{"id":7082,"date":"2025-07-13T16:44:06","date_gmt":"2025-07-13T16:44:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/7082\/"},"modified":"2025-07-13T16:44:06","modified_gmt":"2025-07-13T16:44:06","slug":"who-does-adjoua-love-more","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/7082\/","title":{"rendered":"who does Adjoua love more?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/substackcdn.com\/image\/fetch\/$s_!r5Hn!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep\/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe5254cdf-b3a6-47e9-b4d1-9b8f6edbc6b1_1024x645.jpeg\" data-component-name=\"Image2ToDOM\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"image-link image2 is-viewable-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/e5254cdf-b3a6-47e9-b4d1-9b8f6edbc6b1_1024.jpeg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"645\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/e5254cdf-b3a6-47e9-b4d1-9b8f6edbc6b1_1024x645.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:645,&quot;width&quot;:1024,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:118760,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:true,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/the.ink\/i\/168101986?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe5254cdf-b3a6-47e9-b4d1-9b8f6edbc6b1_1024x645.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}\" alt=\"\"   fetchpriority=\"high\" class=\"sizing-normal\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Happy weekend, Ink Book Club members. We\u2019re entering week three of our conversation around <a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-uproar-karim-dimechkie\/21883910\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Uproar,<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-uproar-karim-dimechkie\/21883910\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"> by Karim Dimechkie<\/a>. In our Wednesday discussion this past week, Anand and I (and several of you!) discussed some of the novel\u2019s themes, including, as Anand put it, how the novel is \u201ca giant illumination of unaffordability as a social cancer.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>We also talked about \u201cneurotic dog moms,\u201d as reader Cheryl dubbed herself, and how the proliferation of dogs and chatbots may signal that we are losing our capacity for relationality (though we do love dogs). We wondered, in fact, if it was possible that Adjoua, Sharif\u2019s wife, might love their dog Judy more than she loves her husband. And we explored one question I found especially intriguing: we\u2019ve previously probed whether Sharif\u2019s goodness is performative, but are we at the end of an era of aspiring do-gooders? The recent behavior of the oligarchs makes us think that aspiration may be a thing of the past.<\/p>\n<p data-attrs=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/the.ink\/p\/sharif-versus-judy-who-does-adjoua?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}\" data-component-name=\"ButtonCreateButton\" class=\"button-wrapper\"><a href=\"https:\/\/the.ink\/p\/sharif-versus-judy-who-does-adjoua?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"button primary\" target=\"_blank\">Share<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We won\u2019t have a live book club discussion this Wednesday, though we will be on the Ink Book Club chat throughout the week. Also, don\u2019t forget that Karim Dimechkie  will join us live on Wednesday, July 23, at 12:30 p.m. Eastern to discuss his utterly provocative novel. One reader who raced through the book at the speed of lightning got to the end and had this to say: \u201cHoly Smokes!\u201d <\/p>\n<p>We second that emotion!<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/substackcdn.com\/image\/fetch\/$s_!AkvW!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep\/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F43528dc0-c9a7-4ab1-b7e8-3a5476eb0c77_1024x736.jpeg\" data-component-name=\"Image2ToDOM\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"image-link image2 is-viewable-img\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/43528dc0-c9a7-4ab1-b7e8-3a5476eb0c77_1024.jpeg\" width=\"1024\" height=\"736\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/43528dc0-c9a7-4ab1-b7e8-3a5476eb0c77_1024x736.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:736,&quot;width&quot;:1024,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:101265,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image\/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/the.ink\/i\/168101986?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F43528dc0-c9a7-4ab1-b7e8-3a5476eb0c77_1024x736.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}\" alt=\"\"   class=\"sizing-normal\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>AND NOW FOR A BOOK CLUB BONUS: On Tuesday, July 15 at 1:30 p.m. Eastern, Anand and I will be joined by the incredible SULEIKA JAOUD, the author of the bestselling memoir <a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/between-two-kingdoms-a-memoir-of-a-life-interrupted-suleika-jaouad\/11375409\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Between Two Kingdoms<\/a>, and most recently <a href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-book-of-alchemy-journaling-toward-a-more-meaningful-life-suleika-jaouad\/21707243\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Book of Alchemy: A Creative Practice for an Inspired Life<\/a>. Suleika is also the subject, along with her husband, the musician Jon Batiste, of the Oscar-nominated documentary American Symphony.