{"id":86684,"date":"2025-08-16T07:23:11","date_gmt":"2025-08-16T07:23:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/86684\/"},"modified":"2025-08-16T07:23:11","modified_gmt":"2025-08-16T07:23:11","slug":"scared-to-start-strength-training-i-was-too","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.newsbeep.com\/us\/86684\/","title":{"rendered":"Scared to Start Strength Training? I Was Too"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had arrived late and was scrambling. Where were the weights, and how many did I need? Was I feeling confident enough to grab the 10-pounders or should I risk silent ridicule from my fellow <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.equinox.com\/groupfitness\/body-sculpt-class\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.equinox.com\/groupfitness\/body-sculpt-class&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.equinox.com\/groupfitness\/body-sculpt-class\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Body Sculpt<\/a> attendees and retrieve a 4-pound set? \u201cThat\u2019s my spot,\u201d another student\u2014short, impressive muscles\u2014snapped. It was my first class, and I needed help. After more than three decades, I wanted my body to do <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/wellness\/2025\/jan\/09\/weightlifting-tips-beginner-strength-training\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/wellness\/2025\/jan\/09\/weightlifting-tips-beginner-strength-training&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/wellness\/2025\/jan\/09\/weightlifting-tips-beginner-strength-training\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">something new<\/a> and hard, but my anxious mind was not cooperating.<\/p>\n<p>I had started to see it everywhere, the message that women need to be stronger. In May, the writer Casey Johnston released a memoir called <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/casey-johnston\/a-physical-education\/9781538773253\/?lens=grand-central-publishing\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/casey-johnston\/a-physical-education\/9781538773253\/?lens=grand-central-publishing&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hachettebookgroup.com\/titles\/casey-johnston\/a-physical-education\/9781538773253\/?lens=grand-central-publishing\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">A Physical Education<\/a>, about trading constant diets for weight lifting and discovering herself in the process, a real-life counterpart to Miranda July\u2019s fictional narrator in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/miranda-july-all-fours-novel-announcement\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">All Fours<\/a>, whose journey of self-actualization includes extramarital affairs and kettlebells. This summer, longtime Wall Street Journal reporter turned professional bodybuilder <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/annemariechaker.substack.com\/about\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/annemariechaker.substack.com\/about&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/annemariechaker.substack.com\/about\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Anne Marie Chaker<\/a> published Lift: How Women Can Reclaim Their Physical Power and Transform Their Lives, chronicling how a weight training habit pulled her out of a punishing rut. \u201cPsychologists who study sports behavior,\u201d she writes, \u201csay that the intensity of lifting weights actually fuels a rewiring of the brain\u201d\u2014apparently, my mind was going to reap the benefits as well. (Working out with weights has been linked to an improved nervous system in one study and a slowdown in cognitive decline in another.)<\/p>\n<p>Widely different parts of the cultural conversation\u2014from chatter on the morning shows to techy brain-science podcasts\u2014are homing in on the benefits. I saw one amusing video where a male bystander\u2019s smirk turned to bewilderment as a woman picked up dumbbells and started shadowboxing. There are legions of viral videos of this variety. Almost three quarters of adults are trying to <a data-offer-url=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/04\/09\/well\/eat\/protein-fact-check.html\" class=\"external-link\" data-event-click=\"{&quot;element&quot;:&quot;ExternalLink&quot;,&quot;outgoingURL&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/04\/09\/well\/eat\/protein-fact-check.html&quot;}\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2025\/04\/09\/well\/eat\/protein-fact-check.html\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">eat more protein<\/a>\u2014many seemingly upping their egg consumption in order to build muscle. Khlo\u00e9 Kardashian just released protein-dusted popcorn. (Protein supports muscle repair and growth after workouts.)<\/p>\n<p>And yet, like every other millennial woman whose preferred mode of exercise is Pilates and a walk through the park, I had only just begun to wonder about those intimidating objects\u2014hand weights, dumbbells, barbells, all the bells\u2014in the corners of the rooms where my low-impact exercise classes took place. I had long thought weight training had nothing to do with me\u2014my goal was to become lean and flexible, not muscular and strong. And for years I had been a runner, a pastime that only felt good after I had finished, filled with endorphins and superiority. But not long ago, I gave it up, facing an awareness of my body\u2019s weak spots. Perhaps I did need to face the bells. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.vogue.com\/article\/alexis-okeowo-blessings-and-disasters-personal-style-essay\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">New York is my home<\/a>, but I began training in London, where I was temporarily living\u2014it seemed I didn\u2019t have a moment to lose.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I had arrived late and was scrambling. Where were the weights, and how many did I need? 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