{"id":721,"date":"2025-07-11T05:49:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-11T05:49:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/721\/"},"modified":"2025-07-11T05:49:08","modified_gmt":"2025-07-11T05:49:08","slug":"nara-smith-pushes-back-on-tradwife-label-insists-shes-not-trapped-in-kitchen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/721\/","title":{"rendered":"Nara Smith Pushes Back on Tradwife Label, Insists She&#8217;s Not &#8216;Trapped&#8217; In Kitchen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>        &#8220;They project onto it that I&#8217;m in the kitchen and trapped and I&#8217;m just at home and he&#8217;s the breadwinner and all of these things, and I&#8217;m like, no, I work,&#8221; Smith explained.<\/p>\n<p>Nara Smith is pushing back at anyone calling her a &#8220;tradwife.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>On a July 10 episode of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@JayShettyPodcast.\/videos\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">On Purpose with Jay Shetty<\/a> podcast, the TikTok star mentioned her struggle with her &#8220;online presence,&#8221; due to some of the comments she receives. The &#8220;tradwife&#8221; term is slang for &#8220;traditional wife,&#8221; and has been decried by many as a backwards-looking movement, glorifying traditional, more subservient roles for wives that limit their opportunities and roles in the larger world.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s people love projecting things onto me and kind of how I live my life just because I cook for my husband because it&#8217;s my love language and I love cooking,&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They project onto it that I&#8217;m in the kitchen and trapped and I&#8217;m just at home and he&#8217;s the breadwinner and all of these things,&#8221; she continued, adding, &#8220;and I&#8217;m like, no, I work.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Before meeting her husband Lucky Blue Smith and becoming a mother of three, the pregnant influencer started her modeling career at the age of 14. She was scouted by <a href=\"https:\/\/imgmodels.com\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">IMG Models<\/a> in Germany and continued to model after moving to the United States.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m very busy. I travel almost every week. I have kids that I raise,&#8221; the expecting star told Shetty.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I love being in the kitchen because it&#8217;s a passion of mine, not because I have to,&#8221; she insisted, &#8220;and sometimes I feel like this is where social media gets tricky for me personally.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>      <a class=\"article-block__link js-track-link\" href=\"https:\/\/toofab.com\/2025\/06\/11\/social-media-star-nara-smith-pregnant-four-kids\/\" data-node-ref=\"toofab:article:1148a743-accf-4ef9-b21f-24d1ea919a45\" data-container-ref=\"toofab:article:137885c2-6dec-4562-8cdc-5a8833bfd5c6\" data-context=\"{&quot;section&quot;:&quot;article-block&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;article&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>            <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/d5465f35f389481e91ccae58c2664888_xs.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" class=\"img-fluid article-block__img-fluid\"\/><br \/>\n                          Instagram<\/p>\n<p>            Social Media Star Nara Smith Defends Having Four Kids at Such a Young Age<\/p>\n<p>          View Story\n        <\/p>\n<p>      <\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It doesn&#8217;t matter how much I voice those things and try to make people understand that I am actually a full-time working mom that they just don&#8217;t wanna get it,&#8221; she continued. &#8220;They use me as this poster child of this like very traditional wife and I&#8217;m not. There&#8217;s nothing truly traditional about us as a couple, apart from maybe that we chose to have kids young and get married young. But apart from that, we split towards 50\/50.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Smith then explained things her husband does outside of &#8220;traditional&#8221; husband duties.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;There&#8217;s things that Lucky does that I guess, traditional men wouldn&#8217;t do. Like do the dishes or get the kids dressed or do their hair, or whatever it may be that people don&#8217;t associate with a traditional man,&#8221; she continued, &#8220;And there&#8217;s things that I do like having a full-time career and having Lucky be home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>      <a class=\"article-block__link js-track-link\" href=\"https:\/\/toofab.com\/2024\/12\/07\/most-unique-celebrity-baby-names-of-2024\/\" data-node-ref=\"toofab:article:a2f627f4-d733-4553-8d08-84c51ce05eaf\" data-container-ref=\"toofab:article:137885c2-6dec-4562-8cdc-5a8833bfd5c6\" data-context=\"{&quot;section&quot;:&quot;article-block&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;article&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>            <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/bbce8506724149e38cc2a464eb3792c0_xs.