<\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-book-of-alchemy-journaling-toward-a-more-meaningful-life-suleika-jaouad\/21707243\" data-component-name=\"Image2ToDOM\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"image-link image2\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/808b8b62-7459-4077-8d0b-3bdf589c1a50_658x.jpeg\" width=\"400\" height=\"607.90273556231\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/808b8b62-7459-4077-8d0b-3bdf589c1a50_658x1000.webp&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1000,&quot;width&quot;:658,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:400,&quot;bytes&quot;:238186,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image\/webp&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/bookshop.org\/p\/books\/the-book-of-alchemy-journaling-toward-a-more-meaningful-life-suleika-jaouad\/21707243&quot;,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/the.ink\/i\/168101986?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F808b8b62-7459-4077-8d0b-3bdf589c1a50_658x1000.webp&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}\" alt=\"\"   class=\"sizing-normal\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Book of Alchemy explores \u201cthe art of journaling,\u201d a practice that \u201callows us to navigate life\u2019s waters, be they turbulent or calm, and to learn to hold the paradoxes \u2014 the beautiful and cruel facts of our existence \u2014 in an open palm.\u201d When I read the book\u2019s introduction, which Suleika titles \u201cThe Way In,\u201d I was moved to follow her lead and began doing \u201cmorning pages,\u201d i.e., each morning before even brushing my teeth or drinking coffee, writing three pages in a journal. This became her\u2019s (and mine) morning meditation, a clarifying few moments. In adopting this ritual, I, too, feel clearer, less anxious, and better able to face the day\u2019s challenges. Especially in light of the divisiveness and chaos around us, this exercise is vital self-care. And there is zero shame in self-care, btw. I can\u2019t express how much pen to paper in my journal has made a difference. <\/p>\n<p>Suleika will join us to discuss the book and share her learnings, which have helped her immeasurably as she\u2019s faced illness and loss. Please join us for this special edition of The Ink Book Club. <\/p>\n<p>And we\u2019ll leave you with  a few questions to ponder as we continue our journey through Karim Dimechkie\u2019s The Uproar:<\/p>\n<p>How is a social novelist\u2019s lens especially useful in better understanding our politics?<\/p>\n<p>Sharif\u2019s reputation is badly tarnished after a video goes viral. What do you think the author is trying to convey here about cancellation? In the age of shamelessness, is \u201ccancel culture\u201d a thing of the past? Or is this a way for the otherwise powerless to exact accountability?<\/p>\n<p>Anand vocalized what a lot of us were thinking when he asked whether Adjoua, actually loves their dog, Judy, more than her husband. What are your thoughts?<\/p>\n<p>Please share your thoughts, comments, or questions of your own in the comments below, and we\u2019ll talk more about The Uproar in the Book Club Chat this week.<\/p>\n<p data-attrs=\"{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/the.ink\/p\/sharif-versus-judy-who-does-adjoua\/comments&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Leave a comment&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}\" data-component-name=\"ButtonCreateButton\" class=\"button-wrapper\"><a href=\"https:\/\/the.ink\/p\/sharif-versus-judy-who-does-adjoua\/comments\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"button primary\" target=\"_blank\">Leave a comment<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/substackcdn.com\/image\/fetch\/$s_!1gkE!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep\/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Ff61c81fb-65a3-473d-9b4f-deeb94e1d109_1800x1800.png\" data-component-name=\"Image2ToDOM\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" class=\"image-link image2 is-viewable-img\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/f61c81fb-65a3-473d-9b4f-deeb94e1d109_1800.jpeg\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" data-attrs=\"{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com\/public\/images\/f61c81fb-65a3-473d-9b4f-deeb94e1d109_1800x1800.png&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:1456,&quot;width&quot;:1456,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:400,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}\" alt=\"\" title=\"\"   loading=\"lazy\" class=\"sizing-normal\"\/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We\u2019ll post questions \u2014 our discussion guide \u2014 every Sunday, and every other Wednesday we\u2019ll meet for a discussion with the Club or a visit from an author or other special guest. Look out for posts with further details. We\u2019ll also host chat threads to get your insight on key questions in advance of our meetings. For our next meeting, on Wednesday, July 23, at 12:30 p.m. Eastern, we\u2019ll be joined by Karim Dimechkie, author of The Uproar.<\/p>\n<p>To participate in our meetings and author talks on Substack Live, join from your phone or tablet with <a href=\"https:\/\/substack.com\/redirect\/21bb85f6-0755-4efe-a3b7-07c3b77de36b?j=eyJ1IjoiNHVydmcifQ.8o7dZlnJasqMiqBAjv3NaKaphVGXxcp1YU_ECO_j64s\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">the Substack app<\/a>. You can watch on desktop at <a href=\"https:\/\/the.ink\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">The Ink<\/a>, and comment and ask questions in our chat, but you won\u2019t be able to join the live video discussion. Book Club meetings are open to paid subscribers to The Ink, so if you haven\u2019t become part of our community, please join us today.<\/p>\n<p>Photo by Josh Edelson\/AFP via Getty Images; Suleika Jaoud photo by David Dee Delgado\/Getty Images for The New York Times<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Happy weekend, Ink Book Club members. 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