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If you\u2019ve ever had to deal with a roommate who constantly breathed down your neck and wanted to know where you were at all hours of the day, you know how frustrating it can be<\/a>.<\/p>\n Add to that already annoying equation being in college, being young, and trying to have a good time, and you can see why anyone would be turned off by that kind of pressure.<\/p>\n In this story, a college student wrote that her roommate is trying to clamp down on her social life and she\u2019s had just about enough of it.<\/p>\n I swear, sometimes youth is wasted on the young\u2026<\/p>\n Check out what she had to say in the story below and think about how you\u2019d deal with a roommate who acted like this.<\/p>\n \u201cI\u2019m a first-year college student living in a dorm and I\u2019m starting to feel like I might be in the wrong, but I\u2019m not sure.<\/p>\n I live with a roommate I initially got along with really well\u2014we even planned to live together next year. But over time, things have gotten tense. I go out maybe 2\u20133 times a month, mostly on weekends.<\/p>\n Living with someone on a different schedule can be like walking a tightrope\u2026<\/p>\n When I come back, I\u2019m very quiet (no overhead lights, minimal noise), and I always try to be respectful. Despite that, my roommate gets annoyed when I come back, even around midnight.<\/p>\n She\u2019s told me she\u2019s a light sleeper and has early classes every day, and she\u2019s said that coming back around 1\u20132 am on weekends is \u201ctoo late.\u201d<\/p>\n Because of this, I\u2019ve started feeling anxious about going out at all and have even canceled plans to avoid upsetting her. I feel like I\u2019m adjusting my life a lot to keep the peace.<\/p>\n Recently, I told her a friend might come visit for a night, and she responded pretty negatively and asked where they\u2019d be staying, which made me feel like I needed permission.<\/p>\n It sounds like she needs to get through this year and then find someone else to live with\u2026<\/p>\n This also bothered me because earlier in the year, her boyfriend stayed over and she didn\u2019t ask me at all.<\/p>\n There have also been some weird\/petty moments\u2014like her screenshotting a TikTok I reposted because she thought it was about her and sending it to me saying \u201cnice,\u201d and telling me I remind her of the \u201cCeleste\u201d roommate character in the new Roommates movie (iykyk).<\/p>\n Nobody should have to live like this\u2026<\/p>\n At this point, I feel like I\u2019m walking on eggshells in my own room, but I also understand that being woken up at night can be frustrating.<\/p>\n AITA for still wanting to go out occasionally and have a friend stay over, even though it bothers my roommate?\u201d<\/p>\n
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