{"id":760094,"date":"2026-07-13T09:38:22","date_gmt":"2026-07-13T09:38:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/760094\/"},"modified":"2026-07-13T09:38:22","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T09:38:22","slug":"her-in-laws-thought-weight-comments-were-acceptable-so-she-set-about-proving-them-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/760094\/","title":{"rendered":"Her In-Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-841720\" class=\"wp-image-841720\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Woman doing a sitting exercise at home\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Twisted-Sifter-3504.jpg\" data-lazy- data-lazy-\/><\/p>\n<p id=\"caption-attachment-841720\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Pexels\/Reddit<\/p>\n<p>Family comments can sometimes go too far.<\/p>\n<p>The following story involves a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/AmItheAsshole\/comments\/1ticmtc\/aita_for_losing_weight_after_my_inlaws_kept\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener nofollow\">woman who moved abroad<\/a> with her husband and immediately faced constant remarks about gaining weight from her in-laws.<\/p>\n<p>They kept insisting she would get chubby, and even told her to buy bigger clothes before moving.<\/p>\n<p>After gaining some weight at first, she decided to make a change for herself\u2026 but her in-laws didn\u2019t stop with their uncolicited comments.<\/p>\n<p>Uh oh! It sounds like some messy family drama. Let\u2019s take a closer look!<\/p>\n<p>I (23F) moved abroad with my husband (28M) about a year ago.<\/p>\n<p>Before we moved, my MIL (57F) and SIL (32F) constantly made comments.<\/p>\n<p>They said I was definitely going to gain weight once I got there. They said it all the time.<\/p>\n<p>They would say things like, \u201cJust wait until you move there. Everyone gains weight.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou should buy bigger clothes now,\u201d and \u201cYou\u2019ll see, you\u2019re going to get chubby.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Stuff like these.<\/p>\n<p>This woman did gain 13 pounds in the first couple of months after they moved.<\/p>\n<p>At first, I laughed it off. I told them I was not planning on gaining weight.<\/p>\n<p>I said I would try to stay active and eat normally.<\/p>\n<p>They acted like it was impossible not to gain weight there.<\/p>\n<p>To be fair, during the first couple of months after moving, I did gain around 13 pounds.<\/p>\n<p>It was a new country. There was stress. I was eating out more and had a different routine.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to lose weight and change her habits.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, I started feeling uncomfortable in my body.<\/p>\n<p>I decided to lose the weight for myself. I changed my habits slowly.<\/p>\n<p>I started cooking more and walking more. I lost about 33 pounds total.<\/p>\n<p>Part of it honestly was because I wanted to prove them wrong.<\/p>\n<p>I am not going to lie. Their comments got under my skin.<\/p>\n<p>Now, they think she\u2019s too skinny and maybe developing unhealthy habits.<\/p>\n<p>Now, my MIL keeps telling me I am getting too skinny.<\/p>\n<p>She says people will think my husband does not feed me and that he is starving me.<\/p>\n<p>This is ridiculous. My husband has been supportive the entire time.<\/p>\n<p>He tells me he only cares that I am healthy and happy.<\/p>\n<p>He also cares that I am not developing an unhealthy obsession with weight loss or food.<\/p>\n<p>Now, she\u2019s wondering if she had been petty about it.<\/p>\n<p>For context, I am eating normally. I am not underweight or anything extreme.<\/p>\n<p>My weight is 132 pounds. I am 5 foot 4 inches tall.<\/p>\n<p>Now. I am wondering if I became petty about the whole thing.<\/p>\n<p>Part of my motivation was wanting to prove them wrong\u00a0after months of comments about my body.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"envelope 80 Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" height=\"60\" width=\"60\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/envelope-80.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Never Miss a Story<\/p>\n<p>Sign up to get our BEST stories of the week straight to your inbox.<\/p>\n<p>AITA?<\/p>\n<p>First of all, the comments were unhelpful and unnecessary.<\/p>\n<p>In the first place, it was the MIL and SIL who were the ones obsessed with telling OP she\u2019s going to get fat.<\/p>\n<p>But when she started losing weight, they switched sides and told her she\u2019s too skinny. Seriously, what do they want from her?<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, at this point, proving them wrong feels pretty satisfying. Don\u2019t you think so?<\/p>\n<p>Trending and Popular If you enjoyed this story, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/a-woman-is-asked-to-become-legal-guardian-of-her-schizophrenic-older-brother-and-she-questions-whether-shes-ready-for-the-responsibility\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">check out this post<\/a> about a woman who isn\u2019t sure she\u2019s ready for the responsibility of being the legal guardian for her schizophrenic brother. <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/a-woman-is-asked-to-become-legal-guardian-of-her-schizophrenic-older-brother-and-she-questions-whether-shes-ready-for-the-responsibility\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" class=\"sifter-post-promo-button\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read The Drama\u2192<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s check out the comments of other people on this story.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s an honest opinion.