{"id":605772,"date":"2026-04-25T14:55:16","date_gmt":"2026-04-25T14:55:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/605772\/"},"modified":"2026-04-25T14:55:16","modified_gmt":"2026-04-25T14:55:16","slug":"ny-influencer-throws-herself-wedding-party-to-celebrate-turning-40","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/605772\/","title":{"rendered":"NY influencer throws herself wedding party to celebrate turning 40"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>NEWYou can now listen to Fox News articles!\n  <\/p>\n<p class=\"speakable\">No husband? No problem. That is what Brittany Allyn, a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/us\/us-regions\/northeast\/new-york\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">New York<\/a>-based influencer, thought when she decided to throw herself a wedding party to celebrate turning 40. Could this be the start of a new trend?<\/p>\n<p class=\"speakable\">Allyn has over 402,000 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/tech\/companies\/instagram\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Instagram<\/a> followers and over 383,000 TikTok followers under the username <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@thirtywaves\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">@thirtywaves.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Allyn spoke to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/media\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">Fox News Digital<\/a> about the decision to throw herself into what became the viral birthday celebration.<\/p>\n<p>It wasn&#8217;t always the plan to have a wedding-themed party. The content creator originally planned to throw a Saltburn-themed birthday party in the British countryside. The wedding party came to mind when Allyn was struggling to find the perfect dress for the occasion.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/entertainment\/reese-witherspoons-50th-birthday-party-draws-a-list-crowd-lainey-wilsons-nashville-bar\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">REESE WITHERSPOON&#8217;S 50TH BIRTHDAY PARTY DRAWS A-LIST CROWD TO LAINEY WILSON&#8217;S NASHVILLE BAR<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I was, like, you know, what? Why don&#8217;t I just wear the white dress? Why don&#8217;t I kind of go through those motions and find the dress, the dream dress, and, you know, you don&#8217;t really get to wear like a white extravagant dress other times in your life,&#8221; Allyn said.<\/p>\n<p>Allyn said she didn&#8217;t want to miss out on the opportunity to wear the white dress.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This might be my only wedding, I hope not,&#8221; Allyn said. &#8220;Like I <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/opinion\/from-happily-ever-after-not-so-fast-why-young-women-turning-from-marriage\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">love marriage and celebrating love<\/a>, but I was, like, why not just go really big?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Allyn made it clear that the emphasis was wedding-themed. She did not marry herself, and instead of a wedding cake there were cupcakes.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I didn&#8217;t marry myself, it was really just about like self-love for the weekend and kind of dressing up and making it a fun thing party and then just celebrating the friendships and family that I have there.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, there were some parts of the party that were similar to a wedding, including speeches and walking down the aisle.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/media\/stand-up-comic-becky-robinsons-viral-wine-mom-character-leads-sold-out-shows-fan-golf-getaway\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">STAND-UP COMIC BECKY ROBINSON\u2019S VIRAL WINE-MOM CHARACTER LEADS TO SOLD-OUT SHOWS AND A FAN GOLF TOURNAMENT<\/a><\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/brittany-allyn-wedding-party.jpg\" alt=\"Content creator Brittany Allyn\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>Brittany Allyn did not let not having a husband stop her from throwing herself a wedding party. (Hana Gonzalez Photography)<\/p>\n<p>Allyn emphasized that the party was not about &#8220;putting down men&#8221; or &#8220;giving up.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It is not about putting down men and saying you don&#8217;t need a man. It&#8217;s just, if this is where you&#8217;re at, and you&#8217;re 40, and you have great friends, and you&#8217;ve done a lot for them, then maybe it&#8217;s time for them to also do a lot for you and show up how they should,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>Allyn believes all women should have their bridal moment regardless of their relationship status.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/media\/unorthodox-singles-program-aims-put-the-feels-back-modern-dating\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">UNORTHODOX SINGLES PROGRAM AIMS TO PUT &#8216;THE FEELS&#8217; BACK IN MODERN DATING<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;This message is for all women that want to have that bride moment. You will never regret it. It is so much fun,&#8221; she said. &#8220;Pick your favorite people. Pick your best friends, your family members. Dress up, feel absolutely beautiful. Wear the dress you&#8217;ve always wanted to wear that you&#8217;ve never had a celebration to wear it to.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Allyn believes women have been given an &#8220;extra decade in the modern world&#8221; and have more time for their dreams to come true.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think 40 really is almost the new 30. I think you know women are doing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/category\/health\/reproductive-health\/infertility\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">egg freezing<\/a>, they&#8217;re having kids at 45. You can do so much even at 40 and there&#8217;s beauty and there is youth and there&#8217;s silliness in it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/04\/brittany-allyn-thumbnail.jpg\" alt=\"Content creator Brittany Allyn\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\"\/> <\/p>\n<p>Brittany Allyn @thirtywaves on Instagram, in a wedding dress to celebrate turning 40. (Hana Gonzalez Photography)<\/p>\n<p>When Allyn announced the decision to throw her wedding birthday party on TikTok, she received many comments and over 200,000 views on the video.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I think you\u2019re starting a cultural phenomenon,&#8221; one commenter wrote.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Absolutely iconic. A new movement begins,&#8221; said another.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.foxnews.com\/media\/sociology-prof-hails-swift-kelce-engagement-says-married-women-report-highest-levels-happiness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">SOCIOLOGY PROF CELEBRATES SWIFT\u2013KELCE ENGAGEMENT, SAYS MARRIAGE BOOM WOULD BOOST EMOTIONAL WELL-BEING OF WOMEN<\/a><\/p>\n<p>And when she posted about the party, more comments showed up.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I fear you are doing life correctly my dear,&#8221; a TikTok user wrote.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/foxnews.onelink.me\/xLDS?pid=AppArticleLink&amp;af_dp=foxnewsaf%3A%2F%2F&amp;af_web_dp=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.foxnews.com%2Fapps-products\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD THE FOX NEWS APP<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Anyone in the comments wanting to do this and needs a planner, I&#8217;m right here,&#8221; said another.<\/p>\n<p>Many comments applauded Allyn&#8217;s unique party. &#8220;This is what self-love is,&#8221; said a TikTok user.<\/p>\n<p>Elizabeth Heckman is a writer for Fox News Digital.<\/p>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"NEWYou can now listen to Fox News articles! 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