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" class=\"img-fluid article-block__img-fluid\"\/><br \/>\n                          Getty\/Instagram<\/p>\n<p>            The 11 Most Unique Celebrity Baby Names of 2024<\/p>\n<p>          View Story\n        <\/p>\n<p>      <\/a><\/p>\n<p>The social media influencer also talked about how people can be so negative on these social media platforms, revealing how she&#8217;s cried to her husband about it.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nowadays, society, they love drama. They love negativity. They feed off of fights and opinions and online situations that cause conflict,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I think that&#8217;s what people love projecting onto me. They love that I&#8217;m so controversial and they can kind of say whatever. And in the beginning, it really used to bother me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I used to cry at home and tell Lucky, like, &#8216;I don&#8217;t understand why they&#8217;re saying all these things,'&#8221; she explained.<\/p>\n<p>      <a class=\"article-block__link js-track-link\" href=\"https:\/\/toofab.com\/2024\/12\/02\/talulah-riley-rejects-tradwife-label-farm-thomas-brodie-sangster\/\" data-node-ref=\"toofab:article:11673c35-44be-44a0-921b-9825f4853f9e\" data-container-ref=\"toofab:article:137885c2-6dec-4562-8cdc-5a8833bfd5c6\" data-context=\"{&quot;section&quot;:&quot;article-block&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;article&quot;}\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><\/p>\n<p>            <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/56d7bb51104b4dfb83dad34659ff666b_xs.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"240\" class=\"img-fluid article-block__img-fluid\"\/><br \/>\n                          Getty<\/p>\n<p>            Talulah Riley Rejects &#8216;Tradwife&#8217; Label After Moving to Farm with Husband Thomas Brodie-Sangster<\/p>\n<p>          View Story\n        <\/p>\n<p>      <\/a><\/p>\n<p>Smith said she&#8217;s since realized the best thing to do is ignore the haters and live her life the way she wants to.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Then all the comments would be like, &#8216;She&#8217;s lying, she&#8217;s gaslighting us,'&#8221; she explained, &#8220;and I&#8217;m like, I literally cannot win. And I think that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve learned. People don&#8217;t want to hear the truth. They don&#8217;t care for the truth. They care about what they wanna hear and what serves them. So the less I say, kind of the better.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It preserves my energy,&#8221; she concluded. &#8220;There&#8217;s no point in me saying something that someone doesn&#8217;t even wanna hear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>      <a id=\"gallery-link-6ea28863-a785-4814-8bc8-e09fedda417c\" class=\"media-link gallery-block__link js-track-link js-click-gallery\" href=\"https:\/\/toofab.com\/photos\/2025\/07\/09\/orlando-blooms-family-photo-dump-include-katy-perry-pics\/\" data-node-ref=\"toofab:gallery:6ea28863-a785-4814-8bc8-e09fedda417c\" data-context=\"{&quot;name&quot;:&quot;gallery-block&quot;,&quot;section&quot;:&quot;permalink&quot;}\" data-container-ref=\"toofab:article:137885c2-6dec-4562-8cdc-5a8833bfd5c6\" data-gallery-layout=\"carousel\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\"><br \/>\n        <img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/d52c3ddb528c403bada32c9b639f9d08_md.jpg\" width=\"825\" height=\"618\" class=\"img-fluid gallery-block__img-fluid img-aspect-auto\"\/><\/p>\n<p>      <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"&#8220;They project onto it that I&#8217;m in the kitchen and trapped and I&#8217;m just at home and he&#8217;s&hellip;\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":722,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[57],"tags":[236,88],"class_list":["post-721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-celebrities","tag-celebrities","tag-entertainment"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/721","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=721"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/721\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/722"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=721"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=721"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=721"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}