201cI said what I said,\u201d Auriemma said, declining to show any regret. \u201cAnd obviously she didn\u2019t like it. I just told the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n
No, he projected a whole evening of frustration onto that one gripe. South Carolina dictated the game, and he couldn\u2019t do anything about it.<\/p>\n
\u201cThe game wasn\u2019t played the way we want to play it,\u201d he said. \u201cIt was played the way South Carolina wanted to play it.\u201d<\/p>\n
The physicality bothered him. The way Staley worked the officials bothered him. The way his offense stalled bothered him. The hallmarks of Connecticut basketball \u2013 tempo, space, pace, precision \u2013 eluded the Huskies as they were forced into uncomfortable possessions.<\/p>\n
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And then there was the case of Sarah Strong\u2019s torn jersey. Auriemma indicated a South Carolina player ripped it. For certain, Strong ripped it off her body. The incident fueled Auriemma\u2019s anger over what he considered an officiating \u201cdouble standard.\u201d<\/p>\n
He dropped an expletive during an in-game interview with ESPN\u2019s Holly Rowe. Later, he said of Staley: \u201cI\u2019m of the opinion that if I ever talk to an official like that, I would get tossed.\u201d<\/p>\n
It all added up. It wasn\u2019t a handshake dispute. It was an expression of agitation, a complete meltdown from the winningest coach in the history of the sport. It was the symptom of a man losing control of a game he has owned.<\/p>\n
Trailing 26-24 at halftime, Staley yelled at her team. \u201cMeet the moment!\u201d she exclaimed. \u201cMeet the moment! You really don\u2019t get these opportunities very often. So you got to meet the moment.\u201d<\/p>\n
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They did. They dismantled UConn with defensive discipline. They flustered Strong and Azzi Fudd into a combined 7-of-31 shooting performance. They closed the game with panache. As Staley described them, they were \u201cunbothered.\u201d<\/p>\n
She was, too. She needed to calm down immediately after the face-off, but she suppressed her anger.<\/p>\n
Asked what happened, Staley said: \u201cYou can ask Geno the question. He\u2019s the one that initiated the conversation. I don\u2019t want what happened there to dampen what we were able to accomplish.\u201d<\/p>\n
Staley stayed in the moment. Auriemma stayed in his feelings.<\/p>\n
He was so emotional he couldn\u2019t even see himself. He talked about teaching his UConn teams about winning and losing with class, but he didn\u2019t recognize the contradiction of his actions.<\/p>\n
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\u201cYou have to be gracious in your losing,\u201d he said at one point. \u201cI never wanted to be anything other than that. And treat people with respect.\u201d<\/p>\n
Yet Staley somehow wasn\u2019t worthy of civility as the game ended. And why? Because of a handshake misunderstanding? Because he thought Staley intimidated the refs?<\/p>\n
Or because Staley is becoming his equal?<\/p>\n
Auriemma has always needed a rival. Summitt. Muffet McGraw for a while. Perhaps the competitor in him needs someone to sharpen his edge, to resist his dominance. But Staley\u2019s challenge doesn\u2019t feel temporary. And soon, she may be inaccurate to label her the challenger.<\/p>\n
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She isn\u2019t chasing Auriemma. She is neither measuring herself against him nor revolving around his sun. She\u2019s in her own orbit. She can go around him. She can go through him.<\/p>\n
She can go at him, too.<\/p>\n
On this night, that made Auriemma uncomfortable. He was childish and small. It was revealing. The confrontation wasn\u2019t the story. It was the signal.<\/p>\n
Staley isn\u2019t just competing with Auriemma anymore. She is capable of standing beside him.<\/p>\n
And sometimes, she stands over him.<\/p>\n
This article originally appeared in The Athletic<\/a>.<\/p>\nSouth Carolina Gamecocks, Connecticut Huskies, Women’s College Basketball, Opinion<\/p>\n
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