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-841719\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 07 10 at 8.36.50 PM Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" width=\"800\" height=\"125\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Screenshot-2026-07-10-at-8.36.50-PM.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>This user shares some good advice.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-841718\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 07 10 at 8.39.14 PM Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" width=\"800\" height=\"300\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Screenshot-2026-07-10-at-8.39.14-PM.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Indeed, right?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-841717\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 07 10 at 8.39.42 PM Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" width=\"800\" height=\"153\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Screenshot-2026-07-10-at-8.39.42-PM.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>People are taking her side.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-841716\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 07 10 at 8.41.45 PM Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" width=\"800\" height=\"300\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Screenshot-2026-07-10-at-8.41.45-PM.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Finally, short and simple.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-841715\" src=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/wp-content\/plugins\/lazy-load-0.7\/images\/1x1.trans.gif\" alt=\"Screenshot 2026 07 10 at 8.42.32 PM Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" width=\"800\" height=\"137\" title=\"Her In Laws Thought Weight Comments Were Acceptable, So She Set About Proving Them Wrong\" data-lazy-src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/Screenshot-2026-07-10-at-8.42.32-PM.jpg\"\/><\/p>\n<p>Getting healthy is never something you should have to apologize for.<\/p>\n<p>Trending and Popular If you enjoyed this story, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/four-friends-signed-a-lease-on-a-gated-community-townhome-the-hoa-rejected-them-for-not-being-a-family\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">check out this post<\/a> about a group of friends who were denied a townhome lease because they\u2019re not considered a \u201cfamily.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/2026\/07\/four-friends-signed-a-lease-on-a-gated-community-townhome-the-hoa-rejected-them-for-not-being-a-family\/?utm_source=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_medium=IN-ARTICLE&amp;utm_campaign=IN-ARTICLE\" class=\"sifter-post-promo-button\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read The Drama\u2192<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/author\/heidelazaro\/\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">&#13;<br \/>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/07\/1783935502_15_cd5c81fc30d1068ef6ee6f130724307a6413027c6063a407fedb9a8062bc03c1.jpeg\"  class=\"avatar avatar-120 photo\" height=\"120\" width=\"120\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\"\/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Heide Lazaro is a veteran human-interest writer and digital culture expert with over a decade of experience in editorial strategy. Specializing in lifestyle, social dynamics, and the internet&#8217;s most compelling stories, Heide has authored and published more than 10 books online. Beyond her daily reporting, she is a dedicated motivational speaker who helps audiences connect through the power of storytelling. When she isn&#8217;t sifting through the web&#8217;s wildest real-life drama, Heide is an avid runner, painter, and novel-enthusiast fueled by a truly excellent cup of coffee.<\/p>\n<p>\n\t\tCategories: <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/life-drama\/family-and-relationships\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Family &amp; Relationships<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/category\/life-drama\/\" rel=\"category tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Life &amp; Drama<\/a>\t\t<br \/>Tags:  \u00b7 <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/aita\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">aita<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/comments\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">comments<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/husband\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">husband<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/mother-in-law\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">mother in law<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/obsession\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">obsession<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/picture\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">picture<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/pounds\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">pounds<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/reddit\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">reddit<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/top\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">top<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twistedsifter.com\/tag\/weight\/\" rel=\"tag nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">weight<\/a>\t<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pexels\/Reddit Family comments can sometimes go too far. 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