MISS MANNERS by Judith Martin, Nicholas Ivor Martin and Jacobina Martin
DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’ve had celiac disease for more than a decade, and it still hurts my feelings when people bring gluten-y cookies or cakes to group gatherings, and nothing for me.
When I bring gluten-free items, everyone can partake. If someone is vegan, I’ll make sure to make treats without butter. We’re talking small groups of four or five people, including me. Would it be wrong to chide people for not bringing anything for me?
GENTLE READER: Yes.
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