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Caleb Shomo<\/a> has came out as gay.<\/p>\n The lead singer of the band Beartooth<\/a> opened up about his sexuality in a lengthy statement shared to his Instagram account on Saturday (May 23). Shortly after he posted the statement, his wife of 13 years, Fleur Shomo, posted her own statement with a supporting message while also confirming their marriage is over. <\/p>\n Caleb is the only founding member of Beartooth to still remain with the group, over a decade after the music group launched. His coming out post is currently the only post live on his Instagram page. <\/p>\n \u201cThere\u2019s been a lot of speculation surrounding my personal life as of late, and I feel compelled to set the record straight before it affects those I love any further,\u201d he began. \u201cI am a proudly gay man.\u201d<\/p>\n Caleb talked about the affect his personal life has affected his music over the years. <\/p>\n This is something I\u2019ve been unpacking and reckoning with in my life for quite some time now. It\u2019s been difficult to navigate the feelings surrounding the subject and figure out what to do with this fact. <\/p>\n When it comes to my art \/ Beartooth, I have always strived to chase who I am in the deepest part of my soul from album to album. As you could gather if you\u2019ve followed the band at all in the earlier years, there are 4 very self deprecating albums about exploring my religious upbringing, depression, self hatred, self loathing, and hopelessness. I am grateful for all these albums, yet feel embarrassed at times that I wouldn\u2019t allow myself to really dig up the roots for so long.<\/p>\n Caleb also opened up about reconciling with his sexuality and how it will impact his upcoming album. <\/p>\n I spent a decade burying feelings with alcohol, and honestly when I decided to put it down and focus on exploring why I felt this way for so long, it\u2019s been a direct path to me reconciling with my sexuality in hopes that it will eventually lead to me experiencing self love. One thing I decided before I wrote a single note or lyric of the upcoming album is that whatever happens, I will express myself whole heartedly and fully. Wherever it takes me I will follow and I refuse to water any part of it down, from the music, to the lyrical content, and way I portray myself. I will only do what makes me happy at the deepest level and what is the most honest depiction of who I am. I believe it\u2019s impossible to love every part of you when you won\u2019t face every part of you head on. I am trying to finally be proud of who I am and I think this is a massive part of that journey.<\/p>\n To those who have shown me love, empowerment through living life freely and openly in my presence, supporting the queer community, or simply telling me you love me whoever I am, I am forever in your debt and I hope you know what you mean to me. I encourage anyone who\u2019s struggling with who they are to give yourself grace. Give yourself patience. Be honest with yourself. Do the hard work instead of burying it down as deep as you physically can thinking it will change like I did. Holding these things in only hurt you and those around you. Love you all, and hopefully this is a step in the right direction to loving myself one day.<\/p>\n Caleb Shomo\u2019s wife reacts to his coming out<\/p>\n Caleb\u2018s wife of 13 years, Fleur Shomo, released a statement in response to the coming out. She confirmed their marriage is over, but showed her support for him.<\/p>\n Not really sure how to start this cause does anything even need to be said? But I guess I\u2019ll just dive right in. <\/p>\n The past few months have been a very disorienting and hurtful time to navigate. For both of us. But I will always want to love, protect and support Caleb. I have cared more about his well being over the years than anything else in the world.<\/p>\n To see the confusion and pain he went through and the highs and lows and wanting to help but not knowing how. You never want anything more for your person than for them to just be ok. You also ask yourself constantly if you\u2019re a bad person for wondering wtf this means for your world & the anger you also feel. I am the only person that is having to deal with the duality of this situation. To support him whilst losing everything has been incredibly hard to figure out. You can love and support your person through the hardest time in their life, whilst also be completely demolished & lose yourself at the same time. <\/p>\n You question everything. But I have learned the one thing I don\u2019t need to question is our history. No matter what anyone will say, I know it.<\/p>\n I have always wanted nothing more than for Caleb to be happy. Trying to help him go through this without having any idea what to do, has been a learning curve we never expected to experience together. The isolation of not being able to talk to people about this has been profound, as it has not been my story to share. My mental health has suffered & I have had moments where I have not felt or acted like myself. For those that have known & been there, thank you. I\u2019ll never be able to repay your kindness.<\/p>\n Our nearly 14yrs of marriage was wonderful and full of so much fun, adventure & love. Nobody will know anything about our marriage like we do. And no one can ever truly know what depths of love exist between two people unless they are those people. I already miss it & my husband more than anything. Our story was a good one. And now it\u2019s done.<\/p>\n I hope anyone in the world going through this finds hope & courage & I hope the fans can continue to support Caleb.<\/p>\n For now I\u2019m going to keep focusing on what I can control and continue living my life trying to achieve what I want to achieve. And if I keep saying hi to as many dogs as possible along the way, then I\u2019m sure things will slowly get better, day by day, piece by small piece, bird by bird. <\/p>\n See a photo of them below.<\/p>\n Posted To:Beartooth<\/a> Caleb Shomo<\/a> pride<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Credit: Getty Caleb Shomo has came out as gay